Do girlfriends discuss their lovers in detail?
Q. Another post had me wondering... when you girls talk about your BF's to fairly close or very close friends, what is the limit on discussion? Do you just say things like "he's great in bed" "he's very tender", or do most women go into more detail ...
A. 13 July 2010: Yes, in great detail! An ex-gf of mine had a 'very best girl-friend' who, a few years later, I also went out with. She knew EVERYTHING about me, my bits, what I do in bed, what turns me on, etc. She said her friend had told her all about me and... (read in full...)
I don't know what to say or do but I don't want to lose her!
Q. I started seeing a girl over 2 years ago and fell madly n deeply in love with her and was pretty sure she felt the same upuntil last week. She recently moved house and was havin a few beers at home with one of her male house mates and they ended up ...
A. 29 June 2010: Dump her NOW.
You are wasting time on her when you could be getting over her and moving on with your life.
I know its tough, because you still love her. But the sooner you move on, the sooner you will heal. Just thank your lucky stars you ... (read in full...)
What makes a man become violent in a relationship?
Q. What makes a man become violent in a relationship? my partner became that way towards me when our daughter was 2. It started with pushing and then one day we argued and he pushed me to the floor put his foot on my head leaving his boot inprint and ...
A. 29 June 2010: There are two basic causes for male violence towards women/families.
One is upbringing. If he saw his own father behave in this way, he sees this as being masculine. If he was commonly hit as a child (by father or mother) he learns this is the w... (read in full...)
I want to do it with the right guy, and I'm not sure he is! Help!
Q. hey i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. we've been together 6 months on and off he wants to go further but i'm not sure i kind of want to do it with the right guy and am not sure if he is. Help !!!...
A. 29 June 2010: It's very simple.
If you are not sure, then you are not ready. End of.
In any case, at 16 you are too young to know your own mind, let alone anyone else's. I know that's old-fashioned, but old-fashioned does not mean wrong.
When you meet s... (read in full...)
How does nipple color determine how she is in her sexual life?
Q. hiiii all once aging i want to know sm thing ... may be its can be funny question...but i want ans... different-different women have different-different color of nipple of Brest… So my question is if sm women has light Pink color o...
A. 27 June 2010: Hilarious!
But, thinking about it, when I was young the young women I was intimate with all had pinky nipples. But as I came to know older women, they all had darker nipples, especially those who had given birth.
I had known my last girlfrie... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'll never be able to function normally.
Q. Maybe this isn't the best place to post this but people here often give good advice. for a long time in my life (even when i was a really young) i've been terrified of going to new places and meeting new people. it may sound silly but the idea of ...
A. 27 June 2010: You are in the UK, so you can go to any doctor, explain your problem and he can recomend a counsellor on the NHS. It won't cost you and it can really help.
I was very shy too, when I was young, but fortunately as a Catholic I had a sympathe... (read in full...)
Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?
Q. Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...
A. 27 June 2010: Of course you can. Head-over-heels, flat-out in love with two girls at the same time.
Very confusing. Very difficult situation to resolve. No easy answer.
Just be scrupulously honest with everybody concerned - (including yourself, most d... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cyber cheated
Q. my gf and i were together for 3 years . we lived together one and half and two weeks ago i found out that she texting another guy literally cyber sex there met up last week nd they slept together .she confirmed it in last txt message she never knew ...
A. 27 June 2010: No point in talking it through with her, as some here suggest.
She has lied to you often enough, she will lie again to get what she wants. What you want is immaterial to her.
Move on. It's tough and there aren't too many decent girls out... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the office gopher anymore!
Q. What would you do if you were working away in a job for the past six months.. had the gut instinct that all the administrators and other women in the company were deliberately setting out to make you look incompetent.. (because their friend missed ...
A. 27 June 2010: Forget going home and whipping yourself.
If you are as good at your job as you say you are,
a) sit down and write yourself a plan for GETTING another job. Not thinking about it, or grabbing one when it comes along, but GETTING one;
... (read in full...)
Guys: What to you find physically attractive in a girl?
Q. I need male input, what makes porn women so ideal and attractive, and what can I do to achieve that? I want men to think I'm as attractive as I can be, and they seem to love porn, so I only added 1+1... Of course I want a guy to love me for my p...
A. 27 June 2010: Oh, come on! Girls on porn are cartoon figures for masturbation when frustration gets just too much. Most guys faced with one in real life would run a mile.
Turn it the other way round and think about it. Women are not nearly as much immediat... (read in full...)
Are all guys superficial?
Q. I'm 17 this year; I'm fat but not disgustingly obese, don't have a pretty face and very self-conscious deep down. The thing is, I'm very confident and most people look at me as the hyper and bubbly one who brightens up everyone's day but inside, I ...
A. 27 June 2010: Believe it or not, most serious, decent guys look way beyond what sort of body a girl has and are genuinely interested in what sort of person she is.
Draw your own conclusion. Only you can do something about it.
At the same time, applying t... (read in full...)
Am I the only guy who prefers petite women?
Q. I'm just wondering why it is that most men prefere big breasts as oppossed to small breasts, the women in porn and magazines reflects that men are more sexually aroused by big breasts and i'm just curious why that is? I'm more sexually attracted to ...
