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writes:Should I just walk away from my boyfriend he constantly keeps playing with my mind. Walk away as in block the number and not say anything what sucks is he knows where I work and so if Ignore him he will come to my job and make me feel guilty for wanting to leaving and the moment I tell him I want to leave he acts loving and caring then a few days later he's a jerk again I may even find a new job just so that he won't go looking for me. I have tried breaking it off with him and then he just says things that make me want to stay. But he is not good for me he makes me miserable I know most of you will say block his number but it's hard honestly but I will do it eventually. I did tell him if him and I did break up that we would never talk again and I meant it I do not believe you can be friends with an ex. Reply to this Question
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reader, ova-valentine  +, writes (24 January 2016):
 It doesn't matter if he does things that make you want to stay if he ALSO does things that make you want to leave. You have to tell him that he is making you feel terrible and you don't want to be in a relationship with him. Stay calm even if he gets angry. Stay levelheaded. I agree with no nonsense Aidan, if he doesn't leave you alone that's a crime, report it.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (9 January 2016):
Yes you should block his number, but first you need to break things off completely, which it doesn’t sound like you have done. You need to understand that enough is enough. Whatever things he says to make you stay, it’s obvious that he either doesn’t mean it, or it’s not enough for you because you keep ending up in this position. Tell him it’s over, and be very clear that nothing he says or does will change that now. Tell him it’s time to part and go your separate ways and if he turns up at your work, calmly tell him to leave you alone and not to contact you anymore. If he doesn’t respect that, it becomes harassment and then you report it. So finish it, mean it, move on and block his number. Yes it’s hard: if you’re waiting for the day that it becomes easy to do it, that day isn’t going to come. Don’t put it off. Get on with it as soon as you can.
I wish you all the very best.
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