Her ex is sleeping at her house...
Q. I am in a long distance relationship. She has her ex sleeping over at her house. It's been about a month since she broke up with him. A lot of my friends think she's just using me....
A. 18 March 2011: Honey take it from a woman
There's no reason for a woman to ever be around her ex unless she still wants him... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything for my husband and I don't know if I ever did
Q. Hi, I am a married woman with a major problem. I don't feel anything for my husband anymore. I don't know if I ever felt anything for him. He entered my life at a time where I was very emotionally vulnerable and I craved a relationship. ...
A. 18 March 2011: Yeesh.... You never loved him because you know what love is really supposed to feel like. ... (read in full...)
He acts like my boyfriend...but doesn't want a relationship....
Q. I just don't know what to do... I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to ...
A. 18 March 2011: EXACTLY!! I told him that I cared about him a lot and that I'd never do anything to hurt him. I told him I needed some time and then said something of the lines that he was afraid of me hurting him. Um. I just told you I cared. ... (read in full...)
He acts like my boyfriend...but doesn't want a relationship....
Q. I just don't know what to do... I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to ...
A. 18 March 2011: EXACTLY!! I told him that I cared about him a lot and that I'd never do anything to hurt him. I told him I needed some time and then said something of the lines that he was afraid of me hurting him. Um. I just told you I cared. ... (read in full...)
He used me, hurt me, left me but I still care, how do I get over him?
Q. Dear cupid I know this is long, please please please read it through. I am basically from India and got separated from my husband since he treated me so badly. i got into a relationship with a guy in office, we were friends for sometime and the...
A. 10 November 2010: This worked for me:
Get out a piece of paper. On one side write down all the positives about him and on the other side write down all the negative.
I did it for my ex; had over 100 negatives and like 12 positives... (read in full...)
Seriously... what's going on here???
Q. Seriously I might as well just give vital points: -been seeing each other over a year -get along VERY well -when we're together, he treats me as if im the only one that matters -waited a while before having sex -met his brothers, have yet ...
A. 2 November 2010: Good point
I'm thinking of writing a letter or a poem to break the ice. It's just so obvious when we're together that there's something there. I remember when he felt like we were going too fast he told me about an ex of his that hurt him imme... (read in full...)
My loner personality is pushing away the girl I like.
Q. Ok, so my problem is that I think I like this girl but my loner personality is making me feel like I`m pushing her away. She goes to the same school as me but is in the grade above me. We have some classes that are the same becasue the school is ...
A. 2 November 2010: She likes you, period. I know it may be hard to believe the way you are but she does. If she's willing to try and pry you open try meeting her halfway... (read in full...)
I told my wife I thought about another woman and now she hates me.
Q. I am a very happliy married guy, 2 years married but we have been together for 6, We had a tough few years to begin, with and went to councling and were both very happy with the result, but now i met this other girl, who i dont know and dont want to ...
A. 2 November 2010: I know you wanted to be honest but maybe some things are on a need