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Does her actions mean that it's over?

Q.   If you chat to girl that knows what you look like (pic only) changes because she knows you like her and got pissed that you flirted with her bt did not mind at first and the suddenly talks about new guy and only want to meet as friends. Does this ...

A.   30 July 2007: She probably got creeped out by you. I got creeped out by reading the last bit of your question. Why are you looking for girls that are a lot younger? I think that you need to leave girls that are a lot younger than you alone. Why don't you try ... (read in full...)

He wants to get back together but I don't! How do I get that across to him?

Q.   Hi. I need some help in convincing my partner, (should be ex-partner by now) that our relationship is over. We were together just over 4 years and we split up last November. We decided to get back together early January but split again ...

A.   30 July 2007: Actions speak louder than words. If you want to convince him that your relationship is over, then start acting like it and do NOT contact him. There is nothing that you can do about him sending you text messages, but if he calls, don't answer. ... (read in full...)

How do I tell if my crush likes me?

Q.   how can i tell if my crush might be interested in me?shes twelve if that might help on finding out i have some clues like befor summer break she just out of no were hugged me but when i gave her my email she never emailed me how do i know if she ...

A.   29 July 2007: Hey Chris, in regards to the body language, the most important thing to pay attention to is her smile. People smile at what they like. Just remember to smile at her and see if she smiles back.... (read in full...)

Getting over someone who does not love you back.

Q.   hey guys i was wondering if u could give me any tips on dealing with or getting over loving someone who u know doesnt love u back, im finding it so hard...

A.   29 July 2007: It is never easy getting over someone whom you have had feelings for. What you need to do is get out in social settings and meet new people. Go out to places that have something to do with things that you are interested in. At these places you ... (read in full...)

Quickest ways of losing weight.

Q.   whats the quickest way to lose weight? im 14, size 12 and weigh 11 stone and i hate the way my body looks. everyone around me and most of my friends are thinner than me and i hate being the big one. ive tried loads of diets but none of them see...

A.   29 July 2007: There is no way for you to lose weight quickly. The human body does not rapidly change. The best that things that I can recommend change your diet to mostly green leafy vegetables. Also, keep on excercising. If you eat salads with low-fat ... (read in full...)

How do I tell if my crush likes me?

Q.   how can i tell if my crush might be interested in me?shes twelve if that might help on finding out i have some clues like befor summer break she just out of no were hugged me but when i gave her my email she never emailed me how do i know if she ...

A.   28 July 2007: Hey Chris, the bowling is exactly the type of group activity that I was suggesting. The fact that it is a league is even better, because that will give you several chances to see her. That means that you don't have to rush everything into one ... (read in full...)

How do I tell if my crush likes me?

Q.   how can i tell if my crush might be interested in me?shes twelve if that might help on finding out i have some clues like befor summer break she just out of no were hugged me but when i gave her my email she never emailed me how do i know if she ...

A.   28 July 2007: Hey Chris, the only way you can tell if she likes you is if you contact her. Just because she hasn't emailed you doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. It might be that she hasn't had a chance to get on the computer. Maybe she hasn't emailed you ... (read in full...)

I want to get over someone that I was'nt really with, but care for, any advice?

Q.   i in the middle of trying to get over some one who i was not with but some one i really liked, but now hes got a new girlfriend. i have such low self esteem at the moment which doesnt really help but i was wondering if anyone has any tips to share ...

A.   27 July 2007: I recommend that you go out and do things in social settings. If you go out to the pub there are going to be other people there for you to socialize with. Now while you are there don't just sit in a corner sipping your drink. Get up and play ... (read in full...)

Should i ask her about her past sexual experiences?

Q.   I started dating this girl about 5 weeks ago. We just met this summer and we started dating about a month after we met. The relationship has been great so far and she's the first girl I have ever loved and she says I am the first guy she has love...

A.   26 July 2007: Hey stt87, why are you so concerned about her past? What really matters is the present. And right now she is with you. When people focus on what is behind them, then they don't see all the great things that are around them right then. The thing ... (read in full...)

Guy's only hit on me when they are drunk.

Q.   Do guys get put off by really quiet shy girls? I'm very quiet and shy (maybe a little bit uptight as well) but I'm not moody or anything just haven't got much confidence in myself etc and guys only seem to chat to me / hit on me when they're drunk. ...

A.   26 July 2007: Have you consicered that maybe these guys need a little bit of "liquid courage" to work up the nerve to approach you? That's the way it sounds to me, which must mean that you're quite a catch. I can relate to your shyness. I suggest that you talk... (read in full...)

I can't decide if I want to be with him, or be single

Q.   I have posted a problem on this page once before and last time it proved quite helpful so I thought I'd try again. Last time I wrote that I hated cheaters but I turned into one and was debating whether to tell my boyfriend. I decided i would. ...

