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hello there i really dont know what to write about me. i like to help people as everyone has problems and it easier to ask someone who dont know you. i live in a small town which and the moment is growing, they are trying to make it posh but it is not working at all. im a really shy person at first but when i get to know someone i get loud and bubbly really easy to get on with but cant be a B***H if you get on the wrong side. i hate people who pick on theres as i was bullied bad when i was at school as i am a large girl( got curves but in the wrong places) and i dont think that is any need for it. dont know if you can tell but i have diffcalty spelling and that so you might have to read it a few time or try to geuss what im trying to say.( sorry )i just come out of a relationship with my male best friend which has ended in a mess but we still friend is just wired between us. thanks for the read. hopefully speak to you soon.x

My boyfriend has broken up with me and now I think I'm pregnant! Help!!!

Q.   hi my boyfriend broken up with me about 2 months ago but i think im pregnant. i dont know what to do i took one doctors wee test and one home test both come back negitive i have had my period in 3 months but they was not like my normal period. ...

A.   23 March 2007: just to let you lot know i went to see my doctor today and got to go back for some blood tests a week on monday so i got to wait again. thank for your answers and the time you spend reading and repling to it. thanks alot.x... (read in full...)

CAN someone look in to your soul just by looking at your face or in to your eyes?

Q.   Let me get this clear, CAN someone look in to your soul just by looking at your face or in to your eyes? I have heard of people who can read your mind, but how much of it is really true? ...

A.   20 March 2007: some people canm read you by your vibes that you give them and they can tell lot about you through your eyes and that but not actually you soul. im a spirtally person and belive in all that stuff people can read you by your ogra and your eye the ... (read in full...)

What exactly is "a ladie's man?"

Q.   What is a ladies man? I heard someone say to someone I know who is very respectful to females 'Oh I can see you bein a ladies man when your older'. So guys and especially ladies, what would you describe a ladies man to be like?...

A.   20 March 2007: in my veiw someone who is good with the lady know what they want and what on there mind what they like and that. someone that can get any women that he wants. that kind of thing. ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, my boyfriend's 20 but I've told him I'm 16.

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and i really like him. hes 20 and im 15!! the problem is that he thinks im 16 and i really want to tell him my age but im afraid he will finish me. What do you think i should do?? please help x...

A.   20 March 2007: the first thing have you had sex with him coz someone your age he can get in alot of trouble about it. i think you shud tell him the sooner the better. you cant keep this up when you are only 15 he needs to know. and if you already have not had sex ... (read in full...)

I'm clueless about how to flirt! Any tips?

Q.   Im 16 and im completely clueless about how to flirt without making it obvious! Can anyone give me tips please?...

A.   19 March 2007: you might be doing it with out reasiling you are doing it. i flirt all the time and dont reasile i am. be your self and it will come to you. when you like a guy you do it and you dont even know. dont think about it. there may way of flirting e.g ... (read in full...)

How can I help her get over this fear?

Q.   Ok im 17 and have been wioth my gf for 2 yrs we started sleeping together not long into our realationship but didn't havce sex. We've ben having sex fore about a yr now but she will never be totally naked with me. She says shes ashamed of what ...

A.   19 March 2007: just make sure she know you love her. dont froce her to take her top or bra off let her leave it on. my ex wanted me to take my top off i went mad at him he told me that he loves my curves i told him that i dont and went to sleep that was the end ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has broken up with me and now I think I'm pregnant! Help!!!

Q.   hi my boyfriend broken up with me about 2 months ago but i think im pregnant. i dont know what to do i took one doctors wee test and one home test both come back negitive i have had my period in 3 months but they was not like my normal period. ...

A.   19 March 2007: hi thanks for your answers i got appointment on friday with my doctor so i will have to wait till then. thank you every much for your time to answer my question since i cant talk to anyone eles. its nice to talk to someone that not close to you. ... (read in full...)

Can a guy and a girl remain best friends with one another even if they both become romantically involved with other people?

Q.   Dear cupid and all aunts. Can a guy and a girl remain best friends with one another even if they both become romantically involved with other people? Would that friendship last or gradually become more distant due to having a boyfriend or gir...

A.   18 March 2007: i was romantically involved with one of my best friends and it come wired between us, that is still a hard question for me to answer. if you both want it to work and is comfortable with each other and comfortable with each other seeing each other ... (read in full...)

We pass one another, I look back, she looks back... is she interested?

Q.   I've got an interesting question. Let's say you're in high school or the mall, and you walk past a girl you think is really good looking. Let's say you just look straight ahead and act normal, then as you pass each other you look back, and you see ...

A.   18 March 2007: there maybe something thereif you both looked back but you will never know unless you ask.... (read in full...)

Are fantasies of being with Another Person OK when you're making love?

Q.   Can someone give me some feedback on what you think about sexual fantasies; I mean from the point of view of a man or a woman thinking of someone else in order to get turned on when making love to their partner? Do you think this is okay? Do you re...

A.   13 March 2007: spice your sex up. no it not wrong. but it sounds like you dont get turned on coz there is no spice. you dont need to dress up or anything like that if you dont want to but how about massages to get the blood rushing or teasing with a flower or ... (read in full...)

Opened a pandora's box by checking my boyfriend's texts!

Q.   I opened a Pandora's box by checking my boyf's text messages. I've been with him a year and never had reson to doubt him but this weekend he went to a party and has been off with me ever since. In his sent items there were dodgy txts to a girl late ...

A.   13 March 2007: my ex did the same thing but it was is ex he was texting i look at them one night when he was asleep. i read them and looked at the date and time i ask he about it he sed they where nothing it was he texting him but he didnt know that i read his ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if a girl likes me? Should I ask her friends?

