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... Send *ammia a private message | | | *ammia's profile:I studied pyschology and child pyschology while completing a degree in Childhood & youth studies. I have A levels in Behavioural pyschology and Social Science. I have been in relationships that have been a struggle, both emotional and physical abuse. I have worked with abused women and men, vulnerable adults and children. I have a very large family who have been through some really tough times. I have been through an awful lot of pain and anxiety. I have lost a lot in life. I never thought that I could be happy, but that all changed when I met my partner he showed me how to love and be loved. I am in a very loving relationship now and ready to start a family. I am here to try and help people, I hope my experience will help other to find their happiness. |
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I need help getting out of my shell
Q. ok so i need help getting out of my own shell. my problem is pretty simple, i've mostly lost my ability to approach girls that im interested in. i used to have no problem going after what i wanted but my last relationship ended very badly and since ...
A. 18 June 2012: Firstly it happens to us all. We take a knock and feel like we will never recover but we done. It's all about self confidence and even if you are lacking it put on a front be brave grab the bull by the horns so to speak. Find a girl you like talk to ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had luck dating friends?
Q. Have any of you had luck dating friends? I have this friend. She's beautiful and intelligent, we have some common interests. Of course I'm afraid to ask her out on a date cuz I'm scared of rejection and affecting our friendship but just wondering if ...
A. 18 June 2012: I am in a relationship with a friend. We were friends for over twenty years before he finally asked me out. We have been together 3 years now and are very happy expecting our first child. So the answer would be yes it can work. However you must both ... (read in full...)
I know he likes me but I think he also still likes my friend
Q. the guy i'm seeing (not yet official) was in love with my friend. they dated for a bit but were aslo never official. he told me in april that he loved her but he was trying to get over her. in may me and him kissed and told each other we liked each ...
A. 18 June 2012: Rule one you should never date a friends ex! To be totally honest with you it sounds like he is using you to get close to your friend. If you two got together you would always be paranoid about him and your friend, also if your friend changed her ... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth or cheating on me again?
Q. I'm 22 year-old and my boyfriend is just a year older than me. We've been going steady with our relationship of one and a half year until a very strange issue cropped up a week before. My boyfriend has all of a sudden started behaving very ab...
A. 18 June 2012: There are side affects to all medication, he is telling the truth on this. These pills do change people, their attitude, their actions and even their feelings. However only you know what is going on trust your instincts. Trust is an important factor ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's being sincere through video chat since we cannot physically be around each other?
Q. I have reconnected with a friend from almost 10 years ago through social networking. We began chatting, catching up on the time missed, and getting to know each other better than before which all was completely platonic. As of a couple months ago, ...
A. 18 June 2012: Same thing happened to me. I too had been in bad relationships was single for 4 years and he charmed the pants off me literally after 12 months of chatting getting to know each other again we met up things happened between us every for months but ... (read in full...)
How can I change my life and get out of the box I'm in?
Q. Hi im 21 and in my life nothing has been accomplished and im just completely embarrassed to admit that. But now im looking for a real change im from a smalk town and its like ive become so completely immune to it. Eveythings the same all the time ...
A. 18 June 2012: You have took the first step asking for advice. What you are looking for will take time you are not asking for too much because we all want this. Just concentrate on one thing at a time or you'll be setting yourself up for a fall. Start with your ... (read in full...)
I like her online but would I like her in real life?
Q. i'm 15 and i've fallen in love with this girl that i meet on a online web cam chat site called chatroulette,the problem with that is she lives in a different country. when we were chatting on webcam we instantly connected and really liked each ...
A. 18 June 2012: The problem with meeting online is that people can be whoever they want to be and who you want them to be. You don't know if you will have the same connection in real life! By all means meet up but have a parent with you don't ever meet alone. Yes ... (read in full...)
Does he really want a relationship, or is he just playing me?
Q. Hey everyone, it's Rach. I'm fifteen this year, and I do have a problem. Two months ago, in April, I joined this debating thing and this guy got my number from a mutual friend of ours. We started texting (is it just me, or do most of my crushes ...
A. 18 June 2012: If he is a player and as cheated on your friends stay away from him. He is using you. I am sorry I am being completely honest. You will find someone who really wants to be with you and you will know he won't treat you like this. I had a similar ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to ask him what we are or to just let things flow?
Q. Hi. I am a sophomore in highschool. Last week my crush messaged me on facebook asking for our hw and then said btw what's your number. We texted till 2 am on sat night and he kept trying to figure out who I liked. Eventually I told him and he said ...
A. 18 June 2012: This is a very common thing that happens, I don't think you should have told him about your experience of friends with benefits that could give him the idea that if he gets close enough to you he could change your mind. Go out on dates with him for ... (read in full...)
I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...
A. 18 June 2012: We all want to believe the good in people but he is no good. Don't be fooled by him. If you want to know if he is worth it. Stop doing things for him don't answer your phone at 4am. If he really likes you he will do everything he can to find out ... (read in full...)
Should I make him happy and leave?
