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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, PHOBIA MAN  +, writes (2 January 2009):
1.if you are under the age of concent then any intercourse is breaking the law and he could be arrested for what is technically rape, am I clear on this???2.If he wants to do it, tell him NO and damn well mean it, if he puts pressure on you, then he is not the caring kinda guy you need, "a gentleman waits"!! threatening to leave you is blackmail!3. when you are ready both mentally, physically and legally then use contraception eg condoms to protect you both from pregnancy and possible disease.4. make sure whatever you do is mutually agreed on.and control yourselves if the snogging starts to lead to removing cloths if you know what i mean?just bear in mind that touching his penis (to orgasm or not)and then touching yourself can get you pregnant, sperm is very determined stuff, it swims y'know!!
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