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*lovethisworld1994
writes:hey i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. we've been together 6 months on and off he wants to go further but i'm not sure i kind of want to do it with the right guy and am not sure if he is. Help !!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 I agree with everyone else. If you are not sure, then you are not ready and HE is not the "right" guy.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 June 2010):
If you're not sure he is the guy, that means he's not the guy.
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reader, seneca +, writes (29 June 2010):
It's very simple.
If you are not sure, then you are not ready. End of.
In any case, at 16 you are too young to know your own mind, let alone anyone else's. I know that's old-fashioned, but old-fashioned does not mean wrong.
When you meet someone with whom you feel it is absolutely right, without any reservation - in fact, that if you don't, you'll burst - then that will be the right guy and the right time.
Meanwhile, just get to know a few boys, enjoy their company and learn what makes them tick, without getting deeply involved. Have fun.
Best of luck.
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reader, Philosophyzer +, writes (29 June 2010):
 If you're unsure, he is not the right one. He is older and possibly just after one thing. If the relationship has been rocky for the first six months, it will only deteriorate further. You are young! Wait for someone marvelous to come along! Don't just settle for any loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): If you don't think he is the right guy then why are you waisting 6months of your life with him?? &&if he is pushing to sex, then he is absoultley the wrong guy!!! I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years, and i love him!! You just might have to find the right one! Nd take your time!!
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