Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex
Q. To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...
A. 4 September 2017: And thanks for the advice honeypie, everything you've said about the escalating drug abuse is very spot on. It's a very difficult thing to watch transpire in front of your eyes. I live in a very fast city, home to the entertainment business and as ... (read in full...)
Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex
Q. To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...
A. 4 September 2017: Don't worry, wiseowl, I wasn't nasty or mean to her. I in fact have great sympathy for her. I just politely and succinctly laid out that her lifestyle wasn't a good fit for me and that it doesn't mean I don't have love for her. ... (read in full...)
Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex
Q. To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...
A. 3 September 2017: Thought you guys deserved an update: so I pretty much confirmed that she's been fucking this guy for drugs and confronted her about it. Our initial phone conversation through me because during that early Chit Chat part, she revealed to me that shes ... (read in full...)
Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex
Q. To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...
A. 2 September 2017: Thanks for the straight up talk Wise Owl, I really appreciate your honesty. If I'm being completely honest, I really do not get off on being the White Knight. My only concern for her is that I've seen drugs destroy people's lives and while I try not ... (read in full...)
Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex
Q. To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...
A. 2 September 2017: Oh ruby, I really appreciate you taking the time to council me through these times, I have absolutely no idea why I am attracted to this type of woman. I promise you that I'm not doing it on purpose and that I don't want this type of drama or ... (read in full...)
Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?
Q. So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...
A. 8 July 2017: LMFAO! I happen to be a writer, so every now and then I say things like that. I'm kind of good with words.
Also I don't know if this been affecting her but I recently found out that she's has clinical depression and is supposed to take medicati... (read in full...)
A week after our second date she has sex with someone then texts me making small talk unaware that I know about it. What does she want?
Q. I recently went out with a girl whom we share mutual friends. I kissed her goodnight and later on she texted me what a pleasant time she had. The next day I texted her something about wanting to kiss her again before some party we were both invited ...
A. 8 May 2016: I feel like I need to throw some more information out about this woman and how I decided to you and go out with her in the first place as well as other activities he partook in at this party. Now, the first time we went out it was a quick little d... (read in full...)
A week after our second date she has sex with someone then texts me making small talk unaware that I know about it. What does she want?
Q. I recently went out with a girl whom we share mutual friends. I kissed her goodnight and later on she texted me what a pleasant time she had. The next day I texted her something about wanting to kiss her again before some party we were both invited ...
A. 7 May 2016: Thanks, and I get that. Honestly it's like GI Joe used to say "Now you know and knowing is half the battle" clearly I didn't know about these personality traits beforehand, but I'm aware now. You can only act with the information that you possess on ... (read in full...)
A week after our second date she has sex with someone then texts me making small talk unaware that I know about it. What does she want?
Q. I recently went out with a girl whom we share mutual friends. I kissed her goodnight and later on she texted me what a pleasant time she had. The next day I texted her something about wanting to kiss her again before some party we were both invited ...
A. 7 May 2016: Chigirl, let me clarify something. We weren't supposed to go to this party "together" we were just BOTH invited. I made no promises to attend to her or our mutual friends who threw it. Merely acknowledge that I received an invitation and was ... (read in full...)
A week after our second date she has sex with someone then texts me making small talk unaware that I know about it. What does she want?
Q. I recently went out with a girl whom we share mutual friends. I kissed her goodnight and later on she texted me what a pleasant time she had. The next day I texted her something about wanting to kiss her again before some party we were both invited ...
A. 7 May 2016: I'm 31 And She's 34. ... (read in full...)
She doesn't seem into me at all, constantly talks to her ex'es, no intimacy with me, yet talks of "our" future. What's going on?
Q. Hello, I wondered whether somebody could help me with what may seem to be a small problem, but to me is massive. I recently started going out with a girl that I have known for around 20 years. We had a couple of brief sexual encounters a few ...
A. 13 February 2016: Hmm. Sounds a bit like she's playing you, mate. She gave you a taste to hook you, dangles the promise of a "future" together but has since stopped all physical intimacy? There's an old saying "some people aren't looking for love, they're looking for ... (read in full...)
I was ready to move for her then she starts a relationship with another guy. I don't know what to do. I'm heartbroken.
