I want to be with him but it's so complicated
Q. To keep it brief. Been having an affair for over two years. I'm now seperated from my husband through choice not to be with the man I'm having affair with. The man I'm having an affair with has a partner (He is divorced). They do not live together ...
A. 10 May 2011: Basically you have ended your marriage and will soon be living in your own place. Your lover on the other hand hasn't changed anything. He is in fact stringing 2 women along and at 53 probably thinks he's the dogs gonads, a real playboy.He has given ... (read in full...)
After a string a bad relationships, I'm losing my faith that I'll ever find Mr. Right.
Q. This is not really a question, exactly... just that I've been having really bad luck with men for the last year. A few one night stands, loads of dates, but somehow from the guy who already had a girlfriend to the commitment phobe and the one who ...
A. 8 May 2011: Your still very young, you also sound like its your main mission - to find a man - your in a new country and have only been there a year - lucky you to have been able to make the move and have a fresh start, it must be amazing But why did you leav... (read in full...)
What does it mean to say someone is "damaged"?
Q. So Aunts, I have a question. I have been hearing this statement a lot in the past few years. "You don't want to date her; she's damaged," or "Because of all his experiences, he's unfortunately damaged." What does it mean to be "damaged"? A...
A. 8 May 2011: It always makes me sad when I hear somebody described as damaged - like a reject - damaged goods I think people who have been through a lot, either as a child or an adult are affected by their trauma but not damaged - with help, patience, unders... (read in full...)
I caught my ex cheating in the office! Would you turn her in?
Q. I caught my ex gold-digging past-lover that I work with screwing with another person in the office this morning? I caught them and now have extremely incriminating evidence against her and I would love to get her kicked out of the office for ...
A. 5 May 2011: They will probably get caught out anyway they don't sound as though they're being very careful.
Just enjoy knowing she's not your girlfriend anymore and let it go - don't risk your reputation for an Ex - surely your better than that... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.
Q. im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very ...
A. 5 May 2011: Theres not a woman in the world that doesn't hate at least one bit of her body!
The thing is this guy thinks your insanely beautiful and he wants you. He has probably had doubts about his own body or even performance. Your a virgin thats a rare t... (read in full...)
I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.
Q. So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). ...
A. 5 May 2011: This is a really bad situation made worse cos she is your sister in law.
You clearly know its just for sex but women easily become emotionally attached and thats where the big problems begin
Fly to see your wife NOT the sister in law.
Stop... (read in full...)
Doe it mean he's trustworthy if he wants to be your Facebook friend?
Q. Simple question, if a guy you're seeing wants to be friends on facebook, is this a good sign that he is genuine? Because i think that if were friends on there, then he is honest about not having a girlfriend or dating anyone else. Like he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: I get what you mean about him not hiding anything, but do you only know him from online - or is he someone in your day to day life? And also is he going to say hes in a relationship and naming you as his girlfriend or just adding you to his frien... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to touch me much. Is this a bad sign?
Q. dear cupid: I'm a middle age lady that is starting to date again, I'm curious. when my boyfriend and i are starting things up I'm all over him because he has a body that i like. A little cushion. I love it and i let him know it. with me he hard...
A. 3 May 2011: Diabetes can cause erectile problems, I dated a man with this condition Talk about it, ask if its that. Then decide what you can do - its up to you if you care enough to stick around - see what solutions there may be if it is the condition he has... (read in full...)
Is it time to seriously talk about 'where is this relationship going'?
Q. i've been with my man now two years and it's a LDR. We are fully commited, and i am looking to move closer to him, so we can see him lots more. we see each other as often as we can at the moment. but i'm just wondering, is it time to have the 'wha...
A. 3 May 2011: I personally would have had 'the talk 'before plans to move closer were mentioned - your actions now show you are seriously considering long term - so before you do uproot find out how he sees your future. 2 years is a reasonable time a to get to ... (read in full...)
I want to show her that I don't just want her for sex. I really care about her.
