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writes:i'm almost 16. my one breast is bigger than the other!! why is it like this? wat caused this? will they eventually be the same size when i have grown up properly??? what's wrong with me! my bras feel uncomfortable and i think its noticeable
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reader, HawkinsE  +, writes (17 June 2011):
Hi, I would just like to say that I have had the same issue when I was younger. I still have that issue with my breast. I also would like to know why this is. One of my breast is a size c and the other is an A. I really have a problem with it because it sometimes makes me insercure. I really don't agree with plastic surgery but if I had the money or could save enough (which will be hard since I am a college student) I would like to have my breast done to look more natural or normal. I sometimes ask myself all of the time why most females can have breast that are the same size and i am stuck looking crazy with two different sized breast. If anyone could be of any help of explaining this more to me I would really appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): i have the same problem. i am 14 & my left is a C, my right is a B, & it bugs me soooo bad. i am also lookingg to see if they will even out.
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reader, hatesit +, writes (4 February 2011):
You're normal.
I'm 16, One of my breast is a B one is an A.
Honestly, I never want to be shirtless around my boyfriend.
We've been dating for 9months and still haven't done anything involving me without a shirt, because of how embarassed I am.
Obviously, who wouldn't be?
I always have sharp pains in my left one, my right is bigger.
I noticed its usually the left thats bigger? Hmm different
Anyways I think most girls do have this problem.
Hope we can all get our boobs up to date with the other, ay? good day to you ladies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): most women do not have both breasts of the same size its completely normal and there is nothing wrong with you.
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reader, hey14 +, writes (18 January 2010):
hi. Im 15. almost 16.
im so glad i found this site. i thot i was the only one too.
i thot well maybe its just cuz im still young and i need to grow more but then im like why does this have to happen to me? maybe there is something rong with them.
my left breast is way smaller than my right breast. nd like someone said everyone is talkin about there left one being bigger.
i dont have a bf. but there is a guy ive been talkinto ndwe really like eachother. im not sayin im goin to go have sex with him but if we were to be together nd stay together i dont want him to leave me because of this.
its just really hard.nd i dont know what to do.
i dont want to tell my mom because its embarrassing nd i havent even told her ive gotten my period, nd that was 3 years ago nd she still doesnt kno that. im not the time that will change in front of other girls and all that so idk who to talk to about this.
im sorry this was so long but its confusing and ughhh.. if you could please HELP me id be great
thanks
ohh nd email me cuz i never come on here.
my email is [email address blocked]
please email me. i need help.
thank you all so much fer all your stories. i feel so muuch better knoing im not alone.
i thot i was a freak
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reader, katiekatt +, writes (12 September 2009):
well hun.. don't worry.. it's nothing to worry about.. I'm 19.. and i have the same problem... but it's nothing to worry about cause every woman faces the same problem... to be frank.. it irritates me sometimes.. but sweetness.. it's common... but hun if there's a huge differnce.. you betta go see your doc...!! hope he or she will help you out.. but you actually don't have to worry.. cause no woman has her breasts same in size...!! hope this helped... take care... ciao...!![moderator's note: edited from text speak]
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): I have the same problem. Im almost 15 and i feel like a freak. I dont know, (but hopefully) if it will grow the same size, but i wondered the same exact thing. Im just glad to here that im not the only one. As juvinile as that may sound. I want to know the answer too.
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reader, jazzy12 +, writes (1 July 2009):
my boobs are the same one fits in my bra and the other is to small it is not that your weird but if you have scoliosist and you have to wear a brace then it is completely normal for your boobs to look that way scoliosist is the problem if you have it because one of your bones is popping forward i am barely twelve and sense i am still young my boobs will most likely be the same size if i get rid of this brace soon!!!any more questions just reply to me...
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reader, lizzy3125 +, writes (29 March 2009):
I have also the same problem my left one is bigger than my right one, and that just happen like a year a go, right now i am 20 so i don't really think it depends on age.
I think we should not make a great deal about this one of my friends told me that if a guys makes fun of u about that issue u should tell thm that they got a testicle bigger than the other one, and that's really normal on guys.
So don't worry i guess we just have to deal with it.