A. 27 June 2010: You are a straight-up normal guy.
Men together will make smart remarks about the big breasts in porn films, but get them on their own over a quiet drink and most men who have actually seen (or felt!) huge big boobs in real life will go - Urrrrrgh... (read in full...)
How do I learn not to come across as bitchy and judgemental?
Q. Many of my close friends, family members, past partners, in the last year have noted I'm judgemental, unpleasant about people I don't approve of, angry, basically a bitch. In my mind I have a bitchy sense of humour, but obviously for some people it ...
A. 27 June 2010: Oh, come on!
The answer to the question posed by the title is dead easy.
Just don't be bitchy and judgemental.
It's not rocket science. Just use your self-control and don't be tempted by the easy put-downs which first occur to you.
J... (read in full...)
Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 27 June 2010: It depends on exactly what the relationship is with your first boyfriend.
Are you just good friends, or perhaps kissing and cuddling, or even petting friends? If so you have no commitment and should be able to go out with other boys, even hav... (read in full...)
How do you organise a threesome?
Q. Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I was wondering if anyone could give me advice for threesomes. I know it's a huge step and all. But my partner and I feel 100% comfortable and talked everythi...
A. 27 June 2010: Unless your partner is a superstud, you'll get more mileage out of a threesome if you find another male. Think about it. One working, one resting. Could go on a long time.
... (read in full...)
Is this normal after FIVE years?
Q. Current situation; I'm 23 and living with my fiancee in London. We've been together since September 2007. I have an alright job, but not many friends here yet and no real activities to do (as the fiancee works nights and I work days). I am happy a ...
A. 26 June 2010: I'm afraid so. Some women just never get out from under your skin!
I have had a full life, several serious girlfriends, happy marriage, children, 'and all that', but still sometimes (OK, let's be honest, OFTEN!) wake up in a hot sweat about a ... (read in full...)
Anal sex straight into my mouth--will I get sick?
Q. So embarressing but I have to know... My boyfriend and I were drunk and had anal and in the heat of the moment I sucked his dick straight out of my bum. I don't want to get sick. Should I take any medication or precautions? Don't worry, I don't pl...
A. 26 June 2010: Don't forget that when you see this done in a porn film, the film might have been edited - in real time, the anal sex could easily have been done after the vaginal sex and the scenes edited to show it the other way round.
That said, I don't th... (read in full...)
Excessive masturbation?
Q. [Mod note: OP's title] Hello, I have a problem with masturbation. I do it really often and I get turned on pretty easily. I am not sure of this healthy. Could you please tell me how many times per week is fine, health-wise? Any doctors...
A. 26 June 2010: Sex drive varies from person to person, so there's no such thing as an 'acceptable' level of masturbation - or intercourse, for that matter.
If you have a very high sex drive (man or woman) masturbation or sex ten times a day might be needed t... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman
Q. My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not ...
A. 26 June 2010: Dump this guy NOW. He has no respect for you and does not desrve you.... (read in full...)
She lied about so many things, would I be stupid to take her back?
Q. so i've been dating this great girl for the better part of a year now, but recently, i find out (partially because she started to admit and partially because i prodded a bit) that she lied about 1) the number of people she's slept with (probably s...
A. 26 June 2010: Move on!
Once trust has gone, the relationship is impossible.
It's hard to do if you love her, but if you carry on you will be wasting your precious time. Find someone worth your love and enjoy life.... (read in full...)
My wife was a teenage slut - accepting her promiscuous past
Q. I just wanted to post this due to all the posts re girls with promiscuous pasts. Here is my story. I fell head over heels for my now wife when she was 22 and I 23. Our relationship progressed and soon we both realized we were utterly in love ...
A. 23 June 2010: Those calling her a slut should remember - or learn - that we all come with very different levels of sexual drive. When this woman was young, she was unattached, no commitment to anybody, obviously had a very high sex drive and the looks to get... (read in full...)
Should I ask my friend to take my virginity?
Q. Hi everyone. I've just turned 22 and I'm still very much a virgin. The most I've ever done with a girl is a snog and those don't come around very often. I'm not particularly embarrassed about my v-plates, I hardly keep it a secret, but the ...
A. 22 June 2010: NO! Don't put it like that - nothing more likely to put her off you. If you like her so much, just go along the normal boyfriend/girlfriend route. Go out together a lot, get to kiss goodnight when you take her home, let the goodnight kisses g... (read in full...)
Why does weight matter?
Q. Hello, I was wondering about this for quite a while. Why do guys typically avoid girls who are somewhat overweight? I am perfectly average for my height and age, but I was asking on behalf of my friend. She is fifteen pounds overweight, but she ...
A. 21 June 2010: I don't agree. Most guys I know don't like the stick insect fugures of the model girls in the magazines and celebs like Victoria Beckham. The vast majority of us like 'normal' sized girls - say, around 8 to 10, with moderately tits and hips. ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???
Q. What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ...
A. 21 June 2010: Most replies from women are negative, as expected. Most women just don't like the idea. Nevertheless, I just don't understand the woman who said it was just another way of humiliating and being derogatory about women. If the girl is doing it ... (read in full...)
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