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writes:Is there any chance of me and my "ex girlfriend" getting back together? or should I try and move on?I was seeing a girl for 9 months. I call it seeing because she always said we were never going out. Yet I would see almost every day, she stayed round my house, I stayed round hers. lol it felt to me like we were going out. I was there for her whenever she needed me and she was there for me. by the end i was and still am in love with her.when we were together she fell out with 2 of her close friends, 1 of which was how i met her. so she didn't like the fact I was going traveling with her for a month. I cut my trip back drastically for her, but i guess it wasn't enough. She was always very close to her ex, which used to make me very jelous, but i wouldnt often have a go at her for seeing him. The month before I went traveling I made her a diary telling her how i felt, exactly how i felt. so for the month I was away she could read a day of my diary. I'll be honest some were better days than others. but this didnt work, she read it all the day I was leaving (her birthday). which upset her even more. she was ringing me saying she loved me and not to break up with her. which lasted for about a week, after that she still said she loved me but she wasnt so intense. after another week she was saying not to expect her to be the same when I get back which upset me for the rest of my trip.When i got back we talked and she still wanted to be just friends. It has been a few months of talking to her once a week as just friends but i still love her and its driving me mad. am i in with a chance or should I stop talkiing to her before i have moved on?cheers
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reader, nologo  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 I believe this story will have continuation.
At the moment you should not make decisions.
She is not sure now about her feelings for you in my opinion.
This means you should not view current situation as settled.
You are in relationship, but this is not proper relationship.
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reader, skoolof life +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Move on sweetheart, its hard, but youve given her your best and its not working.Cut all ties with her. Further down lifes road you will meet someone new.Trust me. Good luck xx
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