I'm always in a sexual mood!
Q. Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im ...
A. 19 December 2009: Nothing to worry about. That's just the hormones raging all over your body. When i was 15 i'd get erections in class all the time. As for the loneliness, use the spare time you have to find a hobby that you enjoy. Good luck... (read in full...)
Stay with boyfriend or go to far away college--which do I do?
Q. Hello. I have big ambitions to become a vet and i have the qualifications to go to university and do what i want. I also have a boyfriend with whom i've been with since i was just 13. So we are extremely close. The problem is the uni i want to go to ...
A. 14 December 2009: You should seriously consider this carefully. Not many people have a job that they love and it sounds like you really want to become a vet. Depending on how "far" the University is you can still see your boyfriend and though it may not be everyday ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to dream about a boy that doesn't even know I'm alive?
Q. hi, i was wondering... well...i had this dream about i guy i like and that we were together and me just lying in his arms... except he doesnt talk 2 me or practicaly know im alive but i was just wondering (because this isnt the first time iv had ...
A. 11 December 2009: Yes it's very normal and this probably isn't the last time you'll have dreams like this :)... (read in full...)
Why do people hate virgins so much?
Q. Why do people hate virgins so much? What did we ever do to be treated the way we are? It just isn't right.I never criticize my friends decision to have sex,so why cant they just respect my choices.It's not as if I'm some kind of saint constantly ...
A. 9 December 2009: Hi there i don't think anyone genuinely hates virgins. They just get teased for it by idiots. Most of the people who lose theirs early often end up regretting it and wishing that they'd have saved it for someone special. I agree with you buddy. ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue she shy guy or let him go?
Q. hi everyone ! I need some serious help! I like this guy so much and we are in the same class together, he is so shy !! I know that he likes me back, because I've seen him a lot of time looking at me but when I look at him, he looks away or leaves, ...
A. 9 December 2009: I think you should go for it and ask him out. A shy guy is very unlikely to ask you out because of fear of being rejected. Just go for it and have fun. Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Why are guys so interested in breasts?
Q. Why are guys so interested in breasts. I have to live with them and why are they so special. My boyfriend is always talking about them and he even gave them a nickname. I get a little uncomfortable sometimes and at others i love it. I always think ...
A. 8 December 2009: Because men are very visual and to us they're just great... (read in full...)
Is he dangerous or harmless?
Q. I have an online friend that is 40 years old and i'm 15. We met in a game. He plays around 7 hours per day in this game. At the beginning he spent a lot of his time with me and all our conversations were game related. He usually made me feel ...
A. 5 December 2009: This guy sounds like a total loser. What self respecting 40 year old can afford to play video games 7hrs a day?? Also seems to be a fantasist if he's calling you cute and saying that he'd die for you. He's manipulating you because girls your age ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend uses me for money
Q. [Moderator note: Age posted is incorrect] im 16 me and my bf have been pretty much been together for 2 years. we've had sex, quite alot and i fear that he will soon get tired of our relationship. we broke up earlier this year and he told me over ...
A. 4 December 2009: Why are you still with this monster honey?? To him you're just a talking bank account. He has no respect for you. You sound like a very caring intelligent young woman. Most of the girls i know wouldn't even lend their closest friends money. Break it ... (read in full...)
I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 and I have no idea what to get him for Christmas! He likes football, wrestling, nascar, etc. But, I have no idea what to get him what so ever. Any advice?...
A. 3 December 2009: You cant go wrong with a video game. Check which console(s) he has and then pick the latest game e.g if he has mostly shooting games then pick that, if its racing..e.t.c Also you cant go wrong with perfume/cologne but be careful with this and pick ... (read in full...)
We are just friends to him. If I tell him, I'm scared it will spoil everything!
Q. Hiya, i really really need your help on this one. There is this boy and he has been my friend now for like 2 years, but there is one slight problem, I have fancied him all along but just never told him. About 1 month ago we had just become friends ...
A. 2 December 2009: I think you should risk it tell him honey. If you don't it will drive you crazy as you'll forever be wondering "what if he said yes"? Beware though that it could ruin your friendship. If it does then he's not mature enough to handle something like ... (read in full...)
Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?
Q. I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college...
A. 2 December 2009: I think that you're finding it hard to settle which is why you want to leave. I'd advise you to go and talk to someone such as a Vicar/priest or any one who does that kind of work in your college. Leaving would be a very bad idea and I can ... (read in full...)
I joined the police academy to impress him. Is this a mistake?
Q. So I am 19 yrs old. I am in college to gain my BSN (bachelors n Science and Nursing). Not to long ago I met my friend and jus recently I have come attracted to him. He also recently graduated from the Police Academy in my city. We have been friends ...
