Worried because my g/f is spending more time talking to her abusive ex...
Q. My girlfriend left a violent relationship about 4 months ago and went straight into a relationship with me. We are both very much in love with each other, but for the last 2 weeks I have noticed a change in her. She is having a go at me over the...
A. 14 April 2005: Hi I know what it feels like to be in a violent relationship I was forever looking over my shoulder when we split up. I think that because she was the victim as such she doesn't want that happening again so she has become more aggressive! I... (read in full...)
I thought love meant someone would protect you, but he ran off and left me in strife!
Q. My 17 yr old boyfriend caused some trouble for himself with some 14 & 15 yr olds. I stopped them from beating him up by distracting them, but instead of standing his ground & protecting me, he ran off & left me on my own. He says he loves me. He s...
A. 14 April 2005: Hi Please take the advice given already You are both young and unfortunately 17yr old boys are a little bit selfish and sometimes only think about there own skin! He was wrong in leaving you in a dangerous situation but give him a second chance... (read in full...)
I spend my time dreaming about the guy I could have had...
Q. I'm still with my boyfriend but I still think a lot about a guy that I used to fancy in college, but I didn't get his number and now I'm regretting ever going out with my boyfriend becuase I know the other guy liked me & he hated seeing me with my ...
A. 14 April 2005: hi Speaking from experience i've been where you are and I split up with someone to try and get back with an ex and I didn't bump in to him! Try and put yourself in your new b/f shoes would you want to be with someone because there is no one better... (read in full...)
My guy named his fantasy porn photo after my sister! Should I worry?
Q. My question is about sexual fantasies... My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years and a long time ago, I found some porn on his computer. I wasn't surprised at this, what I was surprised about was the fact that he had renamed the porn...
A. 14 April 2005: Hi YES! Be very worried. Due to the fact he is fantasizing about have sex with your sister and friends! I know I would stand for that! Be strong and confront him with the fact you don't like this and he is degrading you! You deserve better... (read in full...)
He's been sneaking around with others and so have I, and it's bothering me...
Q. Hello, I've been in a relationship for three years, one that sort of just happened. This is my first relationship. Although my partner and I continue to express our deep love for one another constantly, the relationship has many flaws which have ...
A. 14 April 2005: hi Please ask yourself if you really do love him because from an outsider not knowing all the facts and both sides of the stories, you both haven't based this relationship on trust!!! On one hand there is you betraying him with ex partners and the... (read in full...)
I'm scared of my abusive boyfriend
Q. Please help I just got beaten very badly and need advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He and I have had a completely trustful, honest, supportive relationship. Yet every now and then it can be a verbally abusive ...
A. 14 April 2005: Hi Please listen to the other advice!! I was put in hospital by a boyfriend a couple of times before i left him!! This won't be a one off or just because his stressed! THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT! PLEASE DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF!!! You deserve to be... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about the guy I met in America. We just connected...
Q. I recently went on holiday to America, where I met this fantastic guy. As soon as I saw him, I felt we had this weird connection, and found that I couldn't keep my eyes off him, and vice versa. Now that I am back home I cant stop thinking about hi...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi Speaking from experience I really connected with and loved him completely!! But I found out he was seeing lots of girls and this crushed me!!! Phone him or email him tell him how you feel and ask him and set some rules!! Long distance re... (read in full...)
Would he be so cruel as to sleep with me, then dump me again?
Q. My ex and I broke up four months ago. We met up for the first time yesterday, and it was just wonderful. I have never stopped loving him, and my feelings were confirmed when we met up. It was as if we had never been apart and it felt like it used ...
A. 13 April 2005: Tread carefully! Ask him how he feels about you and if he says just friends, please stand back and accept this! Sometimes you see someone you were close to once and all the old feelings come rushing back and you want it back to the way you were... (read in full...)
Very affectionate in private, but when he's with his mates, it's like he doesn't even care!
Q. I am going out with this boy I've really liked for ages. When we're alone, he's really clingy and that, which I don't mind. I quite like it, but when we're at school and he's with his mates he doesn't hug me or want to kiss me or anything else. W...
A. 13 April 2005: hi Boys don't like to show they are soft! Just enjoy the time you have together and don't push him to be more touchy feely in public or you could push him away. Take care... (read in full...)
We argue because he thinks we should still be friends with driver who had the accident that injured my b/f!
Q. My boyfriend was involved in a serious car accident and suffered months of rehab after a brain injury. Due to this I gave up college to be with him at this time (I couldnt have continued as I was too worried!). Although now he is fully recovere...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi Some people would say if he can forgive why can't you? I think you need to explain to your boyfriend how you feel and what you felt during his visit to hospital and don't hide from this as it will get worse. Be honest Take Care... (read in full...)
I think my man has a foot fetish and I think it's kind of weird...
Q. My man gets on his internet and looks up things about feet! Like fetish stuff. I've always found this a bit wierd and I'm not sure why he likes feet, so much he won't tell me. Does anyone know? How can I get him to let me in on it? What if I don'...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi, I think if you really love this guy then ask him what appeals to him about feet? Ask him you have nothing to lose and you could even get a foot massage out of it? If you don't feel comfortable then don't do it!!!!! Take Care ... (read in full...)
Maybe I was too quick to ask her to leave. Now I regret it and want things the way they were!
