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anonymous
writes:hey i really need some help/ my best friend is in mexico and she has been gone for 3 months and she will return on sunday... and while she was gone i fell for the guy she likes!!! and im not suppost to i know if i told her it would really hurt her + .....he told me he likes me!! and i dont feel good at all about it but he always tells me he loves me and when he does i think of my best friend.. and he is going in to surgery today he left at 5 in the morning and the few nights before is when he told me he likes me a little more then a friend. and he said stuff like you are so the best i love you so much you make me so happy.... and since he is going into surgery he said i think im going to die with out you im going to miss you so much and i really really love you...!!!! and to be honest when he says that it does make me happy cause all of them are so sweet but i keep thinking about my friend........... is it really that bad?? i want to keep my relationship with both of them and.. p.s we are not going out........ please help!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): well if were you i would tell my frind cause if i dont and she finds out by other people then that would make it even
worse just brak it up to her tell her that you tried not falling in love with him but it just happend and tell her that you though and though about this but come to the same awnser that you love him and you feel very sorry and you dont want this friend ship to be over. but if she dosent forgive you well then this isnt wierred but this almost always happens and believ it or not some times they are still friends but some times well they arent so good luck
and well this is relly not good but still not that bad.
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reader, The Listener +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Firstly, I don't see how this guy can say he loves you when you haven't even been dating yet. Still, that is not the question you asked for advice on. If you like him and he likes you then there is nothing you can do about it. Wait until your friend gets back, talk to her about it and ask her if its okay if you two date. If she says no then respect her decision and know that you have kept a friend. If she says yes then go for it with this guy. That's my take on things anyway, you might want to get more advice from other people though.
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