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writes:I started seeing a girl over 2 years ago and fell madly n deeply in love with her and was pretty sure she felt the same upuntil last week. She recently moved house and was havin a few beers at home with one of her male house mates and they ended up kissing. She told me a few days later that she still loved me but has started devloping feeling for her housemate and needed time and space to work out her feeling.So ive given her the time and space she asked for bar the odd txt to let her know i was still here.I hear from a mutual friend that her male housemate didn't give her time and space and flooded her with romantic gestures and she feels she has fallin for the new guy :(She has agreed to meet me for a coffee over the weekend, i dont really know what to say and do but i do know I really dont want to loose her as this girl is the best thing that ever happened to me. Has any one been in a simalar situation??
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reader, seneca  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Dump her NOW.
You are wasting time on her when you could be getting over her and moving on with your life.
I know its tough, because you still love her. But the sooner you move on, the sooner you will heal. Just thank your lucky stars you found out about her in time.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 June 2010):
Nearly all of us have been in this situation. I remember having a conversation with my ex years ago, where she stated she was worried that she had feelings for her ex. Like the nice guy, I said it would be okay and gave her a bit of time. A week later on my birthday, she was cheating on me. I cut all contact, got over her and I'm with a better person now. I know you don't want to lose her, but it's too late. She's not the best thing that happened to you. The best thing that happened was that you found out she was willing to string you along and then kiss another guy. That's who this girl is. She basically strung you along, and has gone off with this other guy. The time has come for you to put your dignity and self respect first, rather than your heart. You need to end it with this girl and cut contact. One thing I can say is that you'll be hurting at first, but you'll find someone far better. She's checking out of your relationship, and you need to bow out quietly for your own sake.
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