A. 28 November 2009: It sounds like you're joining the Academy just to get his approval and acceptance. If you hadn't met your friend would you have even considered joining? If it's something that you truly want to do then go ahead, but if you're doing it just so ... (read in full...)
In love with an actor and it is affecting my real life relationship??
Q. okay, so i am in love with an actor, ryan reynolds. the guy from the proposal, okay? its getting in the way of mine and my boyfriend's relationship. but ryan is so so so so so so so so hot. i have a poster of him in my room. and look at videos of ...
A. 27 November 2009: This isn't love, it's a crush. You're "in love" with the image of Ryan Reynolds that's portrayed in the media. Who knows, in real life the guy could be a total ass and have qualities that you don't like. You'll just have to get over it because ... (read in full...)
He is 17 I'm 13 and I really like him A LOT !!
Q. Their is this 17 year old boy im 13 who is in my form because he is my mentor.. I really like him a lot, he looks at me and smiles and looks away and sometimes stares at me and when i notice, he looks away, then looks back when im not looking....
A. 25 November 2009: This is just one of many crushes that you will have. Nothing more. He probably likes you as a friend so it's highly unlikely that it will become anything more. In the meantime look for boys your own age.... (read in full...)
He seems so shy! Should I make the first move?
Q. hi! could anybody help me? well, I use public transport, and I see Mister X almost every day, when we both go to work. we look at each other tenderly, but don't dare to say hello. obviously he wants to talk to me but he's too shy... what sho...
A. 24 November 2009: Just say hi to him and I'm sure he'll say it back. If he doesn't then you can move on with your life knowing that you at least tried... (read in full...)
Is it possible to completely recover from your first love?
Q. A few years ago I fell in love with a girl for the first time. She never reciprocated any feelings that I had for her and we were never in any sort of relationship. I haven't spoken to her for the best part of a year, see her as rarely as possible ...
A. 19 November 2009: Yes it's completely possible and this sounds like just a crush. You just need to do something to occupy your mind that way you're not too hung up on her. Also go out there and you'll be surprised just how many girls are looking for relationships... (read in full...)
I have no emotional connection with my husband and am so unhappy!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have always been a smart girl, but I believe that I made a very bad decision. I met my now husband as a freshman in college. He sought after me for six months, but I began dating someone and did not return the calls. Well, after 6m...
A. 15 November 2009: It sounds like your husband has severe mental/emotional problems. Best thing to do would be to get him to go see a therapist because if he continues like this, then youre relatioship has no future and you will waste all your love on him. Have you ... (read in full...)
I need a light at the end of the tunnel!
Q. I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up,...
A. 14 November 2009: I felt the same way that you did. It's nothing to worry about. You're at probably the most important moment in your life so i'd advise you to study hard and get into a good university. This is your chance for a fresh new start so dont fret too much ... (read in full...)
Should I stay hopeful that my friend will return or just move on?
Q. I have noticed that my friends have gone through phases where one would kind of deviate from our group and started to hang out with another group. (And completely forget about us/not talk to us as much while they hung out with that group.) Most have ...
A. 13 November 2009: I think that you should move on with your life. Your friend is simply exploring other people and being freinds with you doesnt mean that she's not allowed to interact with other people.... (read in full...)
He orgasms so quickly!! Is this normal?
Q. I have a question which might sound sad, but I have been meeting this guy on and off for a while and we have kissed and on the last few times he has asked me to give him a hand job, the first time, he came quite quick and I was surprised but the ...
A. 13 November 2009: I think it's normal and maybe he could be inexperienced with girls which is why he gets excited easily... (read in full...)
Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?
Q. Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I ...
A. 11 November 2009: People who meddle with others for fun are usually very insecure with themselves and so picking on an easy target is their way of making themselves feel good. The only solution to this is to ignore them and just carry about your business... (read in full...)
I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.
Q. I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...
A. 11 November 2009: You should consider the fact that this relationship has no future. Any person that hits you isn't worth your time and doesn't deserve you. You're young and there are plenty of guys out there who would love to go out with you.... (read in full...)
My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?
Q. Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going ...
A. 10 November 2009: You're young and there will be plenty of boys that you haven't even met yet, Right now your priority should be on your GCSE's because they'll determine your future. I gnore all your "friends" and focus on that. Don't try and compare yourself to ... (read in full...)
Why a "secret" relationship?
Q. hey everyone, im having a problem. if you get into a relationship and he/she doesnt wanna tell certain people, does that mean he/she is ashamed of being with you infront of other people or does he/she think those people wouldn't understand?...
A. 8 November 2009: Most likely he/she is ashamed. I had previous experiences like that... (read in full...)
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