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writes:This is more for people who are going through heartbreak at the moment - and to say that people have far more strength than they realise.I have had so much heartbreak from someone i will probrably never get over but more realise that i deserve better - rather than say how i feel i have put it into a few sentances. Sometimes the hardet thing is to let go of something that is already dead and gone xI cant watch tvI cant listen to the radioWhat have you done to this head of mineWhy is it I suddenly feel so oldDid you love me how you said you did?Was it true when you said there was nothing better?Look me in the eye and say it wasn’t liesFor I loved you onceI loved you twice Im just not sure I could have lost you thriceSo turn around and leaveLet me cry myself to sleepBut now its ended I seeYou were never good enough for meIm picking myself up from the heap you left me inWhat I felt is slowly fading awayThe smile that left me is trying to find its wayShowing me that there will be a brighter dayWho will cry for you when im goneWho will you get to waste your time onYou’re a shadow to me nowA darkness, a rainy cloud For someone who once made me whole, went and knocked me downSo good luck to you and best wishes in your lifeThere is no room for you anymoreYou changed me, im differentMore aware, more guardedThis hearts being locked up for some timeSo im bowing out and heading home You’ll survive though, you always couldSomeone else can have you nowBut will you ever been happy?Im not so sureAs the boredom sets in making you unsureEvery few months you’ll think of me, You know this is trueWondering if you made the right decision Wondering if the family we nearly had could have been our dream And in those 5 minutes before pushing that thought out of your head, realising maybe that grass isn’t as greenSo farewell my lover and friend This time lets not make amends I don’t need that closure anymoreI don’t need that drug anymoreYour out of my lifeGood riddens, Good byeI’ve now finally shut the door. Reply to this Article
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reader, fairytail  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 I have been down this road and am still traveling it. I know my involvement with this man will lead right back to it. I love the poem by the way its so true... I just can't let him go no matter what I do...
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reader, MissesConfused +, writes (24 September 2009):
This article really makes a good point. Firstly, you tell us how we usually at the beginning when we're broken up with. We all feel like dirt, and everything feels like the end of the world. Secondly, when we can pick up the pieces by ourselves then we are strong. Not the ex-boyfriend/girlfriend we thought our universes revolved around. Thanks for writing this!
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reader, unorthodox.philosopher  +, writes (22 September 2009):
Make yourself busy and stop feeling sorry about yourself. Life is too short to stay miserable. These periods are like flus, sucks a bit at the start, but you will get over it eventually, sooner than you realised. Give yourself a few months, and I'm assured you that you can't wait to jump up here to tell us how much you are better off. Trust yourself and love yourself.All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): I really felt the emotion in what you wrote. As I read this, I got a sense of the pain, the emptiness, the sadness, the incomprehension...but also of the strength, the promise of healing, the acceptance. I don't know if you actually feel any of that right now, but I glimpsed it.
I like the way you seem to encompass a variety of emotions in this article. Letting go is difficult, and there are a range of emotions we feel. They can swing so suddenly too. I am sorry this has happened to you, as it happens to so many people. But as you said, people have more strength than they realise. That goes for you too, so I believe you will get through this.
Thank you for sharing this, I think a lot of people will be able to relate to the feelings you describe. x
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