Should I stay with my BF who is close to perfect or go for the sexy music student who writes me songs?
Q. I'm really confused me and this guy I've been seeing for a year and a half (lets call him Eric) is great, i love him loads and he means the world to me he does everything in his power to make me happy. He really takes care of me. But I'm still very ...
A. 8 May 2007: Your problem is understandable, you are young and being engaged can make you feel a little trapped. Musicians can be tempting and exciting but those songs might not less past the first six month. Having an innocent crush now and then is ok if you ... (read in full...)
I loved him but he didn't want kids in his future, so I broke it off. Did I make the right decision?
Q. I had been dating this guy for a little over a year and we got along great.We rarely argued and we loved each other very much,however, he warned me that he wasn't sure if he would ever want children.I have always wanted children,so we broke up, but ...
A. 29 March 2007: It depends on his age. If he's a grown man and still isnt sure it would be a big risk to further things. Some young guys aren't sure but will probably make a decision in a couple of years. If children is a something you need and the guy isnt sure, ... (read in full...)
Dating 5 months..is it ok to let him see my boobs?
Q. im 16 and ive been dating a guy for about 5 months. is it ok to let him see my boobs? and i know one thing may lead to another and not to let him pressure me....
A. 28 March 2007: I think the responses are a little unfair. Not all teenage boys are going to force their girlfriend to have sex. When I was in high school I knew a lot of great guys who were fine with waiting for when their girl was ready. My serious high school ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your guy that you're pregnant?
Q. Well... I have a boyfriend and we have only slept together twice since we got together a month ago but at the moment I'm late and thinking I may be pregnant. I know its sounds silly worrying now before I have even done a test, but how do you tell ...
A. 22 March 2007: I has a scare not too long ago and I wasn't sure if I should tell him I'm concerned or if I should wait til I was sure. What if I get him worried over nothing if I just tell him I might be pregnant, but is it right to drop a bomb like that when its ... (read in full...)
I was drunk and he forced me to give him a BJ! Is it normal to be mad at him even though I was drunk?
Q. Two weeks ago at a party, i get very drunk and high which i completly take responsiblility for and understand it was a stupid thing to do. I realised it was a mistake when I felt as though I was about to pass out and everything went blurry so I sat ...
A. 22 March 2007: If you said "No, no, no" you were not responsible. This guy preyed on you. He probably does this at every party he goes to because he is a sick individual.... (read in full...)
He says he cant give me another shot as his friends dont like me!!!
Q. Ok so basically, I met this guy in September of 2006. I fell for him straight away, maybe it's not love but i know he's all i care about. We started going out in December 2006 and it was perfect. I'd never felt like this before. But a couple of ...
A. 22 March 2007: I find it suspicious when a guy says "I want you" even though they are supposively happy with someone else. I've met a lot of guys who are always still stuck on the last girl. If you go with him he might do the same thing with this other girl behind ... (read in full...)
He says he cant give me another shot as his friends dont like me!!!
Q. Ok so basically, I met this guy in September of 2006. I fell for him straight away, maybe it's not love but i know he's all i care about. We started going out in December 2006 and it was perfect. I'd never felt like this before. But a couple of ...
A. 22 March 2007: I kind of find "I want you" but he's dating someone else suspicious. I know a lot of guys who is always telling the last girl it's them they really want them.
My boyfriend had to choose between me and his friends and he felt they should be happ... (read in full...)
Will sleeping with a guy too soon in a realtionship stop it developing further ?
Q. Hi All I have a problem, that I must admit. I never had any lasting relationship. I have read all the books about how to keep a man, but my relationships seem to last only a few weeks. There is never a r/ship where I broke up without sleepin...
A. 22 March 2007: I think the current situation is a bad example of what your relatinship problems are. If you don't like this guy, don't persue a relationship, and don't feel guilty about casual sex. My advice to my girlfriends you worry when to sleep with a guy th... (read in full...)
Ive never iniated sex with anyone before, now my new bf thinks I dont want him, when really its I have no confidence to seduce him!
Q. I've never initiated sex with any of my boyfriends because I've never needed too. But now I'm with a great man who's a little older than me and it's ruining our relationship, he's losing confidence thinking I don't want him. I want to seduce him and ...
A. 22 March 2007: Remember, he wants to have sex with you so no matter what you do, if he loves you, he would see it as cute before stupid. It can be as simple as kissing him passionately or you could come out in a sexy outfit. The first time you put yourself out ... (read in full...)
How can I be sure that he loves me ??