Q. Okay guys, So I'm back again, feeling really down at the minute as it's going downhill rapidly with my FWB, I've know her for about a month or so now (was introduced through my sister) and the first few weeks were great, we saw each other regul...
A. 2 May 2011: You sound totally confused as to what you want with her. Are you just put out cos she's not putting out? She sounds like she's made up her mind and doesn't want the FWB situation, your also not her priority anymore so maybe it's just run it's co... (read in full...)
I really like this guy at work but can't read him
Q. Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they ...
A. 2 May 2011: He definately likes you but I would say he either lacks self confidence big time or he's immature Either way he is looking for a reaction, for you to mirror his playfulness/interest maybe? Ask him to join just you for lunch or after work for ... (read in full...)
My husband was cheating with my best friend and he left me for her!
Q. My husband was cheating on me with my best friend and I think it is fair to say that I am devastated. I love this man with all my heart. We have been together 7 years and he is now in a relationship with this woman. How can they do this to me? Why ...
A. 2 May 2011: I was in a situation like this, not the best friend bit but another woman.
I loved him to bits and was totally unaware what had been going on in the years before he left. However, once he had gone - leaving his children too, I didn't want him back... (read in full...)
How do I meet a loving man after years of no dating? Any advice or tips?
Q. Ok, approaching another birthday. Single female. Single parent for 10yrs after last partner went to work after 11yrs and 2 kids and didnt come back (another woman involved).Im over that long ago, but put kids first and work too. In the last 2yrs ...
A. 2 May 2011: still single still open to being in love --- so anymore suggestions ?
not desperate, am happy with living alone so don't jump in to first date with a wedding dress on! maybe I am too laid back... (read in full...)
My ex turned to me when his heart was broken, but dropped me as soon as she wanted him back!
Q. Thanks to all who reply to this. My ex has been in regular contact with me since his girlfriend left him a couple of weeks ago. I was away for part of last week and he left messages on my cell phone to call him. I called him today and he informed me ...
A. 10 July 2007: I have been through the same thing with an old boyfriend, but we actually dated and his ex would text or call when we were together. He would ignore her. But he went back eventually and left me to lick my wounds , it hurt alot, yes, but I just got ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and never had a relationship - I want real love! Is this normal?
Q. i never have a relation ship whith someone.i want to have it but i m sker. because i want a real love and a good personne .im 19 years old and i never have a relation ship whith somone.ihave many boys friend but they are just friends . is this ...
A. 10 July 2007: hey dont stress, your the same as everyone else in the world!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance of me and my "ex girlfriend" getting back together?
Q. Is there any chance of me and my "ex girlfriend" getting back together? or should I try and move on? I was seeing a girl for 9 months. I call it seeing because she always said we were never going out. Yet I would see almost every day, she stayed ...
A. 10 July 2007: Move on sweetheart, its hard, but youve given her your best and its not working.Cut all ties with her. Further down lifes road you will meet someone new.Trust me. Good luck xx... (read in full...)
He's drinking heavily due to his sons leaving. Should I leave him?
Q. Ok, got together with a guy,but he's got problems! His young sons been taken to live in europe this week and he's a drinker..... i know he likes me alot and me him. I dont know if i can cope with him drinking and showing up at my place hammered. ...
A. 9 July 2007: Its finished, am very upset at mo.... but for the best ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?
Q. Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...
A. 21 January 2007: Stick to who you know, this other girl cant be worth much if she knows your married.You made a choice and commitment. Temptations everywhere ,always, but is it really worth the risk of losing what you have?... (read in full...)
How do I ask my partner about his late night 'dating site' visit, without causing a huge row?
Q. My common-law husband is visiting adult dating chat rooms while I am sleeping. If I ask him about it I know he get defensive and hide the truth (he knows I wouldn't approve). Any advice on how I can approach this topic with him without causing a ...
A. 21 January 2007: There is a simple way, stay up with him so he doesnt have the opportunity! Or, entice him to bed. Apart from these I would confront him, regardless, have you ever loooked on these sites yourself and seen the women who chat to him?... (read in full...)
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