I hate to see my dad so sad, how do I get over this?
Q. Hey, I need some advice. Recently, (in August of 2008) my aunt (dad's sister) passed away from suicide. I was never really close to her, so I didn't cry or anything at the funeral. The thing that bothers me is that my mom made a slide show with ...
A. 24 January 2009: I really feel for your family but i think youre being abit selfish, you say you don't like hearin the song but think how your dad feels. you make it sound like its annoyin you that their upset, this is your family and your aunt who's died, show some ... (read in full...)
I sit in the bedroom on my own and avoid my husband and kids because I don't know how to tell them the truth.
Q. I have been married for 19 years... the majority of that time I have been unhappy. I have done everything I can to make sure everyone else is happy. I feel so unhappy and alone. I don't want to upset anyone, even when my husband had an affair I ...
A. 24 January 2009: If your truly unhappy you need to get out, its not healthy for you to keep yourself locked away and not have a life. You really need to sit with your husband and tell him everything you've said on here. I'm not going to tell you to stay with your ... (read in full...)
Friendless and miserable, How do I change this ?
Q. I'm stuck in a circle. I'm nearly 21 and dont have friends. I'm a student and doing IT. Now the problem is making friends is something I have no idea how to do. I had a troubled childhood and due to that my social development stopped for a fe...
A. 24 January 2009: I am the same as u wen it comes to talkin to people, i cant start a conversation n always wait for them to approach me first n even then i don't really say alot. Its a confidence thing. Apart from my family, i've only got my bf n 1 friend that i can ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 24 January 2009: I lost my virginity wen i was three years ago when i was 18 and i remember wen i was sixteen and wanted to lose it but i never thought about sex wen i was thirteen. i cant understand why you would fink about it at thirteen. arent girls of your age ... (read in full...)
How can I gain more weight and also get rid of pimples?
Q. Dear Friends what are the remedies of pimples and fat? I have pimples in my face for long and my friends are companing about it, to me i know it's not right but i don't no what to do about it, also no matter what i eat i don't get fat what can i ...
A. 20 November 2008: There are alot of creams and washes you can buy to treat pimples and alot of information, sadly though theres never really been alot of information on how to gain weight healthily, i know this as i have always been slim myself and it has made me ... (read in full...)
He wants to kiss with tongues and I haven't a clue what to do!
Q. I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do!...
A. 20 November 2008: Tell him its your first time kissing a guy so he'll know what to expect. I learnt to kiss when i was 18! Its really easy and will come naturally to you, don't rush it and you will be fine, good luck x... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with someone who is in a relationship!
Q. I have been having an affair with a guy from school. he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about a year. we have not had sex, including oral sex, but we have been messing around and spending nights together. this has been going on ...
A. 31 October 2008: i think you are both bad people. my mom n dad was together for 15 years before she found out he was cheating on her with her best friend, i remember how heart broken she was! might be slightly different because they're young and not married but its ... (read in full...)
What can I do to be less needy and not want her time all the time?
Q. Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I ...
A. 31 October 2008: My boyfriend and I see each other every day before he goes to work, he's the same as your girlfriend. He doesn't like being with me all the time because we'd get fed up of each other but I'm someone who would love to be with him every hour of the ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to share your sadness with a girl without looking like a wimp?
Q. I went out with my girlfriend the other week and I was really depressed about some stuff going on at home. But instead of telling her about it I just pretended I was having fun. I'm really scared to tell her when I'm sad cause she might judge me ...
A. 8 October 2008: Where on earth do men get the idea their wimpish if they show their emotions? My boyfriend is always cautious bout opening up bout things with me, I sometimes call him a robot as he as hardly ever cried in front of me but truth is the thing that ... (read in full...)
I saw my ex's girlfriend naked on some other guy's mobile phone! Do I tell my ex?
Q. I'm a 25 year old woman and am totally stumped on this one so please give your opinion, my ex boyfriend who I really care about and still love has moved on with his life and got himself a new girlfriend, I'm okay with that to a degree but I won't ...
A. 8 October 2008: You should get your friend's phone and show your ex, how can he deny it then? or ask your friend to send it to you through bluetooth? She sounds like a bit of a slut. ... (read in full...)
I just found out I have a teenaged son I knew nothing about - how do I tell my wife and our children, and how do I talk to this other child?
Q. Alright im going to try to make this short as possible. Ok, when I was in my early 20s I had a friend that I was really close to. He had a sister that was I'm guessing 6 years younger than him (I can't rember). So she had a thing for me, but of c...
A. 8 October 2008: You have to ask yourself, does your wife really need to know? unless there coming over to visit then yes it would be wise. If they are not, then i'm sure what you have missed out with your teen son, you can do with your son you have now. If your ... (read in full...)
Help! I love a woman but am attracted sexually to a man who I live with!
Q. I am in a relationship with a woman--we've been dating for just over a year now. I am happy with her, and love her very much. However, I am bisexual. This has not been a problem until recently. I live with a very, very attractive gay man who is ...
A. 8 October 2008: maybe u shud talk t him about it, it sounds like u like him more than ur girlfrend anyway. or if u want ur girlfrend u shud try n c likin this man as a phase that way it mite b easier t stop likin him. its up t u but u cant ave both. but, please, if ... (read in full...)
I want to marry him, but what if this means tearing my family apart? They dislike my boyfriend.
Q. I recently got back together with my ex bf of a year. I am more in love then ever. I am 20 years old, 2 years into college, and I am having a difficult time telling my parents that we are back together, purely on the fact that he was arrested this ...
A. 8 October 2008: ur family should try 2 understand how much u love this guy, sure they'l be worried bout u but parents wil do that anyway. u ave 2 decide, do u go behind ur parents backs n go out with him anyway? that way u risk ur parents being dissapointed with u ... (read in full...)
I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.
Q. I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before ...
A. 8 October 2008: I have asked him to help me in th past but e says e doesn't know how. I dont think even i know. i dont think its fear of being left with th baby. i was like this with my mom b4 i went out with him. fank u all 4 ur gr8 answers tho, i'll let u know ow ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?
Q. I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i ...
A. 8 October 2008: u should take a test n find out if u r or not, good luck either way... (read in full...)
I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.
Q. I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before ...
A. 7 October 2008: Thanks for taking your time to answer i'll give it a try... (read in full...)
Should I tell him and risk our friendship, or let him find out from someone else, which would perhaps lead to an awkward confrontation between him and me?
Q. There's this guy at college, who I've become close to! At first I hardly spoke to him but now we never shut up and really get along - as friends!! But the thing is, I don't see him just as a friend. From the moment I saw him, I instantly had a crush ...
A. 7 October 2008: as much as you probably dont want to, you should tell him. sounds like he likes you 2. maybe you should try looking at him and seeing if his eyes light up when you enter the room. maybe ask his friends if he's said anything about liking you or try ... (read in full...)
I dream of my boyfriend with other women!
Q. Hi! I am a 26 year old. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend. But I have one strange problem. I like to fantasise other girls having sex with my boyfriend. It is a huge turn on. I like to fantasise that I am watching him while he has sex with ...
A. 7 October 2008: I'm exactly the same lol, i don't know what it is though. There's nothin wrong with you so don't worry. You can't help what turns you on :) ... (read in full...)
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