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writes:I have been in a lesbian relationship for almost 3 years. We have lived together for 2 years and have a dog. The problem is she is not out to her parents. I have only met her mother once and have never seen her father in person. I am 26 and she is 28 so isn't it time for her to show who she truly is and who she loves? I am ready to move on and get married, but this is the only thing from slowing us down. She says she wants to tell them and thinks they already know, but always finds an excuse to tell them. How long do I stay with her? Does she really love me? Any advice will be helpful. Thank you!
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reader, LittleHelper16 +, writes (20 November 2008):
 ohhh this is tricky..
I don't really know from personal experince but, I've seen people go thru it and telling your parents is not the easiest thing even for a straight person, and being lesbian makes it a but harder, Try telling her all the great things that will happen if she just tells her family and introduces you to them, you both will feel better, try asking her why she won't and try to help her figure out an easy way to tell them, and ask her what her plans are for the future aswell.
I hope this helped a bit
I wish you and her the very best :)
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