Online dating but he's much shorter than me and we've never met. I don't know where this is going
Q. Okay so basically I met this guy on a dating app. We really hit it off and I don’ usually hit it off with guys. I usually get bored or they annoy me. I honestly don’t know how to explain it any other way. Anyways. I met this guy. He’s 29 and I’m ...
A. 21 October 2018: Thank you for your quick response! But we did talk about it a few times and after about two months he added me on Facebook. And I like you maybe thought it may be a typo because he was joking how he made his dating profile while drunk, but no. He ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I've had an orgasm. What does it feel like?
Q. Hey, I'm just going to get right down to what I want to ask. I just recently lost my virginity and before any of you very nice agony aunts ask if I used protection and all that. I did, that was the first thing I made sure we had, it was a whim, bu...
A. 23 May 2013: Thank you so much for the responses. I'll try out some of them things and hopefully I can get my first orgasm! :) ... (read in full...)
Do women look at men's butts?
Q. Is it true that women look at mens butts like men look at theirs...!!??...
A. 26 August 2012: Ha ha I'll admit to my looking at men's butts. Mainly they are all men on TV or famous people. Sometimes I'll look at a regular guys butt. A nice butt is fine, but I don't really base all of my decisions on a guys butt. ... (read in full...)
Which career choice should I go for?
Q. Hi. This isn't really about a relationship problem. Mainly a life problem. Anyways I'm currently in college for my AA and after that I'm going into the RN course! I know this is an amazing field to go into, but I sometimes don't feel that my heart ...
A. 10 August 2012: Would like to say thanks for your answers. I've truly thought of this dilemma constantly for the past few days and with your words I've decided to do what my heart has always wanted to do. As much as my parents will be upset that I'm going to choose ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain the difference to me about love and lust?
Q. Can someone explain the difference to me about love and lust? See I've been crushing over this guy for ages, but I can't decide whether I feel love or lust. I know that only I can tell for sure whether I am in love but I cant decide whether it's ...
A. 24 July 2012: This is practically going to sound cheesy, but when you love someone you want more than their body. You don't just want sex and it's not all about the crazy sex dreams. You want to know everything about them. When you think about them a smile just ... (read in full...)
Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?
Q. Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful ...
A. 29 May 2012: I honestly don't think genetics or the parenting are a reason. You are their parent. You taught them the difference from right or wrong. Unless you handed them those drugs and didn't give advice on things you are to blame. Heck it could be friends. ... (read in full...)
I thought I was over my ex but now the feelings are coming back
Q. I split from my boyfriend 18 months ago and he was my first love so it's taken a while to get over him but recently i've started to feel something again whenever i see him. Why have i all of a sudden started to develop feelings for him again when ...
A. 12 May 2012: He was your first love. We honestly don't ever get over our first love. Every time I see mine it's like the first time, doesn't matter that I have a new love. You will always have that feeling for him. The feeling may lower a bit, but it's their. If ... (read in full...)
I love this guy, but I can't be dragged along by him
Q. Okay, so me and my ex-boyfriend just recently started talking again. He wanted me to come over to his house after class. I knew what may happen if I went, but I went anyways. He not only picked me up from my class, but he made dinner. We ate, ...
A. 11 May 2012: Thanks so much for all of the responses. I've thought about what you all said and I agree. He's using me. I can't turn off my feelings for him like a light switch, but I can stop talking to him. I know I'm loosing a really good friend that I've ... (read in full...)
What do you think about a guy who's ever even kissed a girl?
Q. hello i'm 21 years old and i never been in relationship, never had sex or even kissed a girl. some girls told me i'm handsome and cute and i really thnik so, but when is time to talk wuth them and ask them out ,i feel weakness from inside. and i ne...
A. 10 May 2012: Take a leap. Nothing wrong with being in this position. Maybe you didn't find the right person. From personal experience I've learned that when you really connect with a person then nerves just go away.
At more than one time we all have to jump... (read in full...)