Q. I've been in love with a specific girl since I met her two years ago. She's everything I ever wanted. We've never been out of contact with each other, even when we both had significant others. Those relationships ended badly for both of us. I live ...
A. 9 February 2016: This was her response to my email: "Yes, I made a joke when I told you I'm bad at being single. It was hard to tell you I'm now seeing someone. I'm sorry I didn't choose you but you have to get over it. You tell me you want me to leave you alone ... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to her altogether and if I see her should I ask for any explanation re the bar incident?
Q. Never been in this situation before so I thought I'd ask for the insight of those perhaps more experienced than myself. So, I've been texting this girl I met met at a bar for about a month. So on the 15th we had drinks, made out, etc. So I hit ...
A. 26 October 2015: No, that's incorrect, I've been in contact with her everyday since. I contacted her this weekend in an attempt to make plans with her and didn't reach her. ... (read in full...)
She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.
Q. Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...
A. 27 August 2015: I know from experience that you cannot make someone love you. The matter how many signs they throw your way that they enjoy your company and have fun with you sexually. In my opinion the best thing that you can do is to cut off all communication ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 18 August 2015: I've told her that "I don't do with my friends what I did with you. I never wanted to be your friend. I wish you and this guy you're seeing all the best. Love." I haven't spoken to her in about a week and have most likely won't ever initiate contact ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 11 August 2015: Yes, he told me she was in a very abusive, controlling relationship when they worked together. She had just got out of it when they started working together a few years ago. He says She never got detailed with him. He just remembered the dude would ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 10 August 2015: Yes, this was the first time that I've heard from her in 5 days. I removed her from every social media outlet and have made zero attempts to contact her since. She must've noticed my complete and deliberate absence from her life. ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 10 August 2015: So she texted me last night asking if I'm x-ing her out of my life. So I asked her if she's avoiding the question I asked her. She denies ever receiving the message and took a screen shot of her texts to prove it. She then asked what was the ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 5 August 2015: A girl who says she is "not ready for a relationship" may literally mean the very idea of dating terrifies her at the moment for whatever reason. She may be politely avoiding telling you that she doesn't find you attractive. She might be the ... (read in full...)
Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?
Q. I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...
A. 5 August 2015: I've had a lot of different relationships. so going into anything new I'm usually very cynical. now it took me a very long time to woo her so to speak, and I never skipped any steps. Now initially she may have said I don't want a relationship, bu... (read in full...)
When will I finally get over the breakup?
Q. So, you have been recently dumped. You had to dump someone else. Maybe you're still in the "no contact" phase after the breakup. Months or years have passed. There is still an ache in your heart for that person. Sometimes it overtakes you ...
A. 10 April 2015: This really helped me. Thanks for sharing. ... (read in full...)
I think my Ex GF Has Borderline Personality Disorder
Q. I've recently broken up with my gf of about a year. I loved her more than any woman I've ever been with, but throughout the relationship she exhibited signs of mental instability that I overlooked or made excuses for because I love her. Someone ...
A. 9 April 2015: Seeing how I'm not a medical professional of course I understand that I cannot officially diagnose her and I have zero intention of bringing any of this up to her or her new boyfriend. Understand that I did not come to any of these conclusion... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex give me back my garage door opener? Is she punishing me or does she want me back?
Q. I broke up with my ex about a month ago, we were together almost a year though a LOT of ups and downs. She was frequently insecure and jealous and would always accuse me of trying to sleep with other women. We're talking about friends 10 years ...
A. 19 March 2015: Saw my ex last night. She called me asking if she could stop by then finally brought me my clicker. We hugged. I gave her a goodbye bottle of wine. And that was that. Hugging her kinda punched my heart. But it's over... (read in full...)
Broke up recently. Have I lost the love of my life? How do I get over this?
Q. I broke up with my ex a month or two ago and recently I've been feeling very sad and melancholy. She was only girlfriend I ever had who I could see myself seriously marrying. We would look at houses and discuss what our kids would look like. She's ...
A. 17 March 2015: Contacting her won't do any good. I've already written her to exceptionally eloquent letters telling her how much I love her and she pretty much told me to fuck off and that we shouldn't talk anymore. Which through me for a loop because after vday ... (read in full...)
Broke up recently. Have I lost the love of my life? How do I get over this?
