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I want to be myself, but I still want boys to notice me... How do I do that?

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Question - (12 April 2005) 23 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2009)
A , anonymous writes:

Hey!

I am really annoyed because no boys seem to be remotely interested in me. I don't really flirt though and am still in school. It is weird because I don't really want a boyfriend yet, just to be liked by someone nice.

I really like this boy in the year above me but don't know how to get his attention, I find it hard to flirt and am not keen on being girly, I just like being myself. What can I do to get boys to like me?

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A female reader, pinkbaberachel United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2009):

hi there, I am on the same page as you... The boy is a year above me and i was trying my hardest, ever since i got into High school... But last week he finnaly spoke to me, he asked if i wanted to go out with him and his friends to see a movie, i hardly knew him but i still had a crush on him!! so i went and her put his arm around me the HOLE time!!! my trick was, i wore a short skirt and i took abit more care with my face and hair, and VUALLA!! he asked me out... good luck then, i hope i helped!!!! xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

just be your self, get you bffl to talk to his bff about you if you now him . If you dont now him just try to make him notise you just at school try to go past him slowly so he can see you.

i hope my advice helps yo

from....

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A female reader, Cutiemay United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2007):

Hey Hey guys, i am in the same possion as you if you like a boy just keep being yourself and if he doesn't notice you than of course they are an idoit!

Gd Luck

Cutiemay!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007):

hi dont be ashamed of who u r because sooner or later you will find your prince charming and you will be glad you didnt change for him incase u really do like him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

his name is Angad

i like him but i dont know if he likes me or not

wht do i do so that he starts liking me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007):

be yourself.if he doesn't like you for being yourself then he isn't the right guy.find someone who likes you for yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

Boys are very hard to understand. You can't always tell what they're thinking. The best thing to do to get a boy to notice you is to be yourself!!! You don't want a guy to like you for ssomething ur not. Plus guys don't like phony girls. Get the guy you like to talk to you by simply asking him a question about hw or simply smiling at him here or there. The only solution is to be yourself no matter what!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Look,I fancie to boys in my class.They are really nice and cute!I always be myself no matter what or who or any boy.But i have a few problems.One of the boys my friend likes,and she was going to ask out i unencoureged her as much as i could any way she didnt.I was tempeted to ask him out i am confident but nervous.No.1 i feel i am too young i am 11 and i am going into 6th grade.No.2 i want to talk to mum but she dosnt really want me to go out with him because she sees him as a brat.He is very polite and generous and nice.She wont believe me though.3.He is my neighbour and i think he fancies me.I think the other boy fancies me too and he is more my class.Where would we meet.4.I dont have a phone getting one next year so i cant text him and idont know his number.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007):

well..i wanted the attention of this one boy so bad that i lied to him i pretended to be someone i was not and it wored for a very good long while it was the best...but it wasnt right i wanted to be the one he was really talking too..like at school i didnt even get to talk to him at all..becase he did not know who i was it sucked..now i have came clean and i told him whom i was we dont talk at all just a bit on the computer..i have to face him like everyday and it suckss!majorly!!i work in a restraunt and i serve his parents and him very offten like every thursday && friday!! i hate going to that table yet my lesson learned never be something your not let them like you for you and if your gonna be fake...at least make one of them pretty!haha well..with an X&O im out like whoa!

3 Mallory

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007):

dont worry about it...eventually when the time is right boys will come around!lol just hang in ther! and plus how do u know if they like you or not . theres probaly a boy out there that has there eyes on you but hes to shy to admitt it! lol just dont worry about it!it will happend when the time is righT!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2006):

hi

it really does not matter cause u r pretty just the way u r and ur friends care for u!! that all that matters!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):

all you need to do is wher relly sexey ofit I did and 11 boys liket me and I fix my hair relly nice. and they all ask me out

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006):

just be you where skirts and what does he want hisgirls to be like just giggle a bit

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006):

Being yourself is great it doesnt matter what you wear or what you do because a guy should like you for who you are not for someone you are pretending to be. But it is better to be yourself have fun and sooner then you know it a guy will come around. Hopefully my advice will work........

BE YOURSELF AND HAVE FUN!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006):

you dont have to be girly.

Just be your self because, if you dont and go out with him

youl be lieing on who u are.

so be your self and go out with the person who likes who you really are.

it mite be the person who you like, just make a conversaytion and you will be fine!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2006):

I really want a boyfriend, but how do i get him to notice me??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006):

hey just be yourself and if he dosent see the beauty in you or if he dosent think your pretty enough then he isant right for you. cause you need a boy that will take you for who you are...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006):

I'm still in year 7 but there is a boy in my class I really really like how do i get him to like me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005):

belive me if you dont flirt with him a little then try to find out who his friends are and send him a note via his friends and if that fails then talk to him your self . but think of what you are going to say first so you dont look like an idot when you do say it.

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A female reader, M3Mys3lfnIv3rson +, writes (20 July 2005):

Hey there. Its always best to be yourself when wanting a boy to notice you. If your not yourself and then you and him seriously begin to talk and he becomes attracted to you then he's gonna wondered where the old u is. So I understand that you don't like to be flirtacious because that just isn't you. So this is what you do. You approach this young man looking the best you can look. Flip your hair and say "Hey there, i'v been watching you from a distance and your astonishing beauty was the only thing that caught my eye." That would be a good start. If he starts kicking it to you then you ask for his number and from there your set to go.

I hope that everything goes well.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2005):

Hi. The only thing you can do is be yourself. No matter how attractive, how funny, or how sweet a boy is, if he doesn't like you for you, he's not worth your time. Going out of your way to say something funny to him, or to wear short skirts, won't solve it. Maybe he won't notice you, maybe he won't like you for you, but there are boys out there who will. Confidence is your best accesory. Would you rather be hated for who you are? Or loved for who you're not?

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A reader, misty +, writes (13 April 2005):

Hi, you're right, Missy; just be yourself.

Don't try to be anything other than that.

Boys when they're still at school don't look at girls for who they really are. They just want 9 times out of 10 what's in your pants.

As they get older they start to understand there's more to a girl than that. Don't give yourself up to short skirts and tops that that just cover your boobs.

It's just seen as easy and not much brains.

By the sounds of it, your head's not up in the clouds. Good for you. Take care of you. x

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A reader, REBECCA +, writes (13 April 2005):

Hi being yourself is the most important thing you will ever learn. If you flirt and wear shorter skirts and do more girlie things than normal than you will get a name for yourself! Unfortunately that name will follow you. If the boy is really nice then he will notice you and you will not have to change just to get his attention.

Boys who notice you for you are worth there weight in gold!

Take Care and I hope this helps

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