A.   26 July 2007: I think that the fact that both of you cheated means that the bells have tolled on this relationship. It seems that the relationship was too much effort to make either of you satisfied with it. You are probably wanting to keep onwith the ... (read in full...)

He kissed someone else by mistake.

Q.   Boyfriend of 3 years kissed a coworker by mistake i want him back he dont want to be with her and he dont feel the same about the relationship he dont think we can get back what we had HELP!!!...

A.   26 July 2007: How did he kiss her by mistake? Did he trip over something and she kept him from falling by catching him with her lips? Did he suffer from a halucination and think that she was you? Maybe he realizes that kissing her was a mistake, but from your... (read in full...)

Shall i give him another chance.

Q.   I need advice. I have just split up with my fiance as he has kissed another girl. i dumped him once before because of the same thing. However, he promised that he could make me trust him and we got back together. Since then, I have never reall...

A.   26 July 2007: Ditch this scumbag. You don't even owe him an explanation. Ther are plenty of trustworthy guys out there who are way better than you (ex)fiance. They have not done anything hurtful to you, so why aren't you giving them a chance? A rela... (read in full...)

Girls don't seem to be interested in me, what am I doing wrong?

Q.   hey, i'm 15 and no girls ever seem to be interested in me. i've been told im fairly good looking and have a good personality, so wat am i doing wrong?? ...

A.   26 July 2007: Your problem is that you're worrying about it too much. This has probably made you a little less confident as well. I noticed that you stated that you've been told that you look good and have a good personality. That's nice to know, but do you ... (read in full...)

He told me I wasn't giving him oral properly and I felt bad; even though he's far too rough with clitoris, I don't want him to feel bad like I did

Q.   Hi guys. Help me out a bit please. When my boyfriend plays with me, he sometimes does it too rough on my clit or too much on the reeeeally sensitive bit of my clit. I like it when he plays with me and don't want to just do sometig else so that he ...

A.   25 July 2007: That's great that you two are talking about what works and what doesn't, all too often people don't communicate and the problem doesn't get worked out. I hope that you aren't too upset with your boyfriend for making you feel patronized, but he ... (read in full...)

I worry I might be being played again; do all men act this way after their first sexual contact with a person?

Q.   What goes on in a man's head when he's had some sort of sexual contact with his girlfriend for the first time, whether it's oral sex or full sex? I've always regretted splitting up with my first love as he is the only one who has bolted after ...

A.   25 July 2007: There are all types of different men out there. Some are "players" just looking for another notch to put on their belt. Others are the "nice guys" who put women up on a pedestal. Guys that are players will disappear once they've had their ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is an angel but thinks she's worthless, how can I make her see what I see?

Q.   my girlfriend iv been seeing for 6 months and known a year is wonderful, shes beautiful, funny, clever, and so caring to everyone even people she doesnt kno, and i love her very much. only problem is she has no self esteem and thinks shes useless, ...

A.   25 July 2007: Man, I have to say that I'm somewhat envious of you. You are really lucky to have such a wonderful woman in your life. My advice is to tell her how lucky you feel you are to be involved with her. It might be that she will understand that better b... (read in full...)

My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy

Q.   Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...

A.   25 July 2007: Is her male friend homosexual? The answer to that question should be the answer to your question. Going on vacation is something that I would be somewhat suspicious about. On vacation, they might do some drinking, which lowers inhibitions. Also, ... (read in full...)

My ex who took my virginity wants to get together

Q.   I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...

A.   25 July 2007: He can give you an apology over the email. Don't waste your time or energy on him. If he is able to regularly maintain a caring relationship with you over the email for an extended period of time (3-4 months), then maybe he is being genuine and ... (read in full...)

She thrives on attention from other people and doesn't understand why it bothers me

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are in a distance relationship and recently got to go camping together with about 10 or so friends, mostly mine but some both of ours. She is a much more outgoing person then I am and easily gets the attention of other people, ...

A.   25 July 2007: Sometime when you're not upset, bring this subject up. Ask her how she would feel if the situations were reversed and you were the one who was engaging in this behavior. If she says that it wouldn't bother her, then accept that as her answer. ... (read in full...)

I'm needy in my relationship, how do I stop it?

Q.   how do i stop being to needy in my relationship?...

A.   25 July 2007: Start doing more things on your own for yourself. We all want to feel loved, wanted, and needed. But you have to love yourself first. No one will love you more than you love yourself. It is hard to do, but in every scenario of your relationship, ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with this girl but she says she doesn't want to go out with me because we're best friends

Q.   I'm completely in love with my best friend. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl. She is smart, funny, is interested in the the same things I am (the list goes on). I've told her that I had feelings for her, but since we are best friends ...

A.   24 July 2007: If she's in another relationship, do not interfere. If you did and she started seeing you, what makes you think that after a little time, she wouldn't leave you for somebody new. Go ahead with your life and do things that you want to do (without ... (read in full...)

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