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I live in LasVegad Nv.(aren't I lucky)
I love to help people and I like getting advice form other people too. so if you ever need any help at all I'm always here. doesnt' mater the problem I will try my best to understand and help as much as I can :)
al my friends at school come to me with all their problems and secrets. I know how to help and also when to keep a secret.
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I really love him and need to tell him!!!
Q. Hi There I hope you can help me. Well what it is... I'm totally in love with this boy but he doesn't know about it and I really wanna tell him but I dunno how to coz it's pretty embarrassing in case he doesen't like me :( I've known him for a w...
A. 6 December 2008: are you sure you love him. it seems like you don't know him all that well. but if you really do love him I think you should ask him out and then after to you date him for a while and are sure you love u him then you can tell him that you do but ... (read in full...)
Opinions about perfume!
Q. Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...
A. 6 December 2008: wow . I did not expect this many respnses :D thanks to all of you. I think I'll go with a more floral or musk perfume. probably floral :)
thanks again :D ... (read in full...)
I need to take care of this problem, this guy keeps making sexual comments to me!
Q. there is this guy at school that is 13 and im 13 but when we are at tech school he keeps tellin me that he wants to have sex wid me and for me to give him a bj, i dont like him and its wierd cause he did the same thing to my cousin and almost got ...
A. 5 December 2008: Hello first off this may happen to you for the rest of your life. I'm 16 and guys make coomments to me all the time. usually friends that are just kidding but I've had creepy guys do the same and that made be feel very bad. If you cant ignore ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have sex.
Q. hey i am 14 years old and i am really afriad to have sex because i am afriad that i will get cought and plus im agfraid that it is gonna hurt really bad.and that people is gonna call me a slut,whore (ect)but most of all ...my friend is 14 and she is ...
A. 5 December 2008: My goddess hun! IF you are afraid then DONT DO IT !!!!!
I wud advise someone your age not to do it even if they thought they were ready, but since you are already afriad and you know what cud happpen I strongly urge you not to!
please please... (read in full...)
I want an amazing first kiss... so how do I do it?
Q. Hey everyone this is my problem. I'm 16 and have never been kissed. There's this guy I like and may go out with soon, and I'm so ready for a boyfriend. But I don't really know how to kiss. I and want an amazing first kiss. any advice?...
A. 5 December 2008: thanks this has really helped :D ill let you know how it goes... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident when meeting new people?
Q. Hi everyone I have a bit of a problem... I'm very shy. not always but mostly just meeting new people...today I joined a new teen church thingy on sundays ...I met three new people and they were rly nice but I was so quiet... at school I'm t...
A. 3 December 2008: thanks I think I will try both those things , being more active and trying to make jokes. thanks this helped :D ... (read in full...)
I told my GF that I've had a relationship before, but I lied. Should I tell her the truth?
Q. hey this is the first time that i am asking a question on this so here goes.. In the beginning of my relationship, my girlfriend asked me how many previous girlfriends i have had and i answered by saying just the one. Now i dont know why i said ...
A. 26 November 2008: I think thats the best way to go. I've never had a boyfriend before except for now and I told my current boyfriend this and he was totally ok with it. I'm sure she will be too... (read in full...)
Do I have side effects from my period, or am I just sick?
Q. hey everryone I'm not very sure if I'm just sick or this has somethign to do with my time of the month but here it goes I feel really quesy and dizzzy when I'm sitting still, or stand up,I feel like I'm going to throw up, I have a huge heada...
A. 25 November 2008: its been going on for days , and my periods are usually heavy but this time it's being constantly light ... (read in full...)
I told my GF that I've had a relationship before, but I lied. Should I tell her the truth?
Q. hey this is the first time that i am asking a question on this so here goes.. In the beginning of my relationship, my girlfriend asked me how many previous girlfriends i have had and i answered by saying just the one. Now i dont know why i said ...
A. 24 November 2008: I think you should tell her
I think that she will understand. if not then is she really right for you anyway?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?
Q. Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...
