My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!
Q. Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any ...
A. 12 January 2009: why not get some help with your self esteem, hypnotherapy is great for this and quick compared to other therapies.
it's right that this traite is very unatractive to women, they like a man to have confidence and ironically this traite is some... (read in full...)
I get laughed at in work cause of my age gap with my partner!
Q. I am dating a man in scotland who is 19 years older than me, he knows I love him, but people at work take the mick out of me cause I'm 24 and he is 42, what should I do? ...
A. 12 January 2009: why don't you introduce him to them, then it's harder for them to poke fun at someone who they have come face to face with.'I'm 42 and i would charm the pants off of them to the point where they would think "you lucky bastard"... (read in full...)
Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it
Q. Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...
A. 7 January 2009: lighten up! it's perfectly ok (condom good idea!) did it respect you in the morning (just my little joke) treat yourself to a sex toy, bananas don't vibrate.
just have safe fun!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more...
Q. I need advice, my boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more, I'm 4 months pregnant and my daughter calls him daddy. I just found out he had a one night stand 6 months ago when he was drunk and that destroyed me, I forgave ...
A. 7 January 2009: Some guys feak out when resposibility looms, and usually the leaving bit is to 'go to ground' to make sense of it all.My best advise is if you do want him back is to give him innocent (meaning no pressure)updates on your daughter and tell him HIS ... (read in full...)
Dieting!
Q. I just threw up everything I ate today. (i know because I saw what I ate for breakfast) and I'm gonna start being anorexic because I really need to lose weight. I'm 230 lbs and 5'3" I plan on being 200 lbs by my 16 birthday (in a mont...
A. 6 January 2009: I'll keep this simple, I'm a therapist, I run an eating disorder group, one girl got to us too late, she died of organ failier, she tried to lose weight by starving herself, she though she could control it, WRONG! she was 18. She died with more ... (read in full...)
I like to masturbate but once I got a urinary tract infection and I'm afraid to do it again... any suggestions?
Q. Okay i have a bunch of questions might as well put them in one thing! Do guys like Pubic hair? If not how do you take it off without those lil' hairs sticking up? (yes iv shaved it before!) How do you tell a guy you like him when you have hi...
A. 6 January 2009: relax, you are green to go with more masterbation, just wash hands etc before and after.KY jelly is a good start to wetting down there, if you can't easily get it use spit BUT brush teeth first (just good practise)
try circling your clitoris, some... (read in full...)
Any suggestions to minimise the mess?
Q. Hi I often my boyfirend and I are kissing and one thing leads to another and I end up giving him a hand job whilst he's fingering me. But I hate it when he cums everywhere its a real hassel to clean up. Any suggestions to minimise the mess? I don'...
A. 5 January 2009: as for 'flesh on flesh' dude below, "what the hell"!! sure it aint imoral but DAMN what are you on!
anyhoo, get him to tell you when he's near then flip him on his back use kitchen towel its big and absorbant Do you get bounty towel it's very stro... (read in full...)
Have I been raped?
Q. (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) ...
A. 5 January 2009: regardlessof the technicalities of the term 'rape' you were molested by a rapist, get help, get legal, get him jailed before he does it to some other silly girl (yes you were, and you know it!)this was tantermount to smoking in firework factory, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has given up on trying to make me orgasm!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he still hasn't been able to give me an orgasm. This is nothing new, as I've never achieved an orgasm with anybody (but myself). Other than that we have a great sex life. We experiment with ...
A. 5 January 2009: do what the Duck says, he's bang on the money, your guy's ego has taken a knock, so build his confidence by telling him (while doing)what feels nice "i love it when you do that"
I feel you might be a little self conscious about letting him 'see you'... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get turned on!
Q. I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there ...
A. 5 January 2009: ref the anon 'porn' suggestion, leave that for some time until you are comfortable with your bodily reaction, tis a bit too 'all guns blazin' ask yourself "am i ok to allow myself to have sexual pleasure" and just tune in to weather you are feeling ... (read in full...)
So did she have an orgasm?
