Should I sms him again or wait for him to contact me?
Q. ok, so was dating this guy non-exclusively for 2 months before i went away for a couple of weeks.. he is the first guy ive been out with for that long, but i'm unsure whether i enjoy his company as a friend, or whether i could fall for him... I...
A. 31 January 2011: no he replied to my question about the job.. but that was the last contact we had..
so i dont know whether i should contact him again (and what i would say) or should i leave the ball in his court if he wants to see me again?... (read in full...)
Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?
Q. Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out ...
A. 2 December 2010: obviously i come from a different culture to you, but at the same time i also believe in not having sex too early in a relationship..
ive been seeing the guy im with for 2 months as well.. im a bit younger than you, and so havent had many make out ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex?
Q. I am not sure if I should have sex or not and I was hoping for some input based on the following 1. I REALLY want to have sex 2. I trust my partner and have been with him for three years. 3. I feel at 25 I should be having sex or at least ...
A. 2 December 2010: im with you in wanting to get things a bit more exciting, but i think if you've waited this long it really is worth waiting a little bit longer until you find someone who you actually love..
thats just my input, but i think you may regret it othe... (read in full...)
Handjobs?
Q. i know to wait until im comfortable but just curious as to how long others wait to give handjobs in relationships? ...
A. 2 December 2010: we started making out with bare chests around 1.5/2 months into the relationship--- is it ok not to go "below the belt" until about 4 months?? to me, making out without my top on is no big deal- but do guys see it another way? (i.e. like im ... (read in full...)
How do I rectify this?
Q. so was plannign on saying this to my guy at the end of the date tonight as we were sitting in the car: "theres something i need to tell you because its been on my mind- last time i think i got a little caught up in the moment with taking my bra an...
A. 29 November 2010: so i just want to get a general idea of whether or not i got my point across with my guy-- i kind of am really awkward with the serious stuff and couldnt work up the courage to say what i wanted, but instead i bassically said "i dont want to get ... (read in full...)
1st date advice?
Q. I am going on a date with someone from my school, any advice for the first date (holding hands etc). We are going to see a movie fyi....
A. 25 November 2010: do what you're comfortable with- wear something than you feel confident in, smile and have fun
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How do I rectify this?
Q. so was plannign on saying this to my guy at the end of the date tonight as we were sitting in the car: "theres something i need to tell you because its been on my mind- last time i think i got a little caught up in the moment with taking my bra an...
A. 24 November 2010: oki, cool= thanks !
just hypothetically our next date may possibily be at his house because we get lazy to go out sometimes... so i assume i have to bring this up before we start making out etc, is he going to take this personally?
(guys g... (read in full...)
How do I rectify this?
Q. so was plannign on saying this to my guy at the end of the date tonight as we were sitting in the car: "theres something i need to tell you because its been on my mind- last time i think i got a little caught up in the moment with taking my bra an...
A. 24 November 2010: well.. he knows im shy, and it did say on my dating profile that i need someone who is willling to goslow- but we havent explicitly talked about it..
i know i need to tell him, is it ok to tell him just before we make out? or should i wait unti... (read in full...)
He's leading up to sex and I"m a virgin!
Q. ive been seeing this guy for almost 2 months, im 21- he is my first relationship (but we're not exclusive/official etc) im going to talk to him about going slow with the physical stuff as im not ready to go below the belt, and feel like he may be e...
A. 21 November 2010: no i wont be sleeping with him for a long time, i just dont know whether or not i should tell him im a virgin now- or whether i should just tell him i'd like to slow it down a bit, as i have some trust issues with guys and im also shy....... (read in full...)
I want to resolve my problems... but how?
Q. One of the things i want to do is to resolve some of my problems in the holidays - but i don't know where to begin? I had about two major crushes when i was younger and I never did anything about the crush and never told them. I feel like its un...
A. 20 November 2010: when i was in high school i had a crush on this guy for about 3 years- i never told him directly, but i think he knew i liked him anyways. we were both too shy. as the end of school approached i was really regretting that i had never really gotten ... (read in full...)
At what time in a relationship do guys expect these things?
Q. in the beginning of a relationship, i know people say go at a pace your comfortable but im just wanting to know the average amount of time before/ maximum amount of time guys expect 1. girls take their tops off while making out 2. hand jobs 3. bl...
A. 19 November 2010: i meant i feel a bit shy telling him that i havent been in any relationships before..
of course i will tell him im a virgin later on when i know him better, but i dont feel it necessary to bring up now as a way of explaining why im not comf... (read in full...)