Q. Hi, Recently my girlfriend had a miscarriage, so she came and spent a week with me, to try and get over it. Over the week we had such a good time. Then on the day she was going home she must have got upset by something I did. So I told her to hu...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi This is coming from someone who has had 2 miscarrages and could possibly tell you how she's feeling! I was so excited about being pregnant, and when I went to the hospital to have a check up the doctor turned round and just said your baby is dea... (read in full...)
We've spent every minute together, but I don't feel sure of where we stand...
Q. Where to begin...ah yes, the beginning. I was in a three year relationship with a boy I have known since highschool. He is 25, and I am 23. I must admit that due to depression over the suicide of my high school sweetheart, I stayed in this ...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi Have you told other b/f it's over? If yes you have nothing to lose but to ask this guy how he feels about you! But you must be honest and if this guy has problems with trust then let him work them out before you get into a serious relation... (read in full...)
I have a few questions about sex with my boyfriend...
Q. Hi. I have a few questions. I've been with my guy for almost 5 years. We have been off and on, but he has been the only guy I've been having sex with. In the beginning, the sex was good. It was fun and we'd do a lot of positions. One of the tim...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi I must agree with the advice already given. Be honest with your b/f and relax. Spend a whole evening together pampering and touching. Have a bath together. Stroke each other. If you like, have some fun. Get some chocolate body paint put... (read in full...)
There are 5 years between me and my b/f and everyone thinks this is a problem, except us!
Q. I'm going out with some one who is 5 years older than me. I'm 17 and he's 22. Everyone seem to have a problem with this. Are we in the wrong?...
A. 13 April 2005: hi As long as you look after, respect, trust and love each other age doesn't matter! Take Care ... (read in full...)
The girl I want doesn't seem bothered that she already has a boyfriend. Should I be?
Q. I had always liked this girl. I chatted her up and we went out one night and we snogged for ages (about 20 - 30 minutes). However, she is 4 years older than me and apparently already got a boyfriend. I really like her and I am unsure about he...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi This is from experience. Walk away from this girl, as she already has a boyfriend and yet she is more than willing to snog you! This girl seems to find it easy to snog other boys! How would you feel if this girl was your g/f and was snogging... (read in full...)
I need more than just sex to have an orgasm, so should I keep faking it, or tell them what I need?
Q. Hi, I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this sex situation...I can have orgasms but I never get them through intercourse itself. When I have sex I think it's polite to fake an orgasm because men like to know they have satisfied their partner,...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi Faking an orgasim is a no no! You have intercourse with your partner so you should be truthful! Tell him even show him how you want to be touched men love that! See how that goes or even try with you on top and make circle movements with your pel... (read in full...)
My mom won't allow me to see my 20-year-old boyfriend and I don't understand it!
Q. I'm 15 and I had a secret boyfriend who has just turned 20. Recently my mom just found out and broke us apart. I'm allowed no contact at all and I feel like I love him but nobody gives me support. Is it reallly that wrong?...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi This is from someone who has been there! You say you think you love him? At 15 you love everyone you get close to because there new feelings and you haven't learnt how to separate them. I fell in love with a sports teacher at school he was 23... (read in full...)
He has three times the spending money that I have and he still says it's not enough!
Q. Hi, my partner has started a new job about two months ago, before this he was off work for about 18 months because of an operation. I supported him the whole time, so now he's started work we split the bills, which I thought was working well. H...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi If your partner if the father of your son he has a responsiblity to your son. Sit down and explain the situation and tell him not to be selfish as it's not only about him! No you shouldn't have to leave on £20 for one week You split the bills! T... (read in full...)
I'm more than willing to have sex, so why does my man masturbate so much?
Q. I am lucky enough to have found the man of my dreams. Perfect in every way! Except, he mastubates morning noon and night! Okay maybe thats an exageration slightly, but hes always masturbating, sometimes as much as 5 times a day. He doesn't do it ...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi My friend had this problem with her boyfriend and it's a learn behaviour! Boys when they are growing up learn that they should masturbate and unfortunately they sometimes have problems slowing or stopping this but it can be helped. He isn't al... (read in full...)
Doesn't trust me, won't leave... He's just nasty and hurtful!
Q. I'Ce been married for 5 years now. i've been very jealous throughout our marriage. the men in past relationships have always cheated so i have problems with trust. Last summer my husband had enough and left me with our children. I ended up sleeping...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi First of all if you have children then this will be rubbing off on them! Put them first! do you want him to stay away and leave? Contact the people whom you have the tenancy with explain the problem you are having with your husband and they... (read in full...)
I want to be myself, but I still want boys to notice me... How do I do that?
Q. Hey! I am really annoyed because no boys seem to be remotely interested in me. I don't really flirt though and am still in school. It is weird because I don't really want a boyfriend yet, just to be liked by someone nice. I really like this boy in...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi being yourself is the most important thing you will ever learn. If you flirt and wear shorter skirts and do more girlie things than normal than you will get a name for yourself! Unfortunately that name will follow you. If the boy is really nice ... (read in full...)
Think it's time that my mate knows I'm dating the girl he wanted. Should I tell?
Q. Hi, I've just started seeing a girl but my mate was originally trying to get with her. We have started seeing each other without him knowing. I now feel that it is time to tell him, but what can I say???? Thnxs ...
A. 13 April 2005: Hi You need to tell your friend as soon as possible. Be truthful and honest! It will be better to tell him yourself than hearing from someone else and that way you will lose a friend. Say to him that you have something you need to say and you need... (read in full...)
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