A. 23 November 2008: it sounds a bit fishy to me
I wouldn't trust it
maybe you should ask your parents
I have a boyfriend that also lives over seas. I met him online as well. and thats not the part I dislike. I don't like the major age diffrence. guys his ... (read in full...)
Could he love me but still have feelings for her?
Q. My boyfriend of two years said he loved me and how much I meant to him, yet he had been seeing his ex on a regularly basis behind my back and when probed, admitted that he still had feelings for her, though no line in terms of physical intimacy had ...
A. 21 November 2008: this is truely up to you but if I were in your postion I don't think I could trust him ever again. It is possible to love one person and have feelings for another but it's not right and not fair to you. If you still want himm in your life then make ... (read in full...)
Are some guys REALLY afraid of commitment?
Q. There is this guy who Im seeing. We're not official yet because he says he will feel pressured in the relationship and he just got out a 3 year serious relationship. I know for sure that I wont sleep with him until I have a commitment but I feel ...
A. 21 November 2008: If he won't be offical with you then to me it just sounds like your they for when he wants you to be there and thats not good. talk to him about it and ask him what he wants and whats going to happen in the future with you. If he won't commit then ... (read in full...)
My husband is married to porn!
Q. Hi! My husband doesn't have a big sex drive to start. I will catch him sneaking around, watching nasty porn while I am at work and he is babysitting our daughter(she could be sleeping)=( I call it sneaking, because he will erase the history and ...
A. 21 November 2008: I think you should ask him what is it about porn that he likes? ask is it somthing wrong with him or somthing wrong with him? maybe even seeing a marriage helper or doctor even. this is not a healthy realtionship for either of you and you need to ... (read in full...)
Can a married woman love a man for 51+ years and not see him?
Q. Married in 1956, yep that long ago. Now after that long ago, I found out that my wife called a guy she dated and was intimate with prior to our marriage. First she said she loved this guy and was keeping in contact, after a lot of talking she then ...
A. 21 November 2008: it is possible for her to love two people but she should have thought about that when she married you . Getting married means that she wants you and only you. or atleast thats what it's supposed to mean. she is being completly unfair to you ! thats ... (read in full...)
Am I being too needy or are my feelings valid?
Q. I feel so unappreciated by my boyfriend sometimes. My question is am i being to needy or am i validated to feel this way. I do everything for him, we live together i do the cleaning, dishes, laundry,ect. we work at a farm together and i even have ...
A. 21 November 2008: I think your feelings are tottally valid. I mean your bending over backwards for him and he's just laying there doing nothing for you! thats so not right. Realtionships are supposed to be equal and you both are supposed to do things for one another! ... (read in full...)
He lives in another country... but I want to date NOW!
Q. Hey everyone I'll say sorry for the length now but I really really need someones help I have the most amazing boyfriend, He understands me, makes me laugh, and truely cares about me. And I love him more then air more then anyone in the world. T...
A. 21 November 2008: would it be bad to tell him I wanna date other people but when we are both 18 and can be with each other in person we will try again. and tell him I truely love him more then anyone and want to be with him someday but for now I want the normal ... (read in full...)
Technique for going down on her
Q. Hey, I am sexually inexperienced and my girlfriend has given me head and I have fingered here and I want to go down on her, but any advice on how to get that going without it being awkward. I mean the first time for that will be a little awkward ...
A. 20 November 2008: here is the best/cutest/sexiest way I could think of and I'm almost postivie she'll love it.
saty making out with her....then clothes off....then start kissing her again...makeout...then start kissing her all over her body... start at her neck and... (read in full...)
How to be porn free
Q. Hello I have a porn addiction and last year for the first half of the year I was able to abstain from porn and I was able to focus more think clearer. However, I have ventured back into the porn now because I'm in the offseason and have more time. I ...
A. 20 November 2008: I think just trying to go cold turkey and not looking at any at all, which means no internet and no playboys or whatever else there is out there. have you told your girlfriend any of this, maybe she would be willing to help.
maybe even seeing a doct... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he is being for real with me?