What kind of porn do straight girls watch?
Q. What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?...
A. 10 May 2012: Honestly? I don't know which type of porn I like but it is not when a guy is going down on a girl. I don't know why but that doesn't really stimulate me, it's actually boring. But just like every other young adult I'm just now learning wha... (read in full...)
Coming out as pansexual to my conservative father?
Q. Hey guys. Just popping in to ask for some advice on coming out as pansexual to a conservative father. My mother, I think her views of me wouldn't change, as she's told me they wouldn't if I ever turned out to be anything other than straight, s...
A. 14 April 2012: I think you need to really make sure when your ready to tell him. Maybe you should tell them together, or since you believe that your mom is okay with it tell her first, then once she's on your side. You can tell your dad.
I can't say he will be ... (read in full...)
I cant talk to girls, so should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?
Q. 20 year old virgin, should i hire an escort to lose my vcard i am socially awkard and i have never spoke to a girl casually, and hardly speak to guys wither, except when im buying something or business like that.I do have an athletic body an...
A. 5 March 2012: I know you are thinking that being a virgin at 20 is bad, but it's not really that bad. It just shows that you have more boundaries then most of the people in our generation. Your insecurity with the opposite sex is normal. It's to be expected. ... (read in full...)
Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know ...
A. 6 November 2011: You should tell her how you really feel. She won't ever know. Have you ever had an argument with her and told her exactly what you felt? I don't like to associate with people like that, but I've had my fair share of people like that. They are really ... (read in full...)
Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?
Q. I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...
A. 29 October 2011: This is hard for me to reply to, but bear with me please. I've had a similar experience, except for him being overly rude to me he pretended like everything was normal. Trust me I would have loved the overly rude side better. You like this X, but ... (read in full...)
How do I rebuild friendships?
Q. I would like to know how to regain my friends? I struggled from a cocaine addiction and lost all of my old friends. This past summer I've been clean and I distanced myself from my "bad" friends. I just need guidance in how to become close with the ...
A. 21 August 2011: It's understandable to want them back, but you have to understand how they feel. They are hurt. You chose others over them. You risked your life and never even considered their feelings. These are the things you have to take into consideration. IF ... (read in full...)
How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex
Q. Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...
A. 21 August 2011: I'm 18 and turning 19 next month. I'm happy to say that I am a virgin. The thing is? I didn't think about sex all of the time. I payed attention to school, my friends and even when I had a boyfriend I didn't go to that extreme of physical contact ... (read in full...)
Questions after my first make-out session: should my lip be swollen? Was it ok to use my tongue?
Q. I had my first make out session today. Which was awesome. Anyway, my lip is super swollen now. What should I do? Also, is it normal for the first kiss to have a little tongue action? Because we did and ....I def didn't mind it. ;)...
A. 16 August 2011: It does not hurt to have some swollen lips. Trust me I know. After my first make out session my lips were horribly swollen. And tongue is fine. Some may say it's too fast for it, but all that matters is if you like it. Also you can put some ice on ... (read in full...)
He asked if I liked him.. I said yes. Now he's silent!
Q. Hi! Sorry this is a pretty basic question. I want to know what it means when a guy asks you if you still like him. First off He knows I've liked him since 6th grade...(we are in 12th now) Second he just asked me over messaging if I still liked ...
A. 14 January 2011: Thanks everyone for replying and helping me. ^^ I'll just try to get over him! lol I'll try, that's all I can do. Just wait for it to go away. Or hopefully I'm lucky and meet someone else. But thanks again! ^^... (read in full...)
Are we just friends or is he starting to like me?
Q. Ok, so there was this guy that I've been going to school with since about the fifth grade. He came from another school and when he first came I really liked him and everybody told him, but he didn't like me, so I gave up on him, but me and him have ...
A. 15 October 2010: Ahhh...Well the only thing you can do is, Ask him point blank if he likes you. I know your probably thinking that you don't want to get hurt again, but you have to ask him. Guys are mysterious and they don't always say what they feel and expect us ... (read in full...)
