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writes:12 October 2009: What woman wants in a man? when i was with my girlfriend, i used to love her like hell ....sometimes i used to struggle to find out that what would make her happy being with me. sometimes my wacky sense of humor would leave her laughing like crazy and sometimes my excessive contact would make her bother . when i used to cut short her call during office hours she would get bothered angry big time. why girls are so complicated ? what they want from men? my head is spinning in the air to find answer for this question. any female would like to help me on that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): Now that they're "free" from our "domination" as fathers and husbands these days, they have become so unsure of themselves and so very picky even though they may have such little value to offer a guy back in return. I've found it is better not to worry yourself with such things.I have noticed that many women who are very good looking do not have to develop their social (and other) skills as their looks get them many advantages that homelier girls don't get or have to work to get. Plain girls, on the other hand, are apt to be full of insecurities since society still judges women on their looks above all else.As a general rule women want mentally strong, masculine men who are good leaders and sure of themselves. They want a man who is tall (at least taller then they are), in good shape, good looking, smells good, kind to her, humorous, interesting, cultivated, intelligent, financially secure, and who might make a good father to their children - just like men like feminine, pretty girls in good shape, smelling good, kind, humorous, interesting, cultivated, intelligent, who might make good mothers to their children.A few rebels on this board might disagree with me, but nature and evolution will prove otherwise.
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reader, MissesConfused  +, writes (12 October 2009):
I wouldn't even worry about it if I were you, and clearly I'm not. Women vary in their tastes of men; sometimes we'll like the blond guy, sometimes we'll like the redheads for example. Just be yourself around this girl. If she's annoyed with you for whatever reason, just give her some space. More than likely, she'll just be awaiting a visit from Mother Nature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): Stop thinking that women even know what they want from men.
Most women believe they know what they want. Some are even honest about it if you ask. But half the time their own advice doesn't work on them when you try it.
Look at what actually works on them in real life. It's the only trustworthy feedback for this question.
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 EVERY woman is different. indeed, unique by nature.we might all be women, but, like a box of fine chocalates, u never know what u will get. however, women desire men with mental stability, job security, most women dont want to rob ur wallet, we have our own independence nowadays, but a man who is jobless is not a man. we need a man to step up to the plate as well. a well groomed man is a must. we dont want to hold our heads in shame when in public with a male who smells funky, and has oily unwashed unkempt hair. and has no pride and self respect in dressing decently, whether wearing wal mart fashions or prada fashions, we just want a decent looking male. who has manners, and treats his woman with equality and equity. women want to be seen as their male counterparts equal partner in everything, his friend, his sounding board. his four wheeling partner.lol. she wants to be included in his activities out of the home. whether it be with her or his friends, or just together.
we will look at how u treat ur mom. this usually tells us how u view women etc. we want to be treated fairly, we want a partner to laugh with, to cry with, to share honesty and communicate freely with. we DONT want head games. and yes, loyalty is just as important to us as trust and honesty. we want to know we are ur shining star behind closed doors, and in public. we make ur head turn every second in awe, not the blonde haired hottie,turning the corner, yes, we know shes hot but ur not dating her. we want a hard working male with ambition, and motivation. in other words, a go getter. for myself, all the above, but i like nice guys. really nice guys. guys who are completly down to earth, and easy to get along with. my bf and i share much in common, a plus, as we both like to game online on x box. having a lot in common is an added plus. but, it not always neccessary, as many have opposites in common and they stay together for yrs! we ar all individuals. treat every woman accordingly. my best advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009):
It depends on how old they are. In general you should never believe more than 50% of what they tell you they want, since it isnt really true. The problem is to know which 50% to ignore.
You cant expect all women to behave the same way so it would be helpful if you gave us more information about her. In a very general sense here are the top three:
- make her look good in front of her friends
- make her feel secure (physically and economically)
- make the time you spend together exciting
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): faithfull, honest, light hearted, women like a commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): Every woman is different and want different things from men, however there are some general things most women want.
Good Hygiene, well groomed, mentally stable, honest, loyal etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): You're right! our woman are complicated.My boyfriend told me same things too.He told me I never enough whatever he gives me.(love). Its not mean I don't enough, I love him so much.Sometime I want to test him how much he love me and handle all the bullshit I did.If he love me he would stay and forgive me and communicate with me.If he don't , mean he is not caring parson.Kind of like a test.I fight with my bf alot big fight.I can't control my temper.But he seem he loves me so, I let go some problem.May be she testing you and see if you really love her or not.Tha't what I think.But not sure.Good luck with that
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