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writes: I am lucky enough to have found the man of my dreams. Perfect in every way! Except, he mastubates morning noon and night! Okay maybe thats an exageration slightly, but hes always masturbating, sometimes as much as 5 times a day. He doesn't do it when Im there, well as far as I know he doesn't! When I mentioned that he could be mastubating too much, and that its affecting our sex life, he was like not it's not, it's just what men do! I do feel like its taking over our sex life, after all if he's been masurbating heavily that day, then it's not going to want to or have the need to have sex with me. He seems to think this isn't the case. We do have sex, but sometimes I'm scared to instigate it as I have been turned down before, and no one likes rejection. This is just silly now, because I'm constantly thinking that when I'm not there, that's what he's doing. It's no so much the looking at porn that bothers me, it's the fact that hes got a more than willing partner, but still has to sit there and masturbate so much. Are all men like this ? Do your think there could be a reason for it ? How do I get him to see that I wish he wouldn't do it so much, without him saying im checking on him or having a go ?Please help.
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reader, floy346 +, writes (15 April 2005):
Maybe he has a high sex drive and a low self-esteem. Encourage him to experiment in the bedroom to give more oomph to your sex life, and show how much you really enjoy his attention and let him know how much he satisfies you !!!I hope this is helpful for you and you partner.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (14 April 2005):
 Have you tried tying him to the bed and leaving him there all day and then jumping on him? Maybe it would make him appreciate you a little more in that department.If not buy a rabbit and tell him to sling his hook.Devil's Advocate
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reader, REBECCA +, writes (13 April 2005):
HiMy friend had this problem with her boyfriend and it's a learn behaviour! Boys when they are growing up learn that they should masturbate and unfortunately they sometimes have problems slowing or stopping this but it can be helped. He isn't alone and your not checking up on him! But you have needs as well and you need him! Ask him how he would feel if you masturbated all the time and felt more satisfied and reject him because you have masturbated more! Tell him how you feel and sit down and explain don't shout and tell him you love you him ( if you really do)Take Care
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2005): Maybe he just like masturbation instead of sex. Some men like to masturbate often. Have sex 3 nights a week is enough so you think, but some men like the palm sisters.
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