Want to ask her out but I'm shy and afraid. Help!
Q. Dear Friends and Readers I am a single 15 year old guy I go to church and school and I am very active in the community service I visit retierment homes and volenter at homeless centers I am what you would call an outcast and I am...
A. 17 March 2007: Dear Kody,
You sound like a very sweet person with a lot to offer a girlfriend. You say that you would really like a girlfriend because you feel lonely but "fear" this girl, who you have become close to may not like you - is it that you really l... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me and only using me for sex? What do you guys think?
Q. Please help. I can't live like this anymore. I really think my boyfriend of three years and 7 months is cheating on me. We argue ALL the time. He treats me like sh** when we fight. He calls me a bi** and I told him to not call me that no matter how ...
A. 12 March 2007: Hi Ivanna,
It sounds like you are under a lot of pressure at the moment, and I get the feeling that the underlying issue is not love but money. You give the impression that you would leave him if you could be financially independent, which is... (read in full...)
I was forced to have sex with this boy, my friend now doesnt want to know me, and I feel I have no one to talk to!!!
Q. i feel as if i am alone i have no one to talk to i am due to go to counselling in a few weeks i feel as if i cant go through with pretending everythings ok when its not. i was forced to have sex with a boy. my best friend tried to help me but ...
A. 4 March 2007: Hi there,
I'm sorry to hear that you were forced into sex. The most important thing for you to understand is that it will never be your fault, and the blame lies completely with this boy who cruelly took advantage.
Not everyone has the support ... (read in full...)
Been with the same guy for 15 years, I love him, but I also love someone else!!!
Q. what do i do i have been with the same man for 15 years i do love him, but i am in love with another man i don't know what to do.they are both great men i don't see how i could choose between them.i have a 14 year old boy with the man i been with ...
A. 3 March 2007: Hi Cindy,
So you've been with the same man for 15 years, and after one year together you had a son. Did you both feel more able to stay together after his birth? Or did you have strong feelings for each other anyway?
It sounds like you feel th... (read in full...)
I get angry when my bf drops everything for his adult children and doesn't do the same for me! What can I do?
Q. i am dating an older man in his 60's. we have been dating 2years, 2 months. he is wonderful to me but he will not get engaged to me. however, if his two older children want him to do something or have a need, it only takes 1 minute for him to ...
A. 17 February 2007: Hi there,
It sounds like you want to your boyfriend to commit to your relationship by getting engaged but he is reluctant to do this. However, you also see that he is very commited to his children, and you wonder why he cannot show you the same... (read in full...)
I need advice for being able to cope with my elderly Mother. Help!
Q. Please help me to cope with my elderly mother who is now living with us.She is very weak and sickly and I worry about everything that happens, I cannot separate my anxiety from reality and now find that I am losing my temper and yelling at my ...
A. 17 February 2007: Hi,
It sounds like you are feeling very stressed and anxious at the moment because you are trying hard to support your mother who is elderly and needs care. You begin your question with the words "please help" - how would you liked to be helped? ... (read in full...)
He was the love of my life...how can he stop loving me..just like that? Help me understand
Q. Please can I have some advice! I met my NOW ex- boyfriend 8 months ago. From the very first moment he saw me I could see he fancied me.. he even stuttered when he spoke to me. He made all the effort and I was chuffed because all the other girls in ...
A. 16 February 2007: Hi there, You seem genuinely sad that your relationship has ended and mention him being "the love of my life". Yet you do not say what exactly he did to make you feel this way or what you had in common. It sounds like you believe in love at first... (read in full...)
I'm getting married soon and I'm so overwhelmed by it all, please help.
Q. Dear Cupid, Marriage has always been a stressful occasion for my family members (though not myself). It seems that the elder people are not good enough to handle the situation when it gets stressful and they end up fighting and blaming each oth...
A. 10 February 2007: Hi P,
You sound overwhelmed, burdened and stressed by this big event that is supposed to bring happiness. This is not an unusual reaction to have, many people feel overwhelmed by an impeding wedding, probably including your fiancee and your fam... (read in full...)
Is she still to young for me to have a non sexual relationship with?
Q. Hi I am an 18 year old christian male and have been great friends with a 14 year old christian female. She has liked me from the beginning however i told her we couldnt be together due to the age difference at this stage of her life. However we...
A. 10 February 2007: Hi, It sounds like you want to have a relationship with this girl, who is a few years younger than you but have chosen not to so far because others might judge it inappropriate. You make a point of stating that you are both christian, suggesti... (read in full...)
I fancy a guy 20-years older than me. I can't stop thinking about him!
Q. Hi I am a woman of 33 who works in a bar part-time. I have been divorced after an 8 year marriage for a few months now. My ex-husband turned out to be gay. So these past few months have been about re-discovering myself. I am ready for a relationship ...
A. 5 February 2007: Hi there,
It sounds like you feel ready for a new relationship, perhaps with this older man. Sometimes, finding out a partner is gay can lead to feelings of uncertainty - could it be that you want a man who is almost like a father figure? This mig... (read in full...)
He cheated on me, but I want him back, but he wants nothing to do with me! What should I do?
Q. I split up with my partner last November and we were going to remain friends, but this has been hard because I kicked him out of my house as he had been cheating on me, not just once but a few times with the same woman. I love him and still do, we ...
A. 3 February 2007: Hi,
It sounds like you really wanted this relationship to work out but unfortunately experienced infidelity as alot of women do. It seems like you were very angry and now regret being overtly upset because in reality you want to continue this rel... (read in full...)
Worried I've broken my sex-drive by watching too much porn!
Q. I'm 25 and I was single for a few months. And lately I've been watching a lot of porn. I was only masturbating with porn. At least 1 time each day, for a long time. Now I've meet this incredibly attractive women, and we are starting a ...
A. 3 February 2007: Hi there,
You say that you are having a difficult time getting aroused with your girlfriend but immediately feel aroused when watching porn and masturbating. This is natural because pornography is a strong sexual stimulus for our senses and thus... (read in full...)
Foolishly told her a lie at the start of our relationship, now it has been exposed how do I regain her trust in me?
Q. I met a woman for whom I am totally amazed with, and found myself falling for. The problem is that early on in the relationship, I lied to her. I had been living with the mother of my daughter for awhile, even tho we werent together, shared a house ...
A. 1 February 2007: Hi P,
It does sound like you are feeling alot of genuine regret that you kept your living arrangements from this woman, who you are very much in love with.
This suggests that you do care for her feelings and did not want to hurt her, which ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship here ...going anywhere or should I call it a day?
Q. My situation is a complicated one. I have been dating a wonderful man for just over 2 years. I am 30 yrs. old and he's 29. I have 2 beautiful daughters from a previous relationship ages 10 and 11. My boyfriend has always wanted to be a ...
A. 23 January 2007: Hi there,
It sounds as if you want to support your boyfriend in his dream to become a pilot but feel that if he takes this opportunity it will mean the end of your relationship because you do not want to raise any children you might have together... (read in full...)
When I'm not in the mood for sex my partner gets upset with me. I feel pressured sometimes. What can I do?
Q. I was married up until last year and had an affair with someone else, since then I separated from my husband and I am now living with my new partner. When it was an affair we were having sex at every opportunity! Now we are together properly and ...
A. 19 January 2007: It sounds like your new partner is not good at communicating with you, and uses sex as a reason not to develop the emotional aspect of your relationship. You both appear to be anxiously awaiting the next time you have sex - are there other ways you ... (read in full...)
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