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writes: Hi,I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this sex situation...I can have orgasms but I never get them through intercourse itself. When I have sex I think it's polite to fake an orgasm because men like to know they have satisfied their partner, but I'm a bit tired of doing this all the time.Also, when it's a one-night stand it doesn't matter that you fake it, but what if it turns into something else? I can't fake it a few times and then explain that I actually need him to do something else to make me orgasm!Will a man enjoy sex less if he knows that I can't have an orgasm during it??? Should I carry on faking it, or should I just be honest and tell any future partners what I actually need them to do??? (it's nothing odd, it's just that sex doesn't rub the right bit, exactly!!!)
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reader, REBECCA +, writes (13 April 2005):
HiFaking an orgasim is a no no! You have intercourse with your partner so you should be truthful! Tell him even show him how you want to be touched men love that! See how that goes or even try with you on top and make circle movements with your pelvis to grind your clitorus into an orgasim Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2005): Hi. This is my first time replying to anything over the net, so bear with me please. I am in the same boat as you. The only time I get an orgasm is when I am masturbating. I believe the problem lies within, meaning that I am not fully comfortable with myself. That is prohibiting me from enjoying it. I am reading a book, "Becoming Orgasmic" by Julia Heiman. I suggest you read that. In regards to you telling your partner...that depends....Is he a real partner...or just a f***? If he is your real partner, than he should understand. All the weight should not rest on the man's shoulders to give an orgasim. It's up to us too.k
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