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writes:Hey,I am sexually inexperienced and my girlfriend has given me head and I have fingered here and I want to go down on her, but any advice on how to get that going without it being awkward. I mean the first time for that will be a little awkward obviously but I mean as far as making out then clothes coming off then should I finger her and proceed to going down ? Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 November 2008):
 Well, if you want to orchestrate a memorable session, you begin with a full ten minutes or so of arousal (foreplay), including kissing, petting and all that. Lets presume that she is laying naked and either prone or reclined on a sofa with her legs at least partly spread. After some sensual fingering (preferably with the two middles massaging her G-spot for awhile), you slink down between her parted legs. You should be positioned with full access to her genitalia in front of your face. Hopefully, she has recently soaped and rinsed. Place your thumbs flat on the sides of her vulva (labia, or outer lips) and spread gently. My preference is first spreading down low, which allows better access to her vaginal opening. Take a slow, lingering lick there (not inserting), then lick upwards along her slit almost to the clitoris. Repeat several times. Place your thumbs more firmly down low and spread her opening a bit more. Plunge your tongue inside, as deep as you can go, then kiss it and swirl the opening with your tongue. It's basically just like french kissing her pussy - enjoy it.
But soon go back to licking bottom to top along the vulva (slit, lips, labia). Soft and gentle at first, but just continue licking, kissing, sucking and slurping her increasingly wet pussy with growing enthusiasm. Enjoy it, and she will enjoy as well. You have avoided direct stimulation to her clitoris thus far (at the top of the slit), but soon you begin licking near and around it.
Your entire face is useful at this point - particularly the lips and nose. I usually become voracious, depending upon the woman's reactions, which are always thrusts and moans. Snuggle her vulva with your face, then after placing your spreading thumbs on each side a bit higher, gently swirl just the tip of your tongue around her clitoris (clitoral bud, knob, glans). This is the trigger to her orgasm - the joy spot! It correlates to the tip of a male penis.
You should continue reverting back to occasional plunges with your tongue into her opening, as well as licking strokes from there to her clitoris. Also briefly massage her upper thighs, hips, tummy and breasts on occasion, while maintaining cunniningual activities.
As she approaches climax, my preference is to begin sucking her clitoral bud - gently at first, more forcefully at times. Her reactions should guide you. Most importantly, when she begins to release, firmly place your face (lips) against her clitoris and allow her to grind against your face. Hold still and firm while you grasp her buttocks from below and lift her hips upward. - let her "explode" her pussy against your face. She is "fucking" your mouth at this point while having an ultimate orgasm or more. After her first one, back-off for a moment (allowing her to recover a bit) and lick her inner thighs, massage her some more, then go back for a followup session. You can bring your woman to multiple orgasms this way. My girlfriends tend to appreciate it.
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reader, snobro69  +, writes (20 November 2008):
I say for easy tips do it like this
Sit down turn the T.V on or some music(get into the mood)
Get on a couch or a bed.
Lay around rub her body lightly belly and thighs- move to boobs if yah want. Hold her close and make out.
take her shirt off and bra start massaging them gently
, this might help with excuses for the getting her clothes off part
*Im doing play by play for you, its how I do things hopefully it works for you*
then get her pants off, start kidding her belly but dont get to distracted by the lower part, make sure to look her in the eyes, makes her feel like ur still focused on her not getting in her pants, *obvs she probs knows that already*
if you have your pants off(boxxers on) already id say dry humping or some foreplay, to get warmed up. If your GF wants to speed up the process its up to her she has the option. Let her get ontop of you once and a while, tumble around a bit. it makes it all the less awkward.
From there on in I cant really help you, Its how you or her like it and youll just have to discover yourself
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reader, LittleHelper16 +, writes (20 November 2008):
 here is the best/cutest/sexiest way I could think of and I'm almost postivie she'll love it.
saty making out with her....then clothes off....then start kissing her again...makeout...then start kissing her all over her body... start at her neck and work your way down... and then yea..then I asume you can take it form there ...
I hope that helped
I wish you the best of luck
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