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female
age
36-40,
*winkle23
writes: I've never initiated sex with any of my boyfriends because I've never needed too. But now I'm with a great man who's a little older than me and it's ruining our relationship, he's losing confidence thinking I don't want him. I want to seduce him and initiate sex but don't know where to start without feeling stupid. Please help!
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (22 March 2007):
Remember why your with him and your feelings towards this person. Be truthful to yourself and to him. Don't be afraid because this feeling will only grow as time progresses and it will become harder to intiate anything in the future. Go for it, show your true feelings for him thats what its all about and dont think just do it.
Goodluck..
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reader, perkypanda +, writes (22 March 2007):
Remember, he wants to have sex with you so no matter what you do, if he loves you, he would see it as cute before stupid. It can be as simple as kissing him passionately or you could come out in a sexy outfit. The first time you put yourself out there is the scariest, but I think the rewards will be plentiful.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (22 March 2007):
Well, when your both in bed, or sat on the sofa , or wherever you do it, just lean over and kiss him. It should go from there, if it doesnt, undo his trousers, or rub his leg, or take off his shirt. Why dont you try it when the lights are off.
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