I'm going crazy! I can't help but think that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me!
Q. Okay, so I can't help but think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me! And in all reality, there is absolutly NO reason for me to be feeling that way. He has never done it before, and he always tells me how much he loves me and how I am the best ...
A. 12 September 2008: I don't like the expression 'once a cheater, always a cheater'. People who have insecurities can overcome them and change. People who do not like certain sexual activities can change their mind after trying it. People who don't like a certain type ... (read in full...)
Internet relationship - she cheated on me and the pain is just getting worse... Should I do the same to her?
Q. My online girlfriend who lives 2000 miles away had a one night stand at a party with some random dude the second week of us knowing each other. What hurt the most was that she was talking to me that night on msn too, while at the party, and pretty ...
A. 10 September 2008: I don't really want to have to be the one to say this, but it seems that she doesn't take 'online dating' as a serious thing. The fact that she gave you an account of what was going on between her and another guy at a party should tell you that she ... (read in full...)
What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?
Q. i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's ...
A. 10 September 2008: Firstly, it is completley wrong that you go through his phone. No one has the right to break someone else's privacy, no matter how close they are, and it's disrespectfull. If anything, he should be checking on you! You are the one that has cheated ... (read in full...)
Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?
Q. so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and ...
A. 9 September 2008: I hate the phrase once a cheater, always a cheater, because i know from experience that it is not true. However, this is dependant on the individual and only you know what this guy is like. Have you talked about WHY he cheated on you? If he feels he ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.
Q. Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend a...
A. 9 September 2008: Hmmm. It seems to me that the friends issue just has to do with age. Kids around your age like to make fun of it because they are still immature and they probably do not know how they are sexually orientated themselves yet. Judging by your age, you ... (read in full...)
Why does he bring stuff from my past we agreed to forget whenever we fight?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We went through a lot over a year ago. Everything has really been good and everything, but every time we get into an argument, my mistakes are brought up. Some happened a year ago, some happened 4 ...
A. 9 September 2008: Dazzerg has some good advice. It is possible that he may still feel sore or have issues with some of the stuff that he brings up. Also, if it is only in arguments that this is brought up he is probably just looking for ways to hurt you ... (read in full...)
I fell for the guy my friend likes while she was on vacation!
Q. hey i really need some help/ my best friend is in mexico and she has been gone for 3 months and she will return on sunday... and while she was gone i fell for the guy she likes!!! and im not suppost to i know if i told her it would really hurt her + ...
A. 20 August 2008: Firstly, I don't see how this guy can say he loves you when you haven't even been dating yet. Still, that is not the question you asked for advice on. If you like him and he likes you then there is nothing you can do about it. Wait until your friend ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but he fools around with me. I know he won't leave her. What can I do?
Q. two years ago i had started my first job when i had met dave. as soon as i had seen him i was infatuated by him. within a couple of days knowing him i had made up my mind that i liked him, even though i knew he had been dating someone for a year and ...
A. 19 August 2008: I would advise trying to 'ban' him from your life for a while. Get a new mobile number and if possible avoid him at work (if you still work with him). Don't fool around with him again, at all, he is using you like a sex toy. He knows that you'll be ... (read in full...)
I like the same guy as my best friend, what do I do?
Q. hey i need some help my best guy friend told me he liked me and i kinda like him to but im not suppost to like him cause my best friend does!!!! what should i do!!??...
A. 19 August 2008: Just because your best friend likes him doesn't mean you can't. It is a tricky situation and there isn't going to be an easy way about it, but if you like him and he likes you then you need to talk to your friend and tell her the situation. Explain ... (read in full...)
I'm insanely physically attracted to this guy, but not emotionally attracted, but I also have feelings for my ex!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i love him to death..however when recently i decided that i needed a break just to enjoy the single life for awhile and to give the relationship some breathing room (my physical attraction to him ...
A. 16 August 2008: You've been with your boyfriend/ex for 3 years, which shows that you obviously like each other. Your attraction to this other guy may be, as you have mentioned, because your opinion of your boyfriend's appearance has gone down, i.e you aren't ... (read in full...)
Go to counseling, deal with it or run?
Q. So, I've been with my now fiance for 2 yrs we've lived 2gthr 4 a while. He's caring and says that he wouldn't leave me and hasn't cheated. Problem is recently I found out he was dating his ex two months after we were "offical"! W...
A. 16 August 2008: I think you know the answer to that. From what you have said, your fiance needs help and getting married would be a wrong move, especially if your relationship is in this state. It is ultimatley up to you, but he has no respect for himself, obvious ... (read in full...)
I mean do all guys do this, and it's no big deal, or is it totally sleazy?
Q. I sent a very pretty girlfriend of mine to go work at my boyfriend's office as his secretary. She's 21, cute and little. At the time I didn't think much of it, I just knew he needed help. I can't work there b/c I have a FT job, and I was proud to be ...
A. 14 August 2008: It's hard to say. As a man in a relationship, I don't look at other women to 'fuel' my sex drive, neither do i fantasize about other women or worry about what clothes i am going to wear when working with female colleagues or friends, even attractive ... (read in full...)
What do you think, Is there ant hope for me?
Q. My bf of 4.5 years dumped me 2 weeks ago. He was acting distant and not really affectionate 3 weeks before we broke up. I knew he liked this younger girl at his job (we are only 21 yrs old btw and she just turned 17)... I kept asking and asking ...
A. 13 August 2008: It sounds like this guy wants to have his cake and it eat it. He's trying to lead you on by saying he is still in love with you and has feelings for you. This may be true, but if he loves you that much he wouldn't have left you for this other girl ... (read in full...)
He dates younger girls--is that okay?
Q. Is it bad for a 24/25 yr old male to be dating an 18 yr old female? i was on bebo and saw a comment on a guy i likes page and it said "ahaha you only date girls who were born in the 1990's"? so is it bad? does it make the "24" yr old seem desperate ...
A. 11 August 2008: I suspect the comment 'you only date girls who were born in the 1990's' was a reference to his preference for young women. I know plenty of 18 year old girls who have healthy relationships with older men and as a man i wouldn't see another guy as ... (read in full...)
He shows up everywhere--is he a stalker or is it fated?
Q. Hello guys, just a quick question. For about three months i have been bumping into this man. They don't appear to be usual meetings either. First he nearly knocked me down, which obviously set me off noticing him. It was my fault of course, cos i ...
A. 11 August 2008: This seems quite strange. Although it may be 'fate', that is something you must believe in personally for it to play a factor. It is quite possible he has been stalking you, especially if he asked you for a drink. However, as he didn't say a time or ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual because of what I've done with my friend?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now and i'm really happy with him. We are both students at the same university and live just next door to each other in rented student houses. Life at uni is a blast, we work hard but play harder, the ...
A. 11 August 2008: I think one route would be to tell your boyfriends what has happened and how you feel about each other. If you both feel attracted to each other and feel a strong emotional, physical and sexual connection then you should definitley let them know. ... (read in full...)
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