Q. I broke up with my ex a month or two ago and recently I've been feeling very sad and melancholy. She was only girlfriend I ever had who I could see myself seriously marrying. We would look at houses and discuss what our kids would look like. She's ...
A. 16 March 2015: She initiated the breakup. we stopped having sex for about a month before (all her doing) and every time we'd go out she'd pick a fight. It was like paying to be yelled at. I didn't call her for a week to spend time with people who actually valued ... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex give me back my garage door opener? Is she punishing me or does she want me back?
Q. I broke up with my ex about a month ago, we were together almost a year though a LOT of ups and downs. She was frequently insecure and jealous and would always accuse me of trying to sleep with other women. We're talking about friends 10 years ...
A. 8 March 2015: A valentines day gift was not some sort of veiled attempt by me to win her back but merely a gesture of appreciation for the time we spent together. Throughout our courtship I've always made it a priority to treat her with respect and kindness and ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the women I am seeing will fall apart if I would end things and I'm feeling the pressure
Q. So, here's the situation. I've been seeing a woman that I met through mutual friends for about 3 months now. Generally, she's cool and very bubbly. I'm a little freaked out right now. She just came over and I told her that a friend of mine t...
A. 27 July 2014: Thanks for the help everyone. Especially, Euphoric29. I'm positive when I tell her that we shouldn't date anymore that she's not going to take it very well. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the women I am seeing will fall apart if I would end things and I'm feeling the pressure
Q. So, here's the situation. I've been seeing a woman that I met through mutual friends for about 3 months now. Generally, she's cool and very bubbly. I'm a little freaked out right now. She just came over and I told her that a friend of mine t...
A. 26 July 2014: So...last night we had an argument and it got really heated. She slapped me and shoved me and told me to get out of her house and never come back. Sometime after I left She left 17 voice messages on my phone. I wasn't replying because I told h... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the women I am seeing will fall apart if I would end things and I'm feeling the pressure
Q. So, here's the situation. I've been seeing a woman that I met through mutual friends for about 3 months now. Generally, she's cool and very bubbly. I'm a little freaked out right now. She just came over and I told her that a friend of mine t...
A. 24 July 2014: So, the night before last we had an argument and she left my house in tears. She repeatedly called me and I opted not to answer my phone. So the next day I awake to 7 missed calls that morning a text message saying "I'm here. Please open the door." ... (read in full...)
Woman I'm sleeping with is becoming weird and clingy, how do I handle it?
Q. Okay, So I have a little dilemma. I've been sleeping with this woman I met. She's cool and everything and when we hang out we have a nice time, but she's becoming extraordinarily clingy. She texts things like "Do you miss me? What do you miss...
A. 29 April 2014: Here's the thing Maureen1979, I think she's very intelligent and cool, so even if I have to cut off the sex by setting her straight and having "The Talk" as some have mentioned. I'd still very much like to keep her as a friend. If that's even ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on best friend's hot roommate!
Q. My buddy recently got a new roommate, who just happens to be a really sexy, intelligent, funny girl, who does awesome shit like make pancakes and watches all my favorite movies. It's very hard not to be attracted to her. He went out and left us ...
A. 22 October 2013: You've all made some very valid points, I think I'm going to take things slow and see what develops. She's definitely the kind of girl I'd want to have a relationship with and not just a fwb thing. Unrelated side note, my friend is dating her good ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with ALWAYS making dates and then not going through with them?
Q. Okay, so about 2 weeks ago I'm in the grocery store and this girl is checking me out. It occurs to me to hit on her, but I ultimately don't. On my walk home, the same girl pulls up beside me and starts chatting me up. She tells me I'm perfect, cute ...
A. 26 September 2013: I was curious to see if she was blowing me off so I texted her one final time on monday inviting her to a big party this weekend just to see if she'd reply and she just responded 3 days later saying "Hey love, I haven't forgot about you just very ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with ALWAYS making dates and then not going through with them?
Q. Okay, so about 2 weeks ago I'm in the grocery store and this girl is checking me out. It occurs to me to hit on her, but I ultimately don't. On my walk home, the same girl pulls up beside me and starts chatting me up. She tells me I'm perfect, cute ...
