Will my body piercings turn a guy off?
Q. This is directed mostly to guys. I was wondering if body piercings turn guys off? I have six piercings on one ear and five on the other, and I want to get my belly button and tongue pierced. I just don't want to lose my chance with a guy, because ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi. Well, If you want piercings, then that's you. That's who you are. You just have to find the guy that will accept you for all of that. I have 8 peircings. My ears have 3 in each, my tongue, and my belly button. I have a boyfriend and he loves ... (read in full...)
My desire for sex and wetness have decreased, is it due to the birth control pills I'm now on?
Q. Hi, I've recently started taking Birth Control pills. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, and I usually get very turned out when we have sex/foreplay. When I started taking the pill, I began losing my horniness for sex.{desire ...
A. 3 July 2007: Thanks so much for helping me! I just switched my birth control..all I needed was a lower dose. Thank you!... (read in full...)
He never pulls out before he ejacualtes and I don't want another child right now!
Q. My boyfriend always ejaculates in me, unless I tell him specicfically every time "pull out" And it can be that we have sex and I tell him to pull out, and he does then 5 min. later he is ready again, and if I don't tell him to pull out that time ...
A. 28 June 2007: Sometimes it's hard for a guy to pull out when he's on the "brink" of cumming. Guys have a hard time with that, as it's in the heat of the moment. Yes, disrespect could be another part of the problem, if you told him to pull-out then he should have ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and my period has stopped. What should I do?
Q. I have never had sex so why havent i had my periods for nearly 3 months now why?...
A. 28 June 2007: Are you on birth control? If you are...then that can cause irregular periods. Even if you're not on birth control, then you can still have some irregular periods, you should talk to someone about it, like your mom or dad.... (read in full...)
She thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person.
Q. My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly ...
A. 28 June 2007: Well, when you are together then try to control the urge to be "overfriendly". Tone it down a bit. But, you should be able to be yourself no matter what. Just try to talk to her about it...if that doesn't work then just tone it down a bit.... (read in full...)
How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife?
Q. How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife? She doesnt do anything but lay around while im at work, and then expect me to do dishes, laundry, and clean the house. Should i just quit doing everything? Granted we have a two and four year old, but ...
A. 28 June 2007: She has become really lazy. You're a good husband for taking care of everything...women appreciate that so much, but when she gets this lazy, you need to step up and tell her. Go on strike and tell her that if she loves the kids and you that she'd ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clear to them that I JUST want to be friends.
Q. Oi, I need help, aunts! Okay. Let me start off by saying I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love very much, and who loves me. We are happy together, and things are going smoothly. My relationship at home is not my problem. However, I'm sta...
A. 28 June 2007: Just be straight forward with him babe. Tell him that you have a boyfriend and that you're not looking for a "fling" or another relationship. If you love your boyfriend, then you should have no problem saying this to the other guy. It's great that ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl--is it normal that I like lesbian porn?
Q. I'm a female--is it normal for me to love and get very turned on by lesbian porn?...
A. 28 June 2007: No, there is nothing wrong with it, not at all. I get turned on by lesbian porn as well. It's not that your gay or "bi" it is just something that turns you on. There's no shame in that. -Enjoy3... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to cheat on my husband with a married man?
Q. I'm in a bit of bother! I have feelings for my friends husband, and he has feelings for me too (More sexually driven). We love our partners but have this urge for each other that is so so so strong. We dont see each other anymore but we still cha...
A. 28 June 2007: Yes, it's very wrong to cheat on your husband. I myself, am so against cheating. You need to go to counseling...and if you don't feel that "connection" anymore, than you should leave your husband rather then cheat on him.... (read in full...)
I'm also so tempted to just use her, tell her I still love her and have a ton of sex then move away (as wrong as it is).
Q. Six years after I met this girl (lets call her P) I am still confused. I think I instantly fell in love with her, she was the complete opposite to me and a perfect compliment to my personality. We were at college together (17/18 years old...
A. 28 June 2007: At first I was going for you...but then I just lost you. You can't just have sex with her and then move away. That's just...just really wrong. You need to grow up...and decide to do the right thing. If you loved her then you wouldn't think about ... (read in full...)