Q. hello again, need help. my hubby is to friendly w/girls on facebook he has them sending him pics and flirting plus hes friends w/ ALL his ex`s. he tells me that me and the kids are 1 of the reasons why he wants to start drinking. i ask him fif he ...
A. 18 June 2012: Forget about his happiness he obviously doesn't care about yours. What do you want? Do you want this man treating you like an emotional punching bag? That is what this is. Don't let him make you feel guilty he is the one who is in the wrong. If he ... (read in full...)
My wife drags her mother along with us on vacation.
Q. I am a 39 year old male. My wife of 20 years is 41. My problem is that my wife invites my mother-in-law along on almost every trip or vacation. Sometimes she is unable to go (thank the heavens for that!) but I'd like it if it could just be the two ...
A. 18 June 2012: You are not being unreasonable and I can see your wife's point of view also. Maybe you should suggest that your wife and her mother should spend the odd weekend together no vacation necessary to give them time together to create memories. Plan a ... (read in full...)
She avoids being alone with me. But does she have feelings for me?
Q. I've been pursuing her for 3 months now. During that period, we've been out couple of times, we often kissed, have great conversations on the phone but she won't tell me how she feels about me and she avoids being alone with me at my place....
A. 17 June 2012: There could be a number of reasons she doesn't want to be alone with you yet. She might not know how she feels about you herself. Give her time, just keep talking and going out. If its meant to be it will happen have patience. ... (read in full...)
I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...
A. 17 June 2012: No you are not overreacting. Get rid of him he is using you. If he has any respect for you he would never pull you down. You don't need a job or money to be in a relationship. If you was planning on moving in together yes the financial thing would ... (read in full...)
How do I make my mom see that she is better off without her boyfriend?
Q. My mother suffers from a lot of anxiety and has had a history of depression and is dependent on alcohol. She's going through a rough time right now and a lot of her anxiety comes from not having much money. Her boyfriend puts her under a lot of p...
A. 17 June 2012: Unfortunately people don't listen when it comes to their partner. You can go on about him until you are blue in the face it will make no difference. All you can do is be there to pick up the pieces. She will learn in time.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife that I cheated on her once?
Q. I need advice on an age old question. To tell or not to tell. I cheated on my wife one time. After 1 year of marriage. I felt horrible and vowed to never do it again. Promised myself I'd make up for it by being an amazing husband. And I have been....
A. 17 June 2012: There is one question you need to ask yourself do you want to hurt this woman? You cheated on her with other women which is a terrible thing to do and you should be riddled with guilt. She serves better but honestly why hurt her. I am not judging ... (read in full...)
He's separated from his wife. But now he's shutting me out. Should I give him space?
Q. My friend and his wife recently seperated, and now hes without a job, and might be relocating to Texas. I think he starts to feel depressed and shuts me out, I try to be inspirational and give him kind words but he doesnt really respond , as if he ...
A. 17 June 2012: Give him space but let him know you are there for him whenever he wants to talk. He is grieving for his relationship it is sometimes just as hard as a death. He needs a friend but also needs time to himself. Just be there for him that is enough and ... (read in full...)
B/f says he feels guilt because he cheated. Should I let him go?
Q. okay me and my guy have been together for 5 years now. and our begaining wasnt the greastest . lets just say we end up togther even though we were with others but now he tells me about all this guilt he has so about it . so my question is should i ...
A. 17 June 2012: If you were both with other people to start with and have been open and honest and it has not happened again I don't see why he has guilt. If you love each other then work through it. Talking can help be honest about how you both feel. Some times ... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy with our sex life. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I haven't got a good sex life, we've been together a year and a half and we've always had problems with sex, he's rarely managing to hold an erection, and lately it's getting worse, now it's like I have to choose between an ...
A. 17 June 2012: There could be a lot of reasons for this, you would need to talk to him about this it could be stress related or something else. As for your sex life unless you are planning on a family it doesn't have to be about intercourse. Try other things if he ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with someone who has hepatitis C. He's afraid to move forward with the relationship, but I'm not. What do I do?
Q. Hello.. i've recently met a guy who i really really like. We've been on a few dates in a very short time and we talked a lot. I even got (maybe stupid) the feeling that he's "the one", which is kind a big deal for me, because i'm very very picky ...
A. 17 June 2012: Relationships are not based on sex they are based on a foundation of friendship and trust. There is no reason why you can't be together, if you are willing to wait for the physical part of relationship then you should be together. You should find ... (read in full...)
I want to focus on the girl I like, but I don't want to upset my friend. How should I do this?
Q. It's so frustrating and unfair. Every girl I like or hit on somehow dislikes me. But most of the girls I show no genuine interest in, seems to fall for me. For instance, I have a female friend that I frequently talk to. Let's call her A. I use to ...
A. 17 June 2012: Firstly what you have with A is a very special friendship and you would be lost without this girl. She is bound to talk about you to people. This friend how told you A likes you could be waiting for a reaction she might be testing the water she ... (read in full...)
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