Rejected by her once before, but should I try again or will I make a fool of myself ?
Q. Hi all i was wondering what is everyone's views on a guy proposing twice. should he do it? to be more exact there is this girl whom i dated for a month and we got really close. as a matter of fact you would have sworn she was more into me than i w...
A. 13 July 2011: No i wouldn't if i were you. Take it slowly, don't rush things. If you do you'll probably scare her off. taking things too seriously too quickly often leads to disaster. you've both got loads of time to take before you get to that stage... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong that my parents don't trust me?
Q. what, what I did really that bad...?.. okay I am an only doughter of four and I feel like my parents over protect me... last night I went to my x-boyfriends ( were trining to work things out and take it slow) house to watch a movie..(we didn'...
A. 10 May 2011: i think this is true. I think you ned to hold your head up high and have a long hard talk with her. Jut tell her that you love her, that you appreciate their concern but you're nearly an adult. You need to explore the world and make your own ... (read in full...)
Sex painful after an abortion?
Q. Is it normal for sex to be so painful after having an abortion??...
A. 8 August 2010: No it's not see a doctor asap hun x... (read in full...)
Why do guys only pretend to like me until we have sex?
Q. why do guys pretend to like me, but they only want sex from me. then they start being rude and disrespectful....
A. 22 June 2010: because they are just tryng to see if they can just have sex with you,then the majority won't wanna see you again so they act like that. If you are seleping with them, 1 i hope you have used protection,and 2, stop this. The only way a guy is ever ... (read in full...)
Twisted relationship...
Q. Twisted r/ship - I broke up with the father of my son an he got married, recently I got a new bf who has a galfriend, we visit each other but on the other side my former bf came back, not for good but he pays rent and fees, claiming that he will one ...
A. 22 June 2010: Your poor son,if you're feeling mixed up imagine how he must feel!! regardless of whether he pays the bills, you are sleeping with 2 blokes who both have psrtners, and what kind of role is that setting for your son? Star standing on your own two ... (read in full...)
Is there a future in this?
Q. Hi folks, I have posted most of this in a diffrent question but from the advice that I took (with many thanks to all the people who took the time to reply) I find myself in a diffrent problem. I have known this woman online for 4 years, she is ha...
A. 21 June 2010: You said it yourself,she's married,got a child and will never leave him for you, So there is no future. It sounds like you're developing feelings or her, something that started as fun i going to end in you being heart-broken. And possibly not just ... (read in full...)
I'm I just paranoid and reading into things?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 5 years now. Last year June, he proposed and i said yes but since then we haven't gone ahead with anything as I'm 22 and I fear that marriage is a huge step, I just wanna be a little more older. So we've been going ...
A. 17 June 2010: Make it clear to yourself that if he doesn't change his ways soon, you'll leave him. Once you have made sure you're adament on this, let him know that he has to change and change soon,otherwise you'll be the first person to leave him.
As for m... (read in full...)
I want to pleasure my boyfriend but I get all shy..any advice?
Q. I'm in a sort of new relationship, we've been together about 2 months, and we are begining to try new things sexually (we have not actually had sex yet). I feel guilty because he is usually doing things to pleasure me, and I would like to try things ...
A. 8 June 2010: do a google search, you'll find plenty of information about what he may or may not like, and also how to build your confidence with these! Have you any toys of your own? if so, i know this might sound a bit strange, but if you have practice on them ... (read in full...)
Women only Has this happened to you when you were on your period
Q. im 15 and I came while i was on my period why did that increase my flow i get the blood comes from the vagina and so does the cum but why does it just make it worse like it made my like hard for the pad to absorb and i just like to know if this has ...
A. 6 June 2010: don't worry yourself about it. i agree with ebony's comment, but also what may have happened is that when u have an orgasm, your muscles contract and release,and so your body just pushed some out and that's why there is more. Is happened to me on a ... (read in full...)
As a working mom, do I need a maid?
Q. Dear Moms, I was wondering how you can be a working mom and raise your child on your own without having a house maid or a nanny full time to help you.. Im a soon to-be-mom and hope you can tell me about raising children on your own , as well as ...
A. 4 June 2010: leave the maid, what i do is leave the house to a once over once a week i.e polishin, cleaning bathroom, and just give the main room and kitchen a quick tidy up/clean til the evenings once things settle down and the kids are in bed. The first few ... (read in full...)
How do I bring him up in a conversation?
Q. before any one writes it is none of my business or butt out, I am only looking out for the people I care about, with that said here it goes. 6 year ago my wife of 6 yrs and I got a divorce , it was a mutual thing,we care about each other but w...