He's been chatting online to women with the webcam and even plans to meet someone!!!
Q. Several months ago, I found out my boyfriend (of 14 months) was using a webcam to chat online with other women while I was gone. I found this out because I came home a little earlier than he'd expected one day and caught him. He told me he wasn't ...
A. 28 June 2007: Break up with him. He's obvioulsy playing games with you, and doesn't love you if he's doing all of that...expecially behind your back. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I've got the first sings of pregnant. Do you think I am?
Q. Im 15, Ive had alot of the first signs of pregnancy like morning sickness, thrown up twice, sick stomach feeling, tiredness, backaches and headaches, Could I be Pregnant?? Please reply soon, I need all the advice I can get!! ...
A. 28 June 2007: If you're sexually active, you need to start to be on birth control...best form of protection besides abstenence. How long ago has it been since you've had sex? It usually takes a while for signs to appear, at least 3 to 4 weeks. Sometimes 2 but not ... (read in full...)
Help!!!! Is it possible I could be pregnant?
Q. The other day for the first time ever I let my boyfriend put his penis in me, he only did it once but he had no protection on, but he hadn't came any time before. We both panicked a bit after so I quickly took my pill just in case it would help in ...
A. 28 June 2007: You really should have used protection. Usually it takes a little while for pregancy symptoms to kick in. The pill could also mess up your period, so you have a chance of it just messing around with your period. Take a test just in case.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me I was too big--now I am depressed and uncomfortable with him
Q. Hello, I am 27 years old. I have been through a lot the past year. I left my husband after 10 years. I lost my father, who was my rock. I lost almost everything me and my four kids owned. I have been in a new relationship for about 10 or 11 m...
A. 28 June 2007: I agree with the person below me. 128lbs is not fat. He obviously doesn't know what he's talking about. Don't get depressed about it, defenitly don't stop eating..just try to talk to him about it.... (read in full...)
He lied to me about his virginity
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for seven years. I was a virgin when i first met him and he told me that he was too.But just this past weekend he admitted to me that he had lied to me and that he had actually slep with three other girls before me.And ...
A. 27 June 2007: Guys are really big about their egos. He was probably just scared to tell you because he didn't want to scare you away. Of course, it was really messed up about him to lie to you. My boyfriend did the opposite. He told me he slept with three girls ... (read in full...)
I feel nothing when having sex!
Q. why can't i feel noting when i have sex? does this mean im never going to have an orgasm?...
A. 27 June 2007: I had the same problem with my boyfriend for a while. First off, don't focus on your main goal being to reach an orgasm. Don't let your mind wander..just think about whats happening between you both. If you can't feel anything at all, then you ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for the pill to be effective?
Q. i just got my first order of birth control pills yesterday (yaz) and will start them mid july. im just a little confused about the time it will take for the pill to take full effect and protect against pregnancy??? is it a week, a month, three ...
A. 27 June 2007: Well, my docotor told be about 2 weeks. You can never be too sure, so make sure to use condoms each time you have sex. That's tha main thing. You don't want to end up pregnant.
Mail me if you wanna talk. =)... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends
Q. Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...
A. 24 June 2007: I think it's smart that you're waiting. Don't let peer pressure get to you...I know it's hard to deal with, but please don't let it get to you..it can ruin your life..really. Wait until you're ready, it's smarter, and a much better decision. It's ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I am only 14?
Q. me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?...
A. 24 June 2007: Being 14, it isn't very wise for you to have sex. I was 15 when I lost my virginity..and trust me, it's something that you will regret. You have something great, and well, once you loose it, it's like loosing apart of you, and you will never get it ... (read in full...)
Can I still trust my friend?
Q. Hey there, where to start... im 17 and im having problems trusting my best mate as i recently found out she slept with my ex boyfriend twice when we were still together. me and my boyfriend split up around 2 months ago over a row we had because ...
A. 16 May 2007: Okay, first off...she claims to be your "best friend", but she slept with your boyfriend...TWICE. She's no friend at all. Not one bit. You should defenitly get rid of her. She will probably end up doing it again. Find someone better as a friend and ... (read in full...)
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