A. 23 September 2013: We haven't gone out on a date yet. She always suggests the days we should meet up then we don't. From what she's told me she has a busy life (5:30 am dance class, managing her own business, gym, etc) but I find it hard to believe she's that busy. ... (read in full...)
My best friend was molested as a child and has deep emotional issues because it. I'm in love with her, but don't know how to help her. Please tell me what to do!
Q. I'm struggling with a problem that's destroying me. I'm helplessly in love with my best friend. She's everything I ever wanted in a girl. Unfortunately, she's extremely broken. She was molested on different occasions by her brother and her uncle and ...
A. 28 June 2013: I've been reading up on post traumatic stress disorder and I think my friend definitely has this stemming from her sexual abuse as a child . She exhibits all the symptoms such as Nightmares (either of the event or of other frightening things), ... (read in full...)
My best friend was molested as a child and has deep emotional issues because it. I'm in love with her, but don't know how to help her. Please tell me what to do!
Q. I'm struggling with a problem that's destroying me. I'm helplessly in love with my best friend. She's everything I ever wanted in a girl. Unfortunately, she's extremely broken. She was molested on different occasions by her brother and her uncle and ...
A. 26 June 2013: She told me that in the past she was seeing a therapist, but she hasn't in a long time. Just going by the things that she's told me and her behavior she may very well need to see one again, but I wouldn't begin to know how to bring that up with her ... (read in full...)
Hey guys, How often do things go well after getting a girl's number for you?
Q. I have a question for the guys on here. How often do things pan out? I mean, you meet a girl you like, you get her number. You text a little then nothing happens. I'd like to know how often this happens to other men because lately this has ...
A. 27 January 2012: i'm not asking about methods of communication, just curious as to out of a random number of women courted by the individual man how many of these become fruitful relationships. For example lets say a man gets the number of five women how many of ... (read in full...)
My friend/girl of my dreams is heart broken, but single now... should I make a move?
Q. So, apparently the object of my affection has officially cut all ties to the dude she was casually seeing and now she's single, We've become pretty good friends over the course of the few months I've known her, a fact that belies that I've always ...
A. 30 April 2011: @ deirdre11
I think you're definitely right about waiting a couple of weeks for her to sort out her feelings and get over having her heart broken before telling her how I feel.
Any suggestions on some non-intimidating wording I should use to ... (read in full...)
My friend/girl of my dreams is heart broken, but single now... should I make a move?
Q. So, apparently the object of my affection has officially cut all ties to the dude she was casually seeing and now she's single, We've become pretty good friends over the course of the few months I've known her, a fact that belies that I've always ...
A. 30 April 2011: You're not supposed to tell girls how much you like them, especially if they're your friends because that makes them scared and they run away. ... (read in full...)
Pointers on Asking your friend out on a date?
Q. I've decided on asking one of my female friends out on a date. Do you guys have any tips on how I should go about doing this? For instance, since we're already pretty good friends is it appropriate If I were to simply text her saying something like ...
A. 22 April 2011: This is all very good advice, however I have a question concerning the wording...Cerberus says that I should make sure she KNOWS it's a date and mishmash says NOT to use the actual word DATE. Which in lies my dilemma because I don't want to sc... (read in full...)
How can I stop thinking of my friend romantically?
Q. Okay, soooo I'm attracted to my friend. Really attracted. I think about her all the time. She's gorgeous, funny, smart. I need some advice on how to NOT think about her as much as I do. I asked her out the other day to sushi and she said yes, we...
A. 18 April 2011: @silence_key
No, she doesn't have a boyfriend. She's casually seeing someone, but he's not her boyfriend. We talked about her situation and apparently he's doing whatever he wants with whoever, meanwhile she's only see him. Mostly because ... (read in full...)
How can I stop thinking of my friend romantically?
Q. Okay, soooo I'm attracted to my friend. Really attracted. I think about her all the time. She's gorgeous, funny, smart. I need some advice on how to NOT think about her as much as I do. I asked her out the other day to sushi and she said yes, we...
A. 18 April 2011: Haha! Well, I thought I did ask her out the other day when we went for sushi! However, I'm not sure that qualifies as a date, maybe she just thought we were hanging out or something, ya know? I was going to pay for her, but she wouldn't let me and ... (read in full...)
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