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writes: My boyfriend was involved in a serious car accident and suffered months of rehab after a brain injury. Due to this I gave up college to be with him at this time (I couldnt have continued as I was too worried!). Although now he is fully recovered he wishes to remain good friends with the person that was driving (too fast) and thinks I should too. I realise it was an accident, i.e. no ones fault, but I am having a hard time accepting that he thinks we should all be friends and I shouldn't care if he hangs out with her! Although I know it wasnt anyone's fault, part of me blames her for partly wrecking our lives and we argue constantly about him hanging out with her as if nothing has happened. Am I being stupid? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, REBECCA +, writes (13 April 2005):
HiSome people would say if he can forgive why can't you?I think you need to explain to your boyfriend how you feel and what you felt during his visit to hospital and don't hide from this as it will get worse.Be honestTake Care
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