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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend split up a while ago now, and i am now with another boy that is treating me like I'm the only girl in his world! if he think I'm upset he'll ring me straight away, the biggest smile ever comes on his face when he sees me walking towards him! he amazing to me! He couldn't treat me any better i don't think.but there is a problem,i don't really think about my ex boyfriend much anymore, in-fact hardily at all, but whilst I was walking out of School i seen he was kissing his ex and smiling a lot at her, my heart felt like it had dropped into my stomach, it killed me inside, then whilst on Facebook i seen a picture of them to smiling together with there arms around each other, and i began to cry a lot and now i can't seem to get him out of my mind, i really don't know what to do about him?i have an amazing boyfriend and he has a girlfriend (who he has been out with before a few times and they haven't worked out) but i just cant seem to stop thinking about him, what should i do? Also if they do end up splitting up i know he will come back and talk to me because he does it every time he has a girlfriend but i just let it happen because i miss him that much.so my questions are;how can i stop thinking about him and stop letting it get to me?and how can i tell him, if he talks to me, i don't want anything to do with him, without sounding harsh because he might be upset and he'll need a friend so i don't want to make it any worse than it is?
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reader, lorinda  +, writes (4 June 2011):
Honey you don't know how lucky you are to have someone that adores you. That is something that is priceless. It always hurts to see that an ex has moved on and might be happy, but there is a good reason the two of you broke up in the first place. If you think about things...would you really want to be back together with him? If you don't than let your new boy spoil you and simply commit to wishing your ex well. It might help if you don't look at pictures of him and/or them...that is always just torture! When you spend a lot of time with a person, it is hard to let go...but try to remember you can never go back. The only thing you can do is to move forward in your life. I also hope you can appreciate the good fortune you have found with the new guy in your life. Some people wait a lifetime for a man to adore them like that. Count your blessings!
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