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writes:PLEASE READ THROUGHLY. I know it's a little long but it's interesting :)I want the girls' views on this (any guys feel free to comment if you can add anything useful). You don't have to say if you do it as that is a private matter.Well basically I am pretty sure most guys masturbate. As regards the people I know I can only think of two people that probably do not: one is a very smart guy from my grade. He does not like any girl nor guy, seems to have no active hormones, is not sociable except with 2 or 3 friends of his (one is a girl) and he has expressed he does not want to date nor feels anything towards the girls. The other is a very religious good friend of mine (with a very hot sister I must add haha). But other than that I think every guy that I know of has done it.As regards the girls, I have never asked one in person if she does it. When we bring up sexual stuff with the girls, unless it is just regular oldschool sex, they gross out. My friends and I are very polite towards girls and we have just asked them about their views of, for instance, oral sex, and they get disgusted to the point that sometimes I think they think that people who do it are just sick. My female friends in particular are not the kind that would have casual sex or anything like that but a couple have kissed a few guys (but not that many) when hooking up at a disco or at a party.Many girls I know also just joke around and take pictures of themselves in funny (sometimes sexual) poses when they hang out with friends, you know, when you get on facebook and see those funny pictures of your girl friends? And usually the comments show the girls laughing their butts off but of course they are just joking around.On one ocassion I had a girl friend that I only saw once at one youth group meeting kind of thing I attended because my religious friend invited me and she was part of the group I had to be with. I started talking to her on MSN and she was very open about herself to the point she told me about the guy she liked and we asked each other about sexual stuff to learn from the other sex (and eventually she found a guy and she told me how she had sex with him -losing her virginity- and all the sexual things she did). One thing that I found interesting is that before she started being sexual with her boyfriend she thought that having her butt touched was gross. One month later (she had had sex) she said it was not gross at all and that her boyfriend kissed her even after he had been eating her out (basically the idea of tasting my penis grosses me out so much yet this girl is not grossed out about tasting her vagina, weird). She told me she masturbated about once a month in the shower since she turned 17, but that she did not know if her friends did it because she never talked about any of that with them. I must add that talking to her really turned me on but it was wrong that we did it on her boyfriend's back.I know girls get turned on, they do like sex with their boyfriends, kissing, and all that, I know. But, at the same time, I cannot imagine any of my girl friends doing any of that, yet I know that girls lie about it but in their privacy they do it.Curiosity kills me (and so many guys) so I wanted to ask the girls on Dear Cupid about it. You don't have to say if you do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): I love giving and getting head a mean who doesn't
Also yes I masturbate ofcourse I do everyone does its totaly normal
My boyfriend knows I do it infact it turns him on esp when I let him watch he says thiers nothing sexier
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): Well, (this includes what my friends do as well as myself) I'm 17 and a virgin and i masturbate loads. Once a day minimum I'd say.I love the idea of giving oral sex (as and when i'm with the right person) as well, but i think this kind of thing varies alot (my friend says she hates giving it and my other friend said she just avoids it with her boyfriend because she finds it so gross.I mean, me and friends discuss this stuff pretty openly and honestly and there's people like me who do it all the time, others who just do it sometimes if they're particularly turned on and there are those who just don't do it at all. It's totally up to the individual girl so it's hard to answer really.
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reader, SaphiraGold16  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 I am a very open and mature young women and I'll admit I do masturabte, I love oral sex and casual sex.I think it all comes when in a relationship I've been in my current relationship for nearlly 2 years and I lost my virginity to him although I admit I did masturbate and fool around with other guys before meeting him.The things that "gross" you out won't when your in a new relationship trying new things because it will be different and new experiences for you.For example I thought yuck... oral I didnt mind giving oral but receiving I thought was disgusting now I love it. Aslong as it's done right of course lol :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): The truth is that girls don't really like to talk about sex. And who can blame them with guys calling them sluts, whore, hoes and other nasty names when they do?
So yeah sometimes we're just pretending. Sometimes, you don't like something until you try it.
I was the biggest prude ever and refused to see anything positive about oral sex. Long story short, I ended up with an older boyfriend and months down the line we started experimenting with oral sex.
Turns out I like to give it more than I like to receive it. And by that, I mean, I love sucking him off.
But I wouldn't admit that to anyone other than him.
So I guess views change when you experience things in a comfortable, loving, trusting environment.
I don't really feel the need to masturbate.
And recent stats say the majority of girls don't masturbate, but numbers are rising when compared to the past.
Girls aren't really encouraged into these kinds of things the ways guys are. Society doesn't really seem to approve and male peers judge as soon as a girl likes or even takes part in ANYTHING sexual and talks about it.
Wouldn't names like slut put you off?
And thats about it.
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