Q. am a young girl of 26. met my boyfriend 3 month ago and have been seriously in love with him. he profess he loves me too but am a skeptical about hie love for me. he show me he loves me but but am still not satisfy.i want to test his love for me. ...
A. 21 March 2007: I think you just have to trust him. If he's not doing anything to not believe him, it may be that you don't believe you can be loved, or something like that.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my sister in law!
Q. i want to have sex with my sister in law. i don't love her but i know the sex would be unbelievable. she is three years older than me and has always shown interest in me. my head tells me know but i have the urge to just openly tell her what i want ...
A. 20 March 2007: I can almost garantee you it will not be as good as it is in your head. Just enjoy the fantasy and maybe stick your wife (if that's how ur related to this woman)in her place once in a while.... (read in full...)
Do you think he's hooked up with her in the past?
Q. my b/f, his friend and i were at a bar one night..all of a sudden a girl comes in and sees my b/f. She gives him a kiss on the cheek and a hug..my b/f said this is my g/f so and so but i realized i did meet her before(she is the sister of one of his ...
A. 20 March 2007: They might have been together or she might just be werid (either way she seems to have a need for attention). Either way, put her out of your mind, we've all had hook-ups that maybe we're not proud of.... (read in full...)
She was sexually molested by a male relative and now I find it gross touching her.
Q. Hello Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and recently she came clean about being sexually molested by a male relative when she was 8-14 and now as horrible as it sounds i find myself kind of grossed out by her. everytime i touch her i ...
A. 20 March 2007: You have history so I would suggest maybe consoling. I can understand that the images must come to mind but she did not get molested on purpose so I think you owe it to her to at least try to get past it, but since it is such a heavy issue, you ... (read in full...)
During the relationship our sex life broke down and our communication broke down too.
Q. I have just broken up from a 4 year relationship with the woman i thought I would marry. Since we met we both have bought a house together far from where I come from and I had to move my job in the process. This girl was my first true love and ...
A. 20 March 2007: All I can say is sometimes we have to be really ashamed of ourselves to learn something. Remember what you see as mistakes and you'll go in your next relationship stronger.
It's sadly one of those situations though where you'll worry you ruin... (read in full...)
Is him looking at porn just a phase he's going through?
Q. I recently found out my fiance is looking at a lot of porn. He is also chatting with them online, and I walked in on him once when he was getting off on it. He ran out of the room, embarresed, and curious I looked on the computer (suspecting it to ...
A. 20 March 2007: The underage factor is creepy and suspicious, also that he's at least thinking about incest, wow.
When you take away the disturbing aspects, pictures are one thing, but engaging in conversation with the intention of getting off crossing the line... (read in full...)
Having trouble talking to this girl I like. Any tips?
Q. i'm having alot of trouble talking to this girl i really love. we dont talk much because she's shy. today i've started teasing her friend sayin short random things. this makes everyone laugh. i'm gettin myself more noticed. any other ideas to talk ...
A. 16 March 2007: I would suggest asking some simple, getting to know you questions (whats your favorite movie/band/tv show), this way you'll show her your interested in her likes & find out if you have enough in common to be a couple one day.... (read in full...)
What's the best way to break up with someone? I want to be decent about it.
Q. Hi, What is the best way to break up with someone. I want to be decent about it. She is a nice girl, but we are with each other a while, and i am just not clicking enough and want out of the relationship. She has done nothing wrong. i just do...
A. 16 March 2007: I've been in that position too, its wrong to do it over the phone but you feel bad having them meet with you just to end things, but I think in the end she'll appreciate you have the balls to do it in person. Be firm, but get the point across, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm too young and I'm worried in case I get pregnant. What will I do?
Q. Right, ok, i'm 13, and I've done everything with a guy but sex, i've recently met this great guy, who i really like, he is a year older than me, and hasn't been that far with a girl. We have both talked about having sex,and we have both have said ...
A. 14 March 2007: Almost everyone I know regrets their first time and wishes they had waited, even if they were much older than you. You also mentioned you "really like" this guy, but you didn't say love. No one should do something this memorable unless it's like som... (read in full...)
Why do women go for bad guys rather than guys who would love and treat them well?
Q. why does it seem that some women are attracted and stay with the guys who treat them bad , and the real decent guys who would only treat a woman with love and respect get treated with contempt by women ?...
A. 14 March 2007: I agree with CD that girls see the bad boy as a project. I know when I went through my bad boy stage it was kind of trying to prove myself I was good enough to quit drinking for, ect. A good guy treats everyone with respect but you could be THE ... (read in full...)
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