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reader, leminice  +, writes (7 January 2009):
im only 14 but ever since i started getting breast my left one has been bigger then my right! ive been freaking out about it for a while.. i dont have a boyfriend but its hard for me to be intimate with guys because i always keep my bra on.. is there any way to fix this, it makes me self confident and i hate it. my mom says its normal and that it should even out but my doctor and mom have been telling me that since i was 11.!!!HELP. i need to fix this some how, is there a way ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): center
omg.
hunni.
i was wondering
if i was the only one.
lol.
but apperantly im not.
yayyyyyyyy.
well its perfectly normal;;
becuzz my moms a nurse &&
i asked her about it
and she says that
almost every young women
goes through that.im only twelve.
so im kinda young to be
replying to this stuff but
lol once i saw this im lyykkkee
OMG.so i hope i answered ur ?.
(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): It means you're totally normal! While boobs come in pairs, they're not always a perfect match. Your two breasts can develop at different rates. This will even out eventually. In the meantime, keep in mind that the difference in size is usually only noticeable to you. If you feel really self-conscious you can pad one side of your bra.
Even after puberty is over, most women's breasts, like the two sides of our faces, differ a little from each other, but it's usually not noticeable to anyone else.
Hope this information helps!
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reader, fresh +, writes (7 June 2008):
It means you're totally normal! While boobs come in pairs, they're not always a perfect match. Your two breasts can develop at different rates. This will even out eventually. In the meantime, keep in mind that the difference in size is usually only noticeable to you. If you feel really self-conscious you can pad one side of your bra.
Even after puberty is over, most women's breasts, like the two sides of our faces, differ a little from each other, but it's usually not noticeable to anyone else.
Hope this information helps!
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reader, fresh +, writes (7 June 2008):
It means you're totally normal! While boobs come in pairs, they're not always a perfect match. Your two breasts can develop at different rates. This will even out eventually. In the meantime, keep in mind that the difference in size is usually only noticeable to you. If you feel really self-conscious you can pad one side of your bra.
Even after puberty is over, most women's breasts, like the two sides of our faces, differ a little from each other, but it's usually not noticeable to anyone else.
Hope this information helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): i've noticed that my left breast is quite a bit larger than my right recently too. its really made me lose a lot of confidence but i think i'm going to go and get properly measured somewhere again and see what i can do to make it less noticable. is there anything a doctor can do or is that a stupid question?! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): hi im 17 ive always loved my breasts and been extremly confident about them and to be honest showed them of alot but about a year ago i started noticing my right breast was slightly larger than the other but didnt reali think much of it but the last 6 months has been hell ... i was trying on bra's with my mum she was sayin i wish i had ur boobs because she is a 32A but then she noticed as soon as i took my bra of that 1 breast was at least a hole cup smaller her face said it all i cried straight away because i then could she wat i was tryin 2 hide for months that yes my left breast is a C cup and my right is a DD ... im at a loss have no idea wat to do my long term realationship is under extreme pressure because i wont get intimate with him any longer and obviously he doesnt no and hes a guy he wudnt undertstand .... wat do i do ?
ive also noticed every 1 sayin that its normal for there left 2 be larger but its my left that has shrunk which scares me ... im worried that ill waste my time at the doctors and that they will jus think im some silly teen ........
i dont no where 2 go from here
x leah x
i no this isnt an answer but im not sure how 2 do my own question : (
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): I'm Really Worried To. I'm 17 An My Left Breast Is Quite Alot Larger That My Right. I'm Very Worred And Confused. I Feel Like A Freak. I've Been With My Boyfriend Over A Year Now And He Has Noticed But Doesn't Care. He Says He Loves Me No Matter What And Im So Glad That He Doesn't Care.
Im Confident And I Like To Wear Low Tops Whenever I Go Out, I've Always Seen That They Have Been A Different Size Becasue My Mum Always Told Me It Was Normal..But Lately My Left One Has Got A Lot Bigger And When I Wear Bras I Think It Looks Weird.
I Heard It's Called Polands Syndrome?
