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I'm from Wales which is in the United Kingdom it's not got the best weather but it's home :)
I love animals I really do I have a dalmation cross staff dog named Patch (because hes patchy lol) he's 3 years old a new member of our family Jake whos 5 months old he's an alsation cross labrador and I also have a guinea pig named Lex (after Lex Luthor) because she's evil :)
I'm currently in college doing an ICT course after doing a year of catering which was NOT my thing lol!
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Together 7 months, are we rushing it?
Q. I haven't long come out of a 2 year relationship, we split up because I had a miscarriage and it was the worst thing I've ever been through and my ex partner was not supportive at all, despite that I tried and tried to make the relationship work, ...
A. 19 August 2012: I've already had counselling for the miscarriage, it doesn't/hasn't worked.
I won't end up back at my parents as I haven't lived with them since I was 16, I've relied on myself since 16 and I've done it since, so without knowing me personal... (read in full...)
Together 7 months, are we rushing it?
Q. I haven't long come out of a 2 year relationship, we split up because I had a miscarriage and it was the worst thing I've ever been through and my ex partner was not supportive at all, despite that I tried and tried to make the relationship work, ...
A. 18 August 2012: Maybe, regardless the getting pregnant is definitely happening, at least I know I need to grow a thick skin and accept not everyone will approve with the decisions my partner and I make.... (read in full...)
Together 7 months, are we rushing it?
Q. I haven't long come out of a 2 year relationship, we split up because I had a miscarriage and it was the worst thing I've ever been through and my ex partner was not supportive at all, despite that I tried and tried to make the relationship work, ...
A. 18 August 2012: I understand what your saying about the possibly breaking up and stuff the point is, I want a baby, it's just a plus that I've found someone who wants that too, if we did break up like I said we're the type of people who would always put that child ... (read in full...)
Together 7 months, are we rushing it?
Q. I haven't long come out of a 2 year relationship, we split up because I had a miscarriage and it was the worst thing I've ever been through and my ex partner was not supportive at all, despite that I tried and tried to make the relationship work, ...
A. 17 August 2012: Yes I have met his family and he has met mine. We have yet to discuss anything with his family but have discussed with my family and they think it's a good idea, I wasn't asking on here because I thought my family or his would disapprove they both ... (read in full...)
I like an older man... help?
Q. I'm 17 years old, gonna be 18 in a little under two weeks. I'm just gonna be blunt, I like this friend I have, and he's about 36-37 years old, and we met online, of course, we have a lot in common, he knows how to cheer me up, and he's an amazing ...
A. 25 March 2011: Hi hun.
Firstly let me say I notice we are in different countries I'm from the UK you are from the US.
I'm 17 and my partner of a year and a half is 37, he's the most amazing person I've had a pleasure of knowing he really is.
I can't a... (read in full...)
I am seriously in love with this older guy!!!
Q. Help!!!! i think i am in love with this older guy(25+),!!!! I've been out with older guys before but this time i am totally stuck. Basically we both work in the same shopping center and i am purposely making up excuses to end up in his shop, we...
A. 25 March 2011: I have no idea what to advise because by personal experience, I think older men treat you better my partner is 37 and I'm 17, yes WOW huge age gap, but does it affect us not really? as I'm mature for my age and he acts like a big kid lol.
We ar... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity and now he says he doesn't want a relationship
Q. Two nights ago, I had lost my virginity. The first time, I really do love this boy, even though we had have a rough past. Very rough. He's the type of boy I had kissed when we were in about grade 7 and I had felt a "spark". He hurts me to the point ...
A. 25 March 2011: Sorry to say hun he's played you like a good one it seems. It's what the women called use and abuse... it's not what you want to hear but it's true, alot of women experience it and sadly will keep experiencing it. You can't get what you've give... (read in full...)
Can an online boyfriend actually be considered as a boyfriend?
Q. He's a very sweet guy. He has sent me videos, pictures, poems, and songs expressing his love and has posted/let known how he feels for me to his friends. He has also said all these beautiful things that make me fall in love with him all over...
A. 25 March 2011: It depends, do you trust or should the question be CAN you trust him? how much distance is he from you? is it possible you'll meet? can you see yourself being with him? there's loads of questions you need to ask yourself... boyfriends online don't ... (read in full...)
Girls, masturbation and sex.....what really goes on?
Q. PLEASE READ THROUGHLY. I know it's a little long but it's interesting :) I want the girls' views on this (any guys feel free to comment if you can add anything useful). You don't have to say if you do it as that is a private matter. Well ...
A. 25 March 2011: I am a very open and mature young women and I'll admit I do masturabte, I love oral sex and casual sex. I think it all comes when in a relationship I've been in my current relationship for nearlly 2 years and I lost my virginity to him although ... (read in full...)
Why don't I get pregnant?
Q. every time we have sex me and my b.f he always cum inside me but i never get pregnant is that's suppose to mean i will not be able to make kids or there is an other reason behind that??...
A. 25 March 2011: Hey well firstly no it doesnt mean you're unfertile. My boy friend and I used the "pulling out" technique for a while and I never got pregnant, and WHAM 3 months after trying to conceive I fell pregnant sadly I miscarried in December 2010 but I to... (read in full...)
Are these good baby names?
Q. I am hoping to have a boy. If I do, his name will be Kylan Jake. But if I have a girl, her name will be Joselyn Nicole. Do these names sound good? Please help!...