Q. Hi! I am in an intersting situation at the moment and I was just wondering if anyone had some advice. Ok so this is a kind of complicated situation, so ill make it as clear and concise as possible. so back track 3 years ago-senior year ...
A. 20 November 2008: woowww
well to me it seems like he loves you, but he wants to sleep around with people too, now please dont' get mad at that because I'm just telling you what I think.
theres jsut one thing I'd like you to think about, him kissing you means he... (read in full...)
Lesbian relationship but my partner's family still don't know about us being "together".
Q. I have been in a lesbian relationship for almost 3 years. We have lived together for 2 years and have a dog. The problem is she is not out to her parents. I have only met her mother once and have never seen her father in person. I am 26 and she ...
A. 20 November 2008: ohhh this is tricky..
I don't really know from personal experince but, I've seen people go thru it and telling your parents is not the easiest thing even for a straight person, and being lesbian makes it a but harder, Try telling her all the grea... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as breaking SOME of your hymen?
Q. My hymen has been broken from something other than a penis so I am still a virgin but when I stick my finger into my vagina it is painful. Does that mean that not all of my hymen has been broken? If I actually do decide to have sex will it be ...
A. 20 November 2008: maybe you just irratated it and made yourself bleed.Does it hurt all the time or just when it happened or just when you tocuh it? if it hurts alot then I think you should see your gynocologist.
thats all I know to say. but I hope maybe it helpe... (read in full...)
Can anyone recommend a good book/articles on how to ace the dating scene?
Q. Can anyone recommend a good book/articles on how to ace the dating scene? How to understand what women are trying to hint or body language etc..? Any ideas and suggestions very welcome as well as any real life advice....
A. 20 November 2008: well I don't have any book titles for you but being a girl I think I can help you out a bit
if when you are talking and she seems really interesteed in what you are saying then she generally likes you, and if she leans in a little she wants to... (read in full...)
My lesbian lover makes me mad as hell sometimes!
Q. I am 26 and I am a lesbian dating a 42 year old woman and we are both virgos we have a lot in common and then we don't on views of life and etc. She makes me feel mad as hell when she says things that I don't feel she be said example. When she ...
A. 20 November 2008: well the thats not really a question but more of a rant. partners WILL make you mad at things but if your maad all the time or an't stand it anymore then maybe you should break it off... Maybe talk to her about it and saying somthing like "when you ... (read in full...)
Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should.
Q. Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should. How do I get over this?...
A. 20 November 2008: I suggest finding someone else. it will help you move on just like she has. it might take some time. and its normal to feel a little jealous, or to want her back or any feeling like that but you will feel better if you just let it go :)... (read in full...)
What are some ways for me to please my BF without intercourse?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of ...
A. 18 November 2008: well fingering is kinda sex but whatever. ummm the only thing is maybe giving him a hand job or stripping for him and letting him touch but nothing further.... but it's really up to you ... (read in full...)
I'm only 13 and nervous about having sex - I don't want babies!
Q. i think im ready to have sex, but i dnt kno yet because babys cuz along wit it, but my boyfriend is waiting on me. so wat should i do im only 13?...
A. 16 November 2008: ok heres the deal
I wanted to have sex at 13 too. I had this guy trying to get me to do it all the time , making me feel good and want to do it but I didn't . It was one of the hardest tings I had to do but I did it because I wanted my first time... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are really in love?
Q. how do u know if u are really in love??...
A. 16 November 2008: wow thats I BIG question hunny
probably one of the biggest questions anyone could ask, and the hardest to answer. it's pretty much unexplainable.
when your in love everyhting in the world feels right and you start to see the beauty in things t... (read in full...)
How can I flirt with him in a "nice" way?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 15 and I love to flirt. But I'm used to the kinda I guess slutty flirting and wearing things that show off my body but there's this guy I saw at chruch that I really wanna get to know and I don't wanna be like that in chruch a...
A. 11 November 2008: thanks to you both :D
Irish49 your I'm going to try to go with your advice all the way ... I am petty shy so maybe it might work and I'll try to be myself and stuff too . thank you :) ... (read in full...)
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