A. 4 June 2010: personally i would talk to her about on your own, without anyone there. Dont sound as though you're dictating to her, just explain that you want her to be careful, explain why you are concerned and just say you don't want the kids being around stuff ... (read in full...)
Friends with benfits? Yes or no?
Q. Hey everybody, i was wondering what your opioion on friends with benfits is. I have a male friend to who i am sexually attracted to, he shares these feeling as well. We want to start a friend with benfits type of relationship that includes ...
A. 4 June 2010: if you are hopin that he will commit to you after a while,then don't get into it as you will only ed up broken hearted. but if all you are after is someone to fool around and ave fun without,without al the strings of a relationship then g for ... (read in full...)
Is his looking at other women a sign?
Q. My question is about jealousy with my partner. It arised when i noticed that he is looking around in other women. But just looking around..Could it be warrysome about the future? I will give an example. We work in the same building and were hav...
A. 3 June 2010: it might be a sign... but at the same time this saying pops into mind "just because you're on a diet it doesn't mean you can't look at the menu". I have been with my parner for 4 ears, he as always admitted he looks at other girls but he say that he ... (read in full...)
How should I go about this situation?
Q. I have liked this guy(who is my best friends best guy friend) for a couple months now but I have tried to keep it quiet since I don't want things to be ackward. But after my prom He and I made out after prom then fooled around one night over the ...
A. 3 June 2010: It sounds like he doesn't want to settle in a relationship and thinks too much of you to have flings with...at least he aknowledges that it would hurt you. Just be yourself,don't mention it unless he does, but if he does, let him lead the ... (read in full...)
How should I go about this situation?
Q. I have liked this guy(who is my best friends best guy friend) for a couple months now but I have tried to keep it quiet since I don't want things to be ackward. But after my prom He and I made out after prom then fooled around one night over the ...
A. 2 June 2010: what i would do is text him just bein friendly and a bit bubbly somethin like "hey!!you fancy hangin out and havin a few games on something?" and see what kinda response you'l get. I have been in a couple of situations like that and being like that ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to help my depressed mum with all this going on?
Q. Hi all, this is a question about my relationships within my family my parents have been breaking up on and off all my life, they don't normally stay apart for longer than a few months and it's fine me and my sister can handle it because my mum c...
A. 2 June 2010: Sorry to hear about your mum being depressed, been there with my own mother and it isn't an easy task dealing with someone with depression i can promise you. I think your best bet is to talk to your mum on your own, have a heart heart about ... (read in full...)
Ex may have non-consentual indecent photos of me.
Q. Hi. My problem is this. I was with my ex for 7 years. Last April he left to be with someone else. Now he wants me to sell the house to give him money. Things have gotten a bit nasty but the other day he e-mailed me to say he had 'found' his old ...
A. 1 June 2010: Ring the police. Blackmail alone is illegal, and if he has photo's of you that he hasn't got consent for,i'm pretty sure that the police will confescate them. If you still have his messages keep them as they can use them as evidence and any phone ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010:
I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but you two were grinding each other naked...that's just asking for trouble if you don't want sex. In my book and am sure in the majority's book, if you werw to "grind up"against someone naked, it signals that actu... (read in full...)
Painful sex, is there something wrong with me?
Q. i had sex for the first time when my bf fingered me it was so painful but i never had any pain wen i did that to myself.when we had sex it was painful i couldn't feel anything but pain but my bf says that he liked it a lot. and when he went down it ...
A. 20 April 2010: first and foremost, if you used protection, then it's very doubtful that you are pregnant, if you didnt then it's possible so make ure you kep an eye on your cycle and pehaps talk o family planning clinic about ti, they ca help you there. Secondly, ... (read in full...)
How can he tell these lies???
Q. i am feeling so angry and stupid right now, me and my boyfriend broke up, i found out he was spending nights with someone else, he did not tell me,(although they swear as just friends), he knows that i do not trust him yet as he did cheat on me in ...
A. 20 April 2010: girl sorry to say thi but you need to snap back to reality because this person is a player!! i totally understand your anger at him, but this isnt doing you any favours holding onto him. If i were you i would change my number so that neither of them ... (read in full...)
Is it my fault he is controlling and abusive?
Q. Please help me I am so lost...I asked for advice a few months ago about part of my situation...I'm 21 and when I was just turned 18 I cheated on my then boyfriend with a guy who turned out to be a complete stalker/ obsessed compulsive lair. Let's ...
A. 20 April 2010: I too nce wen hrough a similar sitution in a past relationship, n he always used t sy it was my fault tha he was the way he was. BUUUT it wasn't. It was his choice to behave the way he did, and the same applies to you. It is NOT your fault, he makes ... (read in full...)
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