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| | *enderlovingcare's profile:Due to be married on 30th may 2013 to my gorgeous Fiancee and Due to have our baby on oct 18th 2013.
I do not see myself as a therapist or someone that is full of knowledge, but I prefer to help people as I would a friend. I will always be honest but never judge mental. I will never differ from the question you have asked when writing an answer and I will always try to be positive. Some questions I will avoid, only because I feel it wouldn't be fair to give my opinion as I don't have a huge amount of knowledge in certain areas. finally, I will never EVER discriminate against anyone.
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Is my boyfriends sister affecting our relationship? What do I say?
Q. Okay, I'm sorry if this is long.. but I'm really confused. Basically, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I am totally and completely in love with him, I can't stay mad at him for longer that a minute, but lately.. something has been ...
A. 25 May 2013: UPDATE:
I am the OP of this question and We are due to get married in 5 days :D. We now live together and have done since October and have a baby due in october. The sister, did not buy any of the furniture, my partner bought it all. It's easy to ... (read in full...)
My supervisor on my new job doesn't like me, talks about me and I'm not happy!
Q. Why is this woman at work so horrible. I hate her? I just got a new job and I'm not happy at all. First day they couldn't provide me with a uniform so I came in with black smart clothes and I told my manager and she said it was fine. A...
A. 25 May 2013: I think you should talk to the highest manager. For example I work in retail in a supermarket. If this happened to me, I would not go to my department manager, I would go straight to the store manager. They are the ones that can file complaints and ... (read in full...)
He wouldn't even say "happy birthday" to me after I used all my lunch money to buy him birthday presents!
Q. i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was ...
A. 25 May 2013: Have you considered that maybe he thought of you more as a friend, and then it may have come as a shock to him when you told him you liked him? I remember when I was your age and boys used to happily talk and then I'd stupidly think that them tal... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend to be himself and not who he thinks I want him to be?
Q. My boyfriend is pretending to be someone he's not... I smoke pot, He knows that and he's fine with it. But after I told him, he never shuts up about "how much pot he smokes", and "how high he is right now". I don't know if he's lying just to seem ...
A. 20 May 2013: Maybe ignore those comments he says, and comment on the things you like about him that he doesn't make up? For example something you like about his personality that you know is his true self? Maybe he just has a lack of confidence and feels the need ... (read in full...)
I think I wasted my teenage years
Q. Hey guys. I'm wondering if anyone here can relate and give me some advice. I'm 19 years old and I feel like I've sort of wasted my teenage years and that I didn't really live the life of a normal teenager. I've never had a boyfriend, never really ...
A. 20 May 2013: I used to go to this club from the age of 10-16. I completely regret the way I was because I too feel like I wasted my teenage years for different reasons. I was constantly on the search for a boyfriend, and whenever someone liked me back, I would ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him
Q. There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even tho...
A. 20 May 2013: My partner had a friend like this. I told him to cut the relationship off because she obviously didn't accept the fact that we were together as every time we'd arrange to do something with her she'd agree thinking it was just them and when she found ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm during normal sex
Q. Ok so this is an explicit topic but I need advice on something, that's obviously why I am here. I am worried that I am loosing my sexual stamina. I am a 21 year old female and I have never had an orgasm by a mans penis. the only way I can orgasm is ...
A. 20 May 2013: I've been with my partner a year and have never once had an orgasm from just having sex. You need to ether get him to ether use a vibrator or his hand to stimulate you at the same time. It really upset my partner at first because he had obviously ... (read in full...)
Can ex's be friends without issues? My boyfriend still talks online to his ex every day!
Q. Hello Aunts. My question is based on my own relationship history and my boyfriend's. Whenever I have broken up with someone, I haven't been able to stay friends with my ex's, for whatever reason. I have had 3 serious relationships including my ...
A. 20 May 2013: In my opinion, this is never okay.
My partner didn't see this at first, but I was honest and I just said I'm not having you talking to someone else that you have slept with. It's true, why should you put up with it. you need to be blunt instead ... (read in full...)
How do I send her a text message to let her know I'm interested without sounding like a stalker?
Q. I got to know this girl at the end of the semester really well. She is my ideal girl. We spent a night together studying until 5 in the morning and we talked about how we can be OCD about certain things and talked about our family and personal ...
A. 20 May 2013: If she is interested (which it sounds like she is) then you won't sound like a stalker m'dear :).
surprise her? or tell her once you're on your way? It'd be sweet :). ... (read in full...)
