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I'm clueless about how to flirt! Any tips?

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Question - (19 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *igcatlover07 writes:

Im 16 and im completely clueless about how to flirt without making it obvious! Can anyone give me tips please?

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A female reader, Farris United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2007):

Farris agony auntWhy would you want to flirt and not make it obvious? Isn't that kind of the point? I thought that you flirt with someone that you find attractive, not only to make them feel good, but to make yourself feel good too. If it's not obvious that it's flirting, then it will just feel like normal conversation to them!

Usually, when I flirt, the way I do it depends on the person. I usually just tease them about certain things that happen to them or are about their personalities (In a light fashion obviously).

Best wishes.

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A female reader, gberygeg United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2007):

gberygeg agony auntmake eye contact. A LOT of eye contact.

and then out of nowhere stop looking.

for a while.

The start up again.

etc...

force urself to feel sexy and u will appear sexy.

Strut...hmm...what else..

laugh at his jokes.

try to act as normal as u can.

if u are not normal then don't be urself....

that is some very misleading advice- be urself...cos if ur not appealing then no guy will find u attractive. We girls have an innate feel for what men like---try to follow that instinct best u can..

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A female reader, lamo United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2007):

lamo agony auntyou might be doing it with out reasiling you are doing it. i flirt all the time and dont reasile i am. be your self and it will come to you. when you like a guy you do it and you dont even know. dont think about it. there may way of flirting e.g through your eyes can be one which everyone looks at. that how my frinds know when i really like a guy. just really be your selfthat the only way really. talk to the guy that you want to flirt with and your body will just do the rest.

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A female reader, brinka United States +, writes (19 March 2007):

brinka agony auntI think you should just try to be yourself, and when you catch yourself being to obvious then quickly stop and think how you could cover it up and have them play along.

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