I Dont Understand!!! Why Does This Have To Happen To Me! No1 That I Know Of Has It In My Family..I Guess Im Just Really Unlucky :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Don't feel bad sweetheart! I'm 19 years old and I also have this problem, but mine is a huge difference. I just had a baby about four months ago so I know my breasts are going to be weird for quite a while. They might catch up but then again they may not. Like everyone else has said, bras can help it be less noticeable, actually, My grandma only has one breast. Several years ago she had breast cancer and they had to remove a breast, but she got a special pad for it and she looks totally normal. I've told my husband that I know my breasts are different sizes, but he doesn't care. It's normal and everyone knows it, but we just need to learn to accept ourselves the way we are or if we can't do that, find a way to fix it. I hope you found a way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): IM 15 and have the same problem my right is bigger than the left.so it is normal i sometimes wear padded bras so it wont be to noticable to other ppl... I heard that it doesnt even out to your fully deveolped i also heard that it can be a sign of breast cancer so get it checked out...the thing i know of what to do is to get surgery you get and implant in the one that is smaller to even it out with the other...you can tell your parents and see if they can help...i havent dont that cuz im embarassed but there is no reason to be cuz its normal...maybe you can find a doctor and talk to him/her about, even try to find one online
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Hi anonymus, I have an a cup on my left side and a d cup on my right. It is embarrassing at times and overbearing. I've cried myself to sleep at night, wondering why me?? You should research Polands syndrome. I went 18 long years with no idea what was wrong with me and I discovered a p.s. support site. I highly recommend it. I'm not sure if you look at this account anymore or not but if you want someone to talk to you can email me at [email address blocked]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): MEEEE toooo OMG!! i mean both of my boobs are small but thats because im really skinny n' i'm a size 32a and with my bra on you cant really notice it but whrn i take it off... i feal like a freak!!! we gotta stick together!! by the im 15 about 2 be 16 in august 27th
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): i also have this problem one of my breasts is a C/D cup and the other is a A cup this has been like this for about 2 years and i have finally decided to see the doctor..maybe you should try this also there are things that they can do to help..and also it is called polands syndrome
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): same here i don't know what to do either. you just asked the question fist. im glad you did because now we both can find out!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
I work with naked girls. Really, yes, I do... and let me tell you, none of their boobs look the same and most of them have two different sized breasts. Some are really emphasized and some are less obvious, but no pair of boobs are perfectly symmetrical.
I agree with everyone else, go into a women's underwear boutique (like Victoria's Secret) and they'll surely have a solution for you. Maybe you can get a bra that fits the larger one and then get a pad for the other cup? Lots of bras come with removable padding already in them, just remove one of the pads and not the other?
I see hundreds of naked women. I assure you, you're no different from anyone else, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, lamo  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 yes it is there is nothing in this world that are the same. if you feel it is really really noticeable go see your doctor dont worry about it that much (seeing your doctor) they have seen it all before. tell them how your bras feel and c if they can do. apart from that no one notices. to make you feel better my left one is bigger than my right. i cant win as if i get the bigger size my right looks wried and if i get a smaller one the left pops out. no man has ever sed anything about it and my mate they wud tell me if my ex has since he is my ex and we are really close. i hope this has made you feel better
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): It is a known fact that every woman has a breast bigger than the other. It will even out in time, but one will always be bigger than the other. If there is a huge difference there are bras that you can find that hides the difference and yu can feel more comfortable. Ask your mom to take you to a clothing store, and try out difgferent kinds of bras, experiment.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Well at 15 (almost 16) your body might still be changing, and there's a chance your other breast might catch up in size.
Also, please be aware that our bodies are not completely symmetrical, and if you look at your face in the mirror you will notice that both halves are not exactly the same. To take an extreme example from real life, I can mention that I have a friend who has one leg which has bones which are a bit thicker than the other leg.
It's not that unusual for women to have one breast a bit bigger than the other. If it's uncomfortable for you when you wear a bra, get a bra that fits the bigger breast and put a small gel-pad in the cup of the smaller breast. And next time you go to an underwear boutique you can ask the clerk if she has any clever solutions for your dilemma since doubtlessly she has come across this type of issue before.
Good luck!
/dragonette
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