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My husband is married to porn!

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Question - (21 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *prildawn writes:

Hi! My husband doesn't have a big sex drive to start. I will catch him sneaking around, watching nasty porn while I am at work and he is babysitting our daughter(she could be sleeping)=( I call it sneaking, because he will erase the history and hide the sock!! It is a big problem because I have a big sex drive, he could wake me up at night and I would be ready!!!! But I feel like he prefers to do this than to have sex with me! I have told him for years that this bothers me and it doesn't help. I have tried everything from doing the act in a deserted area, wearing sexy outfits, to road head, and many more. I can think of only a few reasons porn would be o.k. 1. a teenager going through puberty 2. A person who is single 3. a man who's wife wont have sex with him. I don't know what to do, Please give me any advice. april

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

Print these forums and leave them next to the PC or the mags, whatever he does.

Whe he reads them he might understand better how you feel.

There are so many of us women in the same situation and while doing this helped our marraige it may not help in your case, but is well worth a try...good luck

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A female reader, LittleHelper16 United States +, writes (21 November 2008):

LittleHelper16 agony auntI think you should ask him what is it about porn that he likes? ask is it somthing wrong with him or somthing wrong with him? maybe even seeing a marriage helper or doctor even. this is not a healthy realtionship for either of you and you need to BOTH , TOGETHER sort this out

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008):

You know, I agree with you 100%.

Though, I'm still kind of confused about porn... But you are right in how you feel - what you think. Your husband is not doing good by you at all.

I suggest you find someone who values you and wants to have sex with you. I can't understand how a man would not want to have sex. Something is wrong with him, maybe?

Perhaps he's addicted? I don't know, but you need to get out of there and find yourself someone worth your time.

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