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writes:Hi i'm really worried.My girlfriend wants to have sex and she said she's virgin. But i'm worried that suppose she had done sex before but she stopped doing it which they are called 'born again virgin', is it true that she will feel tight again and therefore i will feel her break? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): What about your virginity status?
If you are so hung up on a girls virtue and virginty...how about obstaining from sexual intercourse until you are married. This way you don't have to contribute to taking from a young woman what isn't yours to take regardless if she thinks she is prepared to give it.
More often than not, no young woman is prepared and no young woman fully understands the consequences of their life altering decision.
Virginity is like murder in that it can not be given back-no restitution can be made and once gone it is gone indefinitely. How tragic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Why is her virginity even any of your business? It's her body and it's really none of your concern. As long as she has no std's, she's healthy, a lovely person and you both love and respect each other, why are you even asking about this? So if your gf told you she's a virgin..then just believe it. Making love to someone you love and care about, is not about whether she is 'tight or has a hymen that can be broken', dear. It'slike you are treating her like a 'used car' or 'damaged goods'. You are totally and degradingly sexualizing her and you have forgotten she is a person with a heart, a mind, intellect, thoughts and feelings. Put this way of thinking out of your mind and grow up. No woman should ever tolerate being treated like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Thanks for everyone who answered my question. Thanks a lot people
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reader, lamo  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 it might be sore if she has not had sex 4 while but no one a virgin again. you wont feel her break. she might be a little tight but that will soon go after a while. most women will be the same if they have not had sex for a while. just dont go like rabbits. then you will be fine.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Even if she was a virgin you might not feel her "break" as due to gymnastics, tampons and other reasons the hymen becomes stretched sometimes. I for one, did NOT bleed or break.
And if you love the girl it shouldn't matter to you if you "feel her break" or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): why dont you believe her?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Are you for real? Why don't you believe your girlfriend when she tells you she's a virgin? You have some very confused ideas about sex and I strongly advise you to learn more about sex before you start having it.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): No its not true. Once the hymen skin is broken, its broken.
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