Essay for scholarship, can I write it in First Person?
Q. Hey! :) Alright this is pretty basic. I'm writing an essay for a scholarship that I'm applying to. I need to know is it okay to write it in First Person? The topic of the essay is basically What is your greatest hurdle in life and how did you ...
A. 10 October 2010: They didn't say which kind of writing to use. SO I think I'm going to go with 1st person. :D Thanks you guys! :D ... (read in full...)
How did others get over this?
Q. Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this ...
A. 5 October 2010: I loved him and still do.
And Princess Rae I love the whole fire thing....but lol we all have our crazy about fire addictions...but I don't think I'll try that...I just want to get over him. I know my love for him won't ever go away. I just rea... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I like her sister instead of her?
Q. Hii, My question is How can I tell my girlfriend that I dont like her anymore I like her younger sister and also How can I say or propose to her sister? to be honest I have never had sex with my Gf :S yeh its true.. :(...
A. 2 October 2010: Oh god I'm having horrible flashbacks from this. I had this exact thing happen to me and If your girlfriend is in love with you, she will probably hate you...I know I did not like him anymore after that and it sucks to know that your boyfriend likes ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle s...
A. 1 October 2010: I can't give you any advice, but I can tell you that you are not alone....I'm in the same predicament! I'm in love with my best friend too and no matter what he says I just always feel so alive when he tells me something. And it's hard to be in love ... (read in full...)
Why text me still when she isn't interested and we've only known each other a few months?
Q. I told this Girl I've known for a couple of month that I liked her and this was her response: i don't want anything at the moment with stuff going on and I don't want to lead you on and I don't expect you to like be waiting around for me to stop b...
A. 1 October 2010: I'm going to say this from experience. She has to like you, I'm a 18 year old girl myself. and I've done the same thing. Maybe she has already too many problems at the time and just does not want to create more with you or ruin a good relationship ... (read in full...)
14, want the right guy, and need to be allowed to date
Q. hi, im chelsea...i want to know how to find the right guy...how do i know if hes perfect for me...also how do i get my mom to let me go on a date with a boy..im 14,i should be aloud to go on dates so i need advice on how to find the right guy and ...
A. 27 June 2010: Hi! ^^ I have no idea if i should reply to this, and whether if i could help. But i can say this. You are young, yes you want a boyfriend meet the right guy. But the right guy is not going to just pop up right in front of you, you have to put in ... (read in full...)
Sex Ed in school
Q. I am very annoyed every time a girl or boy gets on here and is afraid someone is pregnant and they don't know the facts because they didn't have sex ed. I went to a very liberal public school that taught very good sex ed, about STD's, how to stay to ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hello, I'm 17 and Since i was in 3rd grade, I have been taught Sex Ed from my school. It is a program where your parent also gets a paper that is sent home that on whether or not you would like your child to participate. My mother lol of course ... (read in full...)
Boy trouble!
Q. Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm an idiot who's well in love with her idiotic best friend. *laughs* It sucks, I really don't know how long this 'confession' will be, but I have to tell it and see if anyone here can help this idiot! *laughs* and i ...
A. 25 June 2010: Thank you so much for the two replies i have gotten so far. Yes I care about this guy a lot. My friends even tell me that they have no idea why we are not dating at the moment. All i can say is...I like him, but i Don't know if he feels the same ... (read in full...)
Boy trouble!
Q. Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm an idiot who's well in love with her idiotic best friend. *laughs* It sucks, I really don't know how long this 'confession' will be, but I have to tell it and see if anyone here can help this idiot! *laughs* and i ...
A. 25 June 2010: Thank you so much for the two replies i have gotten so far. Yes I care about this guy a lot. My friends even tell me that they have no idea why we are not dating at the moment. All i can say is...I like him, but i Don't know if he feels the same ... (read in full...)
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