Q. im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...
A. 5 January 2009: Hmmm, first of all I do hope this is as far as you guys have gone with each other? both of you are legally not allowed to have full intercourse, if you are, you are technically commiting rape (even if she is as we brits say "gagging for it") so this ... (read in full...)
Exercising the hard way!
Q. What would happen if I only eat one mango every day and nothing else and exercised 3 hours on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour? I want to lose weight and I've tried doing it the healthy way but it never works!x...
A. 2 January 2009: I appreciate your desperation but you listen to me!! this is an insane way to lose weight, would you feed a dog like this, or a child? NO! so get with a dietition and get with a therapist preferably a hypnotherapist they can deal with emotional ... (read in full...)
How long do you have to pray to find God?
Q. What's the longest time somebody has prayed to find God? What if someone gave up 3 seconds before God was to answer his prayers? Would he be a fool?...
A. 2 January 2009: maybe a better question is 'why do i need a god' what's missing, am i depressed/in trouble etc. I will state i'm not religious, i personally beleive that we must all take responsibility for our own selves. however the phrase 'finding god' is riddled ... (read in full...)
Will he get bored and leave? All we do is snog!
Q. i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx...
A. 2 January 2009: 1.if you are under the age of concent then any intercourse is breaking the law and he could be arrested for what is technically rape, am I clear on this??? 2.If he wants to do it, tell him NO and damn well mean it, if he puts pressure on you, the... (read in full...)
How long on average does a guy last in bed?
Q. Just a quick question, for guys or girls, probably mainly for the guys but, how long on average do you last in bed? I haven't had sex for a while and it's getting to the point I'm avoiding it because I'm afraid I'm going to be premature and get ...
A. 2 January 2009: before i go any further, bear in mind NATURE makes it so that when we were cavemen we had to get copulation over with asap because we are vulnerable to attack while doing it, I know we're not in dangerous times any longer but the ability is still ... (read in full...)
I don't understand him at all... can someone please help me?
Q. I'm sorry this is so long but it's a bit of a long story. My bf of two years and I broke up in mid-November and there's been some weirdness between me and my ex. Let's start with episode 1 (I'm sorry it's so long but I can't figure out how to ...
A. 2 January 2009: I'll keep this short, he just wants to get you into bed with no strings and you are giving him mixed messages, if you both done then tell him and stop this cuddle fest ... (read in full...)
Extreme premature ejaculation problem
Q. hi i am a 21 year old male and have a really bad premature ejaculation problem. i can only last around 2-8 seconds in my partner and its ruining my life. i feel utterly hopeless and pathetic although my partner claims it doesnt bother her and never ...
A. 2 January 2009: before i go any further, bear in mind NATURE makes it so that when we were cavemen we had to get copulation over with asap because we are vulnerable to attack while doing it, I know we're not in dangerous times any longer but the ability is still ... (read in full...)
Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!
Q. hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i ...
A. 1 January 2009: that voice in your head is SCREAMING at you to BACK OFF and you MUST LISTEN!!you are probably sexually frustrated and she is pretty and close to you daily. YOU will never recover from the shame if you ASSAULT her (and it is assault)and she will ... (read in full...)
Having trouble with erections
Q. hi, im 25yrs old boy,from the age of 18 yrs i used to press my penis r testis for ejaction of sperm,but one day my penis loose erection power.now when ever i watch sex scene my penis will not erect what is my problem it is Erectile dysfunction r ...
A. 1 January 2009: Auny Rach is right, see a doc, they see this kinda stuff all day long, so you'll be treated kindly and in a matter of fact way,to them it's like shelling peas, so get a appointment to check your mechanical condition and once you've got the all clear ... (read in full...)
How can I make it better re sex?
Q. Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...
A. 1 January 2009: To some extent i agree with the other comment about watching some sexy films, but they do tend to be a bit too false and not loving at all! try some more educational stuff like 'the joy of sex' why not just talk about what feels nice for you both ... (read in full...)
Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?
Q. I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking ...
A. 1 January 2009: cool your engines! if you have sex with her at 14 you are breaking the law!! you can do some other nice stuff together in he meantime, if you cannot keep it in your pants, just imagine being arrested (OH THE SHAME!!!)besides, treat her with respect, ... (read in full...)
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