Am I expecting too much for him to get in touch with me after a breakup?
Q. Ok, I put a question out here 2 weeks ago when i split up with my fella. I haven't had any contact with or from him since. I look in at his facebook page almost daily to see if he has dropped his info, relationship status etc. Which I know is ...
A. 21 January 2011: Just to give you an update. A few days ago i missed a call from him. I tried ringing him twice that day. About 10 mins after he rang and 6 hours later. No reply. I sent a text to see if he wanted to talk. I got a text the following day which shocked ... (read in full...)
He deleted his Facebook because of me!?!?
Q. hey thanks so much for this im really struggling with something... alright, I met this guy on facebook a few months back commenting on my friends status and we added eachother and we hit it off as good friends you know? He is a famous pro wre...
A. 17 January 2011: You dont really deal with rejection that easy, I think you read far too much into this. Had you actually ever met? Turn the computer off. Off off. Get out of the house and clear your head. You're fixated on this guy who shouldn't have led you on. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose him! But he's ignoring me--what should I do?
Q. I really love my boyfriend but over the last few days he won't return my calls and he is acting like I've done something wrong. I don't want to lose him or I will die! Please i really need some help..xxx...
A. 17 January 2011: Could be he lost his phone? Maybe he lost all his numbers. Maybe he's sick or stuck in an elevator? Maybe maybe maybe. Listen petal, you'll have to call round to him for your own piece of mind. Keep your cool and ask him whats the story. If its ... (read in full...)
Should I make one last attempt to get things right between us?
Q. Hi, Everyone. Sorry this is so long, but if you would take the time to read it and offer me your advice I would greatly appreciate it. I'd like to disclose from using real names so ill just call myself RJ and the love interest will be JF. I supp...
A. 11 January 2011: I think you have invested far too much of your time on this man. He sounds blousey and ostentatiously camp. He may think he is witty putting you down in front of the cast. He lives his life on a stage and is constantly performing.
In short this... (read in full...)
I don't want to feel like I'm a sugardaddy!
Q. Where to begin. Well, I'm a 21 year old gay male who in August moved 1,000 miles away from home to attend graduate school in another part of the country. Moving here was a big challenge not knowing anybody, and another gay graduate student suggested ...
A. 11 January 2011: Sounds like my first serious relationship. Like yourself i got taken in by a total user. I paid for a holiday for us and gave him spending money. He also suffered from depression, was an artist. I put up with his artistic temper. I was 5 years older ... (read in full...)
Sex in this gay relationship has gone south!
Q. So I'm 2 months into this realtionship and things where good at first but now the sex part seems to be going south ( on his part) it starte with him not being able to stay hard during intercorse and now he can't seem to stay hard for anything now. ...
A. 11 January 2011: You haven't said how old your partner is? I'll take it that he is close to your own age, has he been in a long relationship before. Some men love the thrill of the chase and are just interested in the lastest conquest. You both need to move the sex ... (read in full...)
Am I addicted to him or is it me who is wrong?
Q. Sorry, but this is a long rant because I am exasperated by my relationship. To put it into context, I was brought up in an abusive family situation which involved, along with many other negatives, my mother being extremely emotionally neglectful ...
A. 10 January 2011: Listen Love, this Mammy's boy needs to grow up. You need to cop on. Your talking like a 13 yr old not the mature successful 42 yr old independant Mother that your are. Drop the baggage. Focus on the positive elements in your life. Stop being so ... (read in full...)
My ex won't leave me alone!
Q. I hate my ex, he's so selfish. Ever since we broke up in May, things have been his way. When he wanted to talk, we talked, when he didn't want to talk, we didn't talk. When we broke up I met another guy, who was interested in me and told me he l...
A. 6 January 2011: Aside from the issue with the facebook, you're not interested in getting back with him, are you.. You say you talk when he wants to talk, you keep away when he wants to be left alone. What do you want? Your behaviour is complacent. It sounds to me ... (read in full...)
How to react to homophobic friend?