A. 25 March 2011: Wow, lots of NEGATIVE comments. They are very nice unique names, it doesnt matter what anyone says it's your child and aslong as your partner likes the name and matches it's surname theres nothing wrong with the names. Good luck and let us know... (read in full...)
He's sending a gift to my house and I am afraid my Mum might see it!
Q. my long distance boyfriend is sending a gift to my house through the post and i`m worried it might be something sexy like a thong or something and that my mum will see it. he said that he hasn`t put his name on it but he would love to see me wearing ...
A. 23 February 2010: Do you know the basic facts;
REAL age, REAL location etc...
personaly I wouldn't have given anyone online my address or any contact information.
I don't really know what to say about the "gifts" but at the age of 13-15 you shouldn't really... (read in full...)
I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal?
Q. It is a relationship question, but not like boyfriend or girlfriend - just friends. I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal? My oldest friend is hmm...in his ...
A. 19 February 2010: I'm the same I'm 16 and very mature, I find most people guys and girls my age very immature and I can't get on with them at all.
The youngest guy friend I have is 21 and the youngest girl friend I have is 22.
xoxo... (read in full...)
Does he find me sexy or is he only touching me because he would feel bad turning me down?
Q. The other day i went cinema with a group of friends i sat next to my ex, we flirt with each other but he's a bit hesitant and says he would never want to take advantage of me so he pulls back sometimes. Theres nothing wrong with friends flirting he ...
A. 19 February 2010: Your 16-17 years old your bound to want to explore your sexual side.
If neither of you want a relationship and just "a bit of fun" make that clear from the start so you both know whats going on.
Just make sure you can handle the "bit of fun"... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I can't get a girlfriend
Q. I'm 15 and I've been single for about a year. And I'm trying to get a girlfriend but I can't. Any tips? ...
A. 19 February 2010: Just enjoy being young and single.
You have your whole life to find a girlfriend just enjoy being on your own for abit, have fun with mates etc and most importantly be yourself.
xoxo... (read in full...)
Why do I miss her even if she has give me sooo much pain?
Q. Hey everyone..My relationship of 2 yrs with my gf(more like a fiance to me) ended 2 months back!She was my first and i wanted her to be last too!ive always wanted to be with just one girl for the rest of my life..but i broke up with her! Its a ...
A. 19 February 2010: You miss her because she was your first love it's understandable but you seem like a decent guy who doesnt deserve to be treated the way she treated you.
You just have to move on, she's your past, get on with your future and you will find another ... (read in full...)
He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?
Q. sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a ...
A. 19 February 2010: Him forcing himself on you, you saying no - it means he had sex with you without your permission which is classed as rape.
He does NOT "love" you otherwise he would have atleast waited until you were ready to have sex.
Tell your mom, call t... (read in full...)
When I blush, my arms and face turn bright red. What is going on with me?!
Q. I'm 14 years old and a female. My skin is actually very pale, but when I blush my face and arms turn bright red. Now it is becoming a problem and my face gets red all the time. When I'm talking to someone, when someone says my name, even if they ...
A. 19 February 2010: I have exactly the same problem but it gets better as you get older, you get less embarressed about things and so you don't blush as much. xoxo... (read in full...)
After what my boyfriend did to me, should I still love him?
Q. heyaa im 14 and i went out with this guy who was 16 and he sed he liked me and loved me but then whenevr he asked 4 sex i sed no and then the next day he dumped me but thing is i still love him after wot he did to me and i keep thinkin did he only ...
A. 19 February 2010: Babes seriously if a guy asks you for sex, you say no and he dumps you the following day; then clearly he isnt mature enough to have sex, let alone have sex with a 13-15 year old. You'll find someone new who is patient, who will wait until you a... (read in full...)
How can you be happy and single?
Q. how do you be happy and single. Everyone around me is with someone and I feel really depressed. Any tips? Thank you x...
A. 19 February 2010: Just enjoy being single enjoy time with friends and family, doing the things you love and you'll find the right person when your ready.
Just because your mates have partners doesnt mean you should feel pressured to find a boyfriend it really does... (read in full...)
Sex means nothing to me, should I wait anyway?
Q. Sex means nothing to me. I'm scared I'm going to find this amazing guy who won't want sex. It's an awful feeling but despite thinking this, it still means nothing to me, at all. But I think I'll feel really bad if I find a guy who wanted sex with ...
A. 19 February 2010: Trust me;
WAIT FOR THE RIGHT PERSON!
sex might seem like nothing to you now but in the future you'll meet a great guy who you'll love and you'll want to give everything to including yourself physically.
xoxo... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 19 February 2010: I suffer from it too, I went to the doctors about it and he put me on the pill to sort the pains and stuff out. Go to your GP :) xoxo... (read in full...)
I want to break it off with my 15 year old girlfriend but don't want to hurt her!
Q. I am 21 years old and my friend, who is 18, hooked me up with this 15 year old girl. There was and is a connection. However I seem to have become a nervous wreck and rather paranoid. See while our relationship is STRICTLY non-sexual, i just can't ...
A. 19 February 2010: Personaly I don't see why the agre difference is a problem, if you like the girl and she likes you why shouldnt you be together aslong as there isnt any sexual things going on and you are strictly just BF and GF until she's 16 what's the problem?
Y... (read in full...)
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