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reader, Nathan1  +, writes (17 January 2011):
Could be he lost his phone? Maybe he lost all his numbers. Maybe he's sick or stuck in an elevator? Maybe maybe maybe. Listen petal, you'll have to call round to him for your own piece of mind. Keep your cool and ask him whats the story. If its curtains then spin round on them killer heels and walk right out of his life. Keep your dignity girl.
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reader, JJ-*Onyx*-  +, writes (11 February 2007):
My Problem is that my Boyfriend does the same thing too. It gets a little annoying that he won't return my phone calls nor talk to me directly. Even worse he would rather flirt with my two best friends which he sware not to like but i can tell he does but he would rather flirt with them then simply say hello or good bye to me!!! I feel the same way!!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Ok stop trying to call and text and go round and see him face to face and ask him what the problem is outright. If he won't tell you then i would finish it with this guy and go and find a boyfriend that gives you the respect that you so rightly deserve.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Oh stop being so dramatic! lol There must be a reason he hasn't called? Have you both had words? If he's not returning your calls he's telling you something isn't he? Something obviously isn't right. You don't say how long you've been together but I get the impression it's only weeks or months rather than years.
He has obviously decided he doesn't want to be with you any more if he's not returning your calls. Think about it... if HE called you and you knew it was him and just ignored him and didn't call back, what would YOUR reason be?
Talk to him, phone/email/text/letter or go round if you have to. Ask him what's the matter and if he wants to call it a day. If he does, ask why... then move on. Sorry for being so blunt but I'm sure you'd rather I was honest than give you some girly flannel.
Eve
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
 You may have to take the bull by the horns so to speak and pry it out of him what his problem is.
Get right in front of him and ask him face to face what is going on. It may not be you at all. He may be dealing with issues of his own that are taking all his attention.
In any case painful or not you need to know.
This should be a means to an end. Either the end of his problem or the end of your relationship with him.
Either way it is unfair of him to keep you in the dark.
Hope things work out for the best between you. Doc.
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reader, LostHeart +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I Suggest That You Tel him You cant Help Him If He Wont Tell You Whats wrong tell him that yourll be there for him no matter what make him no you care. it could be something thats going on at home or simply he may just have alot on his mind Try not to worry ive gone thru this aswell and it turnd out that his nan had died unfortunatly.. So just give him some time he may come round and Open up to you x
Hope this helps
Good Luck
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