Q. Hey! I finally admitted to myself I was gay and I've been dating secretly a guy for the past month... Recently, I've heard my best guy friend saying homophobic things! He doesn't know I'm gay but I was so uncomfortable at that time. I...
A. 3 January 2011: Unfortunately you are going to be up against this alot. When people come out, the natural assumption is thats it over now, I'm out. The truth chicken is you spend all your life coming out and you have to judge and read each situation as it happens. ... (read in full...)
I thought my mom would understand when I came out to her!
Q. I just came out to my mom because I thought I was ready. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months the first ever person I had been in a relationship with and I needed to talk to her about it. I thought she'd understand after all she's liberal ...
A. 31 December 2010: I was always afraid of coming out to my Dad. He used to be a sailor and I'd hear all there old macho stories. I never got the chance. He died when i was 22. I eventually told my Mother, she told me they had gay friends and showed me a picture of a ... (read in full...)
Help!!! He's playing me, I know... but I love him...
Q. To put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now. After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be a...
A. 31 December 2010: Treat him mean and keep him keen. Honestly some good old fashioned pulling power is whats needed here. Sex yourself up, wear some cologne thats hot, do something new with your hair, wear guyliner, go all out, I'm here I'm queer. Get a tan, new ... (read in full...)
I know we need to break up but I'm having trouble coming to terms
Q. I have been in a gay relationship for over 6yrs like any relationship it was going through the best phases of its life but I decided to move away from him cos of my job but touchwood most seems to have worked out well even when we decided to see ...
A. 30 December 2010: My my, haven't you really gotten into a tangle. It would be very easy to place blame here. I suppose your boyfriend knew what he was taking on. The circumstances cant be easy for you both. Like yourself i have come out of a 6 year relationship which ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me now I have an STD! Should I warn the girl he cheated with?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me and and after I found out I went to the Dr. Now I have an STD!! this was a 2 year relationship and I know who it is he cheated on me with. I don't know her personally but she works by my house, should I warn her? I found ...
A. 30 December 2010: You are not responsible for her health. If she is having unprotected casual sex then it is up to her to get herself checked out.
I'd definitely tell your boyfriend and send him the medical bill and threaten to sue him for damages if he refuses to p... (read in full...)
Gay long-distance lover trouble!
Q. I am a 25 year old gay man who has been in a serious relationship for just
overy 2 years, My partner is 45 but is very young looking and at heart.
He lives in manchester i live in bristol, we did previously live together in
manchester as i ...
A. 29 December 2010: The age gap will only become an issue if you let it. My ex is 5 years younger than me and said before we broke up that the age gap had grown between us after i turned 40, i might add that i was 42 and he 37. I proved i wasn't too old by going roller ... (read in full...)
I wonder if I should have broken up with him.
Q. I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...
A. 29 December 2010: Thank you all so much for your swift responses which are very comforting. I think i'll take your advice and arrange a meeting when things have cooled down. I think a break is certainly on the cards as we have been falling out alot in the last year. ... (read in full...)
He thinks if he's around me his "cover" will be blown
Q. so, i like this boy. we've been friends for about a year and a half. were both in the closet. i told him through facebook messaging i like him and he never replied (that was like a year ago) so its been a while. but after i told him, hes been the ...
A. 28 December 2010: It sounds like he may not be ready where as you want to move your friendship onto another level. There is a risk of losing that friendship if you move too fast.
If you feel the time is right, plan some time together away from your usual hang... (read in full...)
My Boy Friend wants sex but I want kisses too
Q. My friend and i have been messing around for about two years now. I'm bi. We both have had girlfriends in between us fooling around. i really like him and feel like we should be together. We have amazing sex. But he doesn't kiss me. i mean it's not ...
A. 28 December 2010: You need to give him a cooling off. It sounds like he's having the best of both worlds and he's also cheating on his girlfriend and you are also hurting her. This is very messy. You should look elsewhere for sex, if thats all it means but it sounds ... (read in full...)
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