Do I have myself a friend with benefits?
Q. ok i met this girl at a bar who was an acquantinces.. and we made out that night and got her number.. the other week she wrote me a private msg on facebook saying that she doesnt want a relationship with me but she wrote saying 'we could have cra...
A. 13 February 2011: Yep you are a booty call Wear a condom... (read in full...)
How can we get past everything to actually listen to one another?
Q. I am having a lot of conflict with my husband. He is a popular sociable man with literally hundreds of friends whereas I am quiet and very insular with about 3 friends! We row all the time as he wants me to go to family unions and for lunches and ...
A. 13 February 2011: Put your foot down.
Only go to the main events: Christmas thanksgiving Easter etc.
Drive yourself so you can set a time limit in your head and go off to your next "appointment" which could be dropping off food at a homeless shelter on Xmas ... (read in full...)
I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. We have known each other for 8 years on and off. I had a crush on him when I was 12. We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was ...
A. 13 February 2011: Wow chica you are in a difficult place. Going out on a limb, depending on how your parents raised you, and how traditional you are, I would say probably any man that you find attractive is going to be controlling. It's natural for you to choos... (read in full...)
How can I better manage social situations? Can anybody relate to my lack of social skills?
Q. I've recently turned 33 and over recent years have experienced an increase in people enquiring about my love life status. This in turn forces me to assess my personal circumstances, specifically my lack of social skills. I have always struggled with ...
A. 12 February 2011: well for starters you should join a writers club since you are mentally slow yet use big huge long grown up words
=)
who needs another talking man who wants to be the center of attention?
be a good listener. fetch glasses of wine for peop... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with getting pregnant!! Is this abnormal?
Q. hey, i'm just wondering how normal it is for me to desperately want to be pregnant. ever since i was young ive always known i wanted to be a mother, there has never been any doubt that i want children. i am currently living with my fiance and we ...
A. 12 February 2011: It is very normal for you to want to have a baby.
That urge is built into you and your body is made for it.
Obviously you are not having protected sex with your BF, which is dangerous in a lot of ways.
Is your body ready to have a baby? H... (read in full...)
Where has my sex drive gone??
Q. I have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have 2 beautiful kids and my youngest is a year old and for some reason i have lost all sexual desire.i dont understand why, before our daughter was concieved we would have sex all the time about 3 to 4 ...
A. 12 February 2011: First of all, you say Fiance & Beautiful children...
Hmmm, no marriage yet
Very acceptable in these times
Yes, I think that you have gotten eveything you wanted.
Why would you want sex?
Babies, kids, finance, bills, work, ugh
There... (read in full...)
Why is she avoiding having me meet her parents?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for 5-6 months now. I like her a lot and she likes me too. My friends and family know about her and she has met them all. But she has not told her family and friends about me and they do not know that we are ...
A. 12 February 2011: Respect her space.
When she is ready to tell you what is going on, she will.
Be an open receptacle. She is under enough pressure without dealing with you.
Be a gentle understanding place for her to land.
Maybe her parents are circus ... (read in full...)
If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house...
A. 12 February 2011: Live your life.
Go to college.
Your parents will love you anyways.
Send them all your proud achievements.
Don't send them or bring up anything about being a lesbian.
Let there be comfortable space so you can have a life with your p... (read in full...)
My roommate keeps breaking "house rules"! How can I approach her about this?
Q. Hi everyone!! I hate it when people take the Mickey! I am a student in my 3rd year at uni. I live with my boyfriend and another couple who we were friends with last year. We all live in a flat that my parents bought and we rent from them. Ever sinc...
A. 12 February 2011: Can you add a house rule to have a weekly "friend night" so new friends can be introduced and then after they pass the "trust test" they can come over?
As you get older, friendships are hard to come by and definitely this friendship is on its way ... (read in full...)
Please any parent who has survived a teenager, what have you done to survive a teenager and have a healthy relationship? I feel like I am in a battle zone.
Q. Ok, I admit i'm not very good at standing up for myself. I try to stay out of trouble and not upset anyone. My daughter 15 is just the opposite. So i have to stand up to her from time to time. If she is rude to me then there is a conseque...
A. 12 February 2011: Oh I feel for you, my dear.
I think at the teenager stage, they revert back to being about 3 years old and that causes you to again be at the stage where you want to throw them against the wall or give them up for adoption.
This is a tim... (read in full...)
I don't know if he is just blowing me off!
Q. So I have been seeing this guy for a month. Things were great. He's really nice always wanted to see me and spend time with me. So two nights ago I asked to hang out, he had already made plans but asked me to hang out the following night. Well the ...
A. 12 February 2011: Write a nice farewell text stating you have enjoyed your time with him but you are moving on.
Let him know that you are here for him and if he ever needs someone to talk to, call or txt.
really, are you prepared to hang on every time he ha... (read in full...)
How can I change my self image, so that I can find a girlfriend?
Q. Hello dear cupid, i just found this site by accident. I figure since im here i can give it a try. you all seem to be fairly good and answering questions. I am a 22 year old guy. i am single, and have been for going on 5 years. people always te...
A. 12 February 2011: Stop looking in the mirror. Mirrors only show you what you want to see, or what you don't want to see. I have my own succesful company and the turning point in my self awareness was when I saw myself in photographs with beautiful models and actre... (read in full...)
I'm unsure about my sexuality...am I gay or straight?
Q. i am in my twenties. i find myself wondering about my sexuality. Since high school i have jumped back and forth between the sexual identities of straight, bi, and gay. when i look at porn, i tend to drift towards gay, or group (multiple guys, on...
A. 12 February 2011: I don' think you shouldn't worry about it and have as much joyful PROTECTED sex as possible before you get too old and cranky. Also, porn is not a reflection of what we want in our lives. Its just a way to trip that sexual trigger. For ... (read in full...)
I want a way out of my marriage but feel trapped...why cant I get myself to walk away?
Q. ok ... here's the deal. I have a lot going on these days (more bad than good). I'm in a unhappy marriage, but I seem to tough it out for my kids. I have basically told my husband of 13 years that I'm not in love with him... somehow, he doesn't ...
A. 12 February 2011: oh well if your marriage is over in your mind then act as if it is over.
If he is financially stable, hire a babysitter and go back to college.
Figure out what YOU want, and if he doesn't fight with you so much, then do it.
I get the feeli... (read in full...)
There's always a reason not to have sex with my wife!
Q. So I am having trouble approaching the lack of sex that my wife and I have been experiencing. I am in the mood almost every night (except if I masturbated 1-2 days before, in those cases I could take it or leave it. Or if she is wearing her big ...
A. 12 February 2011: I always wish my boyfriend would rub my back until I fall asleep and not ask for sex just when I am finally relaxed. If you want us ready to go all the time, invest in a nanny, and a housekeeper. Here is a fact: Women do not like to ha... (read in full...)
Why do I hate sex?
Q. I am so ashamed of this issue I have with sex that it ruins every relationship i have. I love being with the person doing things with him but i hate sex it makes me feel sick and i always want to cry. I love the idea of having sex then when we start ...
A. 12 February 2011: After reading these posts this "problem" is only a problem for the people who want sex when we don't.
Really if you can masturbate and enjoy it at least once a year then you are normal.
Being required to have sex or even feeling the pres... (read in full...)
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