At what time in a relationship do guys expect these things?
Q. in the beginning of a relationship, i know people say go at a pace your comfortable but im just wanting to know the average amount of time before/ maximum amount of time guys expect 1. girls take their tops off while making out 2. hand jobs 3. bl...
A. 18 November 2010: yeah i dont plan on having sex until love so he is deffinetely not getting that out of me...
as for the other things, im inexperienced and shy so those will only come about once i have enough trust in him that he isnt just after favours etc.... (read in full...)
When making out...how long does a girl wait before removing her bra?
Q. how long do girls usually wait to take their tops/bras off while making out? i dont want to give him the impression that i want to go faster witht he physical stuff, quite the opposite- weve only known each other for almost 2 months.. and i r...
A. 18 November 2010: thanks for the replies--keep them coming
its been done- he tried to remove my bra on our 5th date, i only allowed it on 7th..
yeah, deffinetely not ready for sex or anything below the belt..so should i just keep my top on in future then, and... (read in full...)
Importance of physical attraction for guys?
Q. i met this guy off an online dating website (im 21, he 22).. im quite shy and am rather intimidated by him for various reasons, but we;ve been on a few dates anyways.. just wondering whether guys would persue a girl that they're not physically ...
A. 17 November 2010: i dont know. i just am intimidated by him, and think that he probably goes for better looking/more confident girls etc... i mean we've been out on 6 dates, and its not like we're moving fast phsycially (i want to go slow, im a virgin etc and am very ... (read in full...)
Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?
Q. ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) ...
A. 16 November 2010: ok, cool with not havign to take care of the erection.thanks for that.
but do i have to actually talk to him about taking it slow, or should i see if he gets the point and just follows my lead? / should i tell him that i dont mean to be a teas... (read in full...)
Is 14 too old to have your first kiss?
Q. okk this sonds sooo stupid /: but im 14 and well ive never actually kissed a boy properly ( in which i mean tongue ) and i feel stupid because my bestfriend has and i feel stupid i dont want to be like a 40 yr old person and never kissed a guy lol ...
A. 16 November 2010: i was 16 or 17 and my friends were all hooking up, and so my one friend pushed me into having my first kiss.. i regretted it so much!! i wanted it to be special and with someone who meant something to me, and now im stuck having the memory of some ... (read in full...)
When I finally started moving on, he's back in my life!
Q. hey every1 !!! how's it goin?!!! im a 17 year old girl who has this 1 problem in her life. for almost a year,i loved this boy who seemed intersted in me too cause he was always staring at me and he tried to reach me so many times.but none o...
A. 16 November 2010: i had the same kind of thing when i was younger. i think there will always be that guy who will always have your heart, and i dont think it will ever be easy to forget him or move on (i still compare all guys to my guy). i think if deep down you ... (read in full...)
Ideas for conversations to get a better idea of who he is?
Q. so im looking for some ideas for conversations with this guy im seeing to kind of gain a better idea of the kind of guy he is- im not talking like general interest kind of things... but stuff with more substance that can truly get to the core of who ...
A. 15 November 2010: thanks, realising i am just paranoid.. and time will show what he really is =)... (read in full...)
Ideas for conversations to get a better idea of who he is?
Q. so im looking for some ideas for conversations with this guy im seeing to kind of gain a better idea of the kind of guy he is- im not talking like general interest kind of things... but stuff with more substance that can truly get to the core of who ...
A. 12 November 2010: I dont know if he is playing me or not.. im just trying to figure out what kind of guy he is- i suppose because i'm quite a shy girl and he comes off as a really confident guy i am basing my assumptions on these stereotypes of people the he went to ... (read in full...)
Ideas for conversations to get a better idea of who he is?
Q. so im looking for some ideas for conversations with this guy im seeing to kind of gain a better idea of the kind of guy he is- im not talking like general interest kind of things... but stuff with more substance that can truly get to the core of who ...
A. 11 November 2010: yeah i know that his past has nothing really to do with who he is etc.. but i dont know, i suppose im just impatient to figure out what kind of guy he is and whether or not he is playing me...
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What can I do to make him more comfortable in the relationship and confident?
Q. Hi. Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now and I like him. So far he's been a really great guy. The only problem that we're having is he's extremely self conscious and has low self-esteem so he constantly doubts my motives. He says ...
A. 10 November 2010: i think the only thing you can do is give him some more time and show him that you're willing to wait for him to feel more comfortable...
(this coming from someone who has trust/confidence issues)... (read in full...)
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