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writes: I need male input, what makes porn women so ideal and attractive, and what can I do to achieve that? I want men to think I'm as attractive as I can be, and they seem to love porn, so I only added 1+1...Of course I want a guy to love me for my personality and brains, but I already went that route and it still seemed like I was not enough. He made comments about my cellulite and made comments about big boobs and butts, which I don't have. I don't want to be settled for either, I want to be the whole package.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 It's NOT about T&A it's about frequency. you can be flat chested with a caboose the size of Dallas and if you're a 'once-a-week' kind of gal you're Not gonna be all that atractive but if you go for it twice a day or more you will be a magnet to all men
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): What I like most with porn chicks is how into teh sex they are. Really can be a fugly porn chick, but if she can guzzle and take it like a champ, that is a huge turn on to me. I don't mean anything degrading...just a girl who can go at it like she's a starving puppy. Lots of swallowing, sloppy sucking and fucking, agressive, hard sex, etc. Some of the hottest porn chiks to me are not too visibly hot: Leah Luv, Anastasia Blue, Gianna, Careena Collins etc. THey can be skinny, plump, blonde, brunette whatever. But if they can take it good, they are an instant turn on. In fact, the average looking, slightly plump, natural breasted women are the hottest to me. Real women are hot. Airbrushed, fake titted chicks are not.
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reader, Jesc  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 I really like what Carl stated, I would try to work off that.I always wondered why my partner watched porn.Was i not good enough in bed? I'm great.Do I look to big/small/etc.? You look beautiful,your hot,your sexy. Then why do you do that? No answer. He would say I'm just in need to release, I'm more than willing to give myself to him anytime. So no excuse there. He would come up with so many reasons. So many... I tried, changing my tan, working out,doing things to make my property look bigger rounder.etc. Nothing changed.Then finally, I just said F that. I'm done, Why should I change everything about myself, to make the male sex happy to be with me. Once I stopped,Got rid of him. Mainly cause I had a boost in myself of, I know I'm an attractive young women. I can get a man who will love me for inside and out and only me. Sure enough I found a wonderful man. Just do that, Do not change everything to look better for them. Change to look good for you. Trust me, I know I'm not the hottest girl in the world and sometimes when I come across the beauties in adult films I long for that feeling of being wanted, But after that little wind back I remember who I am inside and out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): He sounds like a douche.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Anon male:
I am the original poster, and in my last relationship, I did all that. I did everything he wanted, when he wanted it. He said the sex was great. But still he made comments about my lack of boobs and my cellulite!
Seems like there's no way to ever please men =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): The girls in porn are so attractive because they will do anything, vaginal, anal, oral and swallow. They are like puppets told to do whatever they are told.
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reader, seneca  +, writes (27 June 2010):
Oh, come on! Girls on porn are cartoon figures for masturbation when frustration gets just too much. Most guys faced with one in real life would run a mile.
Turn it the other way round and think about it. Women are not nearly as much immediately turned on by physical appearance as guys are, but nevertheless girls magazines and book covers show men with a deep tan, huge shoulders, big muscles, six-pack and a big bulging crotch. If you ever come across a guy like this in real life, you'll probably find he has spent so much time on his body that he is as thick as two short planks, has no other interests, no conversation, is totally self-centred and his hormones are so trashed that he can't get it up properly. Now, what use is that to any woman?
Learning the difference between fantasy and reality is the first step to developing your own self-esteem and setting your own goals for your love-life. For men, women and all in between.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Porn chicks are too exaggerated most of the time. They don't look "bad" but they are usually trying too hard if you know what I mean. The fake boobs are too obvious, the hair is too bleached, the suntans are too dark, etc.
And porn girls definitely don't have enough variety. Those porn producers just do what makes the most money. They don't wanna bother to take any risks with how the girls look, they just wanna go with a look that turns off the smallest number of viewers and keep it that way.
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reader, carloslt  +, writes (27 June 2010):
I don't know if I'm strange or what. I have a brother who is older than me a year. And we both like different girls. He likes girls with big tits and big rounded asses. I like tiny girls, with normal asses and tits which would look good with her body. In my last school, there were only 2 attractive girls in my classroom, one was tiny and had beautiful face, nice tits and a perfect ass, she looked perfect to me. The other was kinda bit fat, she had huge boobs and her ass was jumping every time she made a step, and believe me, all classroom mates were always starring at the big girl's ass than at the other girl's ass which looks perfect to me. And I give a huge plus to a girls which looks fine without a make-up than a girl which looks beautiful with make-up which covers her face. :) And to answer the question, the only thing which attracts me to watch porno is girls.. I can watch lesbian porno more than amateur porno because it's all about girls, no matter how the girl looks, she is pretty anyway. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): One female response said "confidence you will exude will be enough to drive any man wild". That is bullshit. I find overly confident women to be annoying. Women who are quiet, modest, smart, and slender are what I find attractive. Asian porn ftw.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 OP,and anonymous reader, maybe you are handling the situation from the wrong end.
Why, rather than tryng to make yourself look like porn stars ( which I suppose can be done with a tremendous amount of money effort and time ) don't you choose guys with less coarse tastes ,and whose ideal of what's beautiful is a bit more refined ?...
Some men don't watch porn at all,some do very sporadically once in a blue moon, and some do more regularly but consider the porn actress as masturbation tools and not beauty icons.
If you end up with men who have porn stars as their ideal of female beauty....- then you are hanging out with the wrong crowd ,and I'd suggest you upgrading your frequentations...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): In my opinion, porn-stars look atrocious.
I just like anyone who isn't REALLY fat.
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reader, jvjvjvjv +, writes (27 June 2010):
Thing is, different men like different things, and when you start trying to please everyone else you can end up confused and being dishonest to yourself. Learn to be happy in your own skin, and the confidence you will exude will be enough to drive any man wild.
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reader, yag +, writes (27 June 2010):
when you find the right person you will be that person you want to be. if they truely love you they will love your looks, cellulite and all.don't change just for the benefit of others, especially if they supposedly love you.you will be that girl with the perfect body to someone, you just have to find him.don't try being someone your not, just be yourself and don't let people put you down.i hope everything works out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Great question! I want to know the exact same thing, i've posted questions on this kind of thing before but never got anything usefull, just the usual.. Oh porn's just a fantasy, men don't really want that.. then why do they need to look at it so much! It's not even a nice look.. Fake tan, fake hair, fake body parts, lots of make up.. eeww.
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