How on earth do you break off a friendship that you feel is dragging you down?
Q. Hi, I have a friend who I have slowly been trying to move away from. We live in different cities and frankly i feel as though we have nothing in commmon. He is a gay man who I feel doesn't take me or anyone seriously. I also feel disrespected and...
A. 20 May 2013: I don't think you're being clear enough OP. Maybe just say in the nicest way possible. Look I feel like we've grown apart and we're two different people now. I know it sounds silly because it's like you have to break up but friendships are ... (read in full...)
Am I just paranoid or is he just not interested?
Q. My guy friend has been staring at me for the past few weeks. But we stopped talking (I don't know why though) but his 'last seens' were way back. So I know he hasn't been online. He talked to me twice face to face at school last week. I was hoping ...
A. 20 May 2013: Dear OP,
First of all, I think the first that we all make, is to use social networking and texts to try and figure things out. The only way you're going to figure things out is to arrange time with him. Meet up with, you say he's a close guy frie... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend really want the gift to be from both of us or is he just trying to get off cheap?
Q. My boyfriends sibling got married not too long ago. I wasn't able to make it to the wedding due to being away, but my boyfriend was the best man. He asked me if I wanted to go in on a wedding gift for his sibling. My question is, is my boyfrien...
A. 20 May 2013: I don't think you should read to much into this. He probably is trying to get a cheaper present, but then again it doesn't really matter. That's just what most men are like. I bought my partners sister her wedding gift and put his name on the card ... (read in full...)
How do I appologize to him?
Q. I've been seeing this guy kinda on and off. (He's 24, and I'm 21; I met him during my first year of art college). We were together for three months, then took a break that ended up killing the relationship. (I was super clingy at the time and cou...
A. 7 May 2013: My first option would be to note down everything you want to get out in a conversation, rehearse it in your head so you know what you want to say and instead of texting, ring him and ask him to come over so you can talk?
My second option (if you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I let another girl give me oral sex?
Q. I have seriously messed things up with my girlfriend and I need advice on how to put things right. Basically a few weeks ago I went out for my friend's birthday, my girlfriend didn't come as she couldn't get the time off work. I was annoyed ...
A. 7 May 2013: I think whatever you do, it's going to hurt her. People are saying you shouldn't tell her but lets think about how that will eventually work out? What if this girl eventually meets your girlfriend or you bump into her while your with your ... (read in full...)
A complete halt to affection. Help?
Q. Hey Aunts, I'd like to give you a little back-story about my relationship. We have been going out for nearly 3 years now (it'll be 3 in June). This past year we went off for our freshman year of college, both in the same school (because of the ...
A. 7 May 2013: Hmm, I'm not too sure about this one, but I think you should look at this more closely. If she said it feels like she's kissing a brother and she feels awkward doing it around you. Then I think she probably just wants to be friends but doesn't know ... (read in full...)
How did I go from having a boyfriend and good friends to having nobody?
Q. Hey everyone I'm hoping to get some advice here. I don't want to come off as a teenage drama queen but I have been just miserable lately. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years. He ended up meeting another girl and they became close rather quickly. ...
A. 7 May 2013: Your situation must be hard. I understand the fact that you probably feel lost because all of these people who were your close friends have now become distant with you. You say this girl said something to them about disliking you. If they have ... (read in full...)
How do you KNOW whether to stick with a relationship or simply admit defeat?
Q. How do you KNOW when the time is right to end a relationship? I've asked friends and the most common response I have received is that "you just know". I don't see how this is the case. I have been in a relationship for little over a year, but I fe...
A. 7 May 2013: How you know is the fact that you just said it yourself. The minute you start doubting the relationship and feeling like you want out, is the minute you tell her to avoid any more hurt than what is already going to occur. Be honest with her and just ... (read in full...)
I thought he was my soul-mate, but now he's with a girl who's everything he said he hates
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago. We'd been together 3 years. Completely out of the blue he sat me down and said that although he loved me, he couldn't be with me, I wasn't making him happy. I genuinely didn't see it coming - everyone used to say we ...
A. 7 May 2013: Maybe for now, it's your time to call up the girls and go out and have a good time. Forget everything, just remember your friends because they will always be there in the end. Your situation sounds horrible and I feel for you but by the sounds of ... (read in full...)
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