Q.   how can i find out a girl likes me? could i ask her friends? or get my friends to ask her friends during a conversation to make it look less obvious? or any other ideas?...

A.   13 March 2007: tell her. dont get a mates to do it. that puts a girl off. be romantic buy just one red rose or something like that and c how she acts when you give her it and then ask her out. then you willl know 4 sure. dont go out and buy something that puts a ... (read in full...)

What is the latest a period could be without the chance of pregnancy?

Q.   Hey, My girlfriend says she may be pregnant, both of us are quite worried about the whole subject. Her period is 2 weeks late now, and we have been having unprotected sex. Please save me the tutorial of "Use Protection Silly" etc as I know of the ...

A.   12 March 2007: she cud have just missed it maybe next months she mite get it but if you are not using anything there is more of a chance that she is pregnant and not just a missed period. its like a bus if you miss one you got to wait for the next. ... (read in full...)

We live long distance, he comes over... and spends more time playing his online games than he does with me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we see each other only during the weekends. After one week of work, I look forward spending time with him. However, he on the other hand, would play his online games when he’s over at my ...

A.   12 March 2007: you are just going to tell him how you feel. tell him you dont mind him playing but like any relationship you need we time away from the on line games tell him that you love him but need sometime togeter. if that dont work then you mite have to ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried that he's still in contact with his ex?

Q.   Over this past weekend, I saw that my boyfriend has been texting his ex girlfriend over the past couple of months. The messeges were nothing explicit but just friendly conversation. The last message he got from her was on his birthday last month ...

A.   12 March 2007: stop it if he told you and they have not texted in ages and it is just friend dont push him. check his phone time to time but not all the time. untill there is somethink to worry about than its fine. ... (read in full...)

Is it true that she will feel tight again and therefore I will feel her break?

Q.   Hi i'm really worried. My girlfriend wants to have sex and she said she's virgin. But i'm worried that suppose she had done sex before but she stopped doing it which they are called 'born again virgin', is it true that she will feel tight again...

A.   12 March 2007: it might be sore if she has not had sex 4 while but no one a virgin again. you wont feel her break. she might be a little tight but that will soon go after a while. most women will be the same if they have not had sex for a while. just dont go like ... (read in full...)

Will he eventually stray if i can't put out? I feel he should even though it would break my heart.

Q.   help! im a virgin and seeing my bf of nearly 1 yr, hes not a virgin by a long shot. anyway, ive tried to have sex and im terrified, its hurts he cant even put his finger in, as i just tense up, its come to the stage now where i feel i cant even be ...

A.   12 March 2007: wait till you are ready if you are not it dont help with you trying to be or you miight just be scared. if you are ready try and not think about it tensing up make you smaller and more harder for him to get in. if you do try and see when you are ... (read in full...)

What is the latest a period could be without the chance of pregnancy?

Q.   Hey, My girlfriend says she may be pregnant, both of us are quite worried about the whole subject. Her period is 2 weeks late now, and we have been having unprotected sex. Please save me the tutorial of "Use Protection Silly" etc as I know of the ...

A.   12 March 2007: there is a good chance she might be the only thing really that anyone can tell you to see a doctor or if you don't want to take a home kit but i would say go see a doctor. it not that bad they would just ask for some of you wee and take it away. ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to feel that there is no point to life?

Q.   is it wrong to feel that there is no point to life? I sometimes feel kinda down i guess because, i don't have a great social life, partly because at school i hang between two groups and am consequently not as close to everyone in those two groups. ...

A.   12 March 2007: no everyone has felt like that. i have but. you got to go on everyone lives 4 a reason. you got to wait to c what coming round the next coner. i hated when people say that to me but it is true. i took alot of wrong coners and still am. if you r ... (read in full...)

One of my breasts is bigger than the other, is this normal? What's wrong with me?

Q.   i'm almost 16. my one breast is bigger than the other!! why is it like this? wat caused this? will they eventually be the same size when i have grown up properly??? what's wrong with me! my bras feel uncomfortable and i think its noticeable ...

A.   12 March 2007: yes it is there is nothing in this world that are the same. if you feel it is really really noticeable go see your doctor dont worry about it that much (seeing your doctor) they have seen it all before. tell them how your bras feel and c if they can ... (read in full...)

His best friend is a girl and I'm so jealous. How can I overcome this jealousy?

Q.   hi i'm 16. one of my boyfriends best friends is a girl. they are very very close. and i cant help but feel jealous about it. we have a very good relationship and we love each other a lot. but i dont usually see him that often and it kills me know...

A.   12 March 2007: try and be friends with this girl if you can. sometimes poeple are not meant to be friends but try 4 him you might find that you really like her. now you got to ask if you r jealous of her hanging around your boyfriend or are you jealous that ya ... (read in full...)

We seem to be arguing all the time and I don't know what to do for the best. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Q.   Hi, I have been seeing a girl for 7 months now, and we are both in love. But recently we have been arguing again and again, nearly every time we are together. I don't know what to do, i dont think im happy anymore, but she has had a hard time her ...

A.   12 March 2007:  you sed you dont feel happy if you dont then take a break but make sure you tell ya girlfriend that it is just a break not a break up. ask her if she does love you and watch her body when you ask her to see if you can get any clues in the way she ... (read in full...)

Please could you tell me how I stop these dreams and feelings and how I get on with my life without him in my head.

Q.   Hello. I’ve been broken up with my ex-boyfriend for 4 years now. He was my first love and to be completely honest I have never fallen out of love with him. We had a load of relationship problems from fighting, arguing etc. He cheated on me with ...

A.   12 March 2007: you broken up on bad trems and never got over him. if ya can try and see him just for coffee or something you might fine that your eyes are open and you find something that you dont like about him or he changed and you dont know who he is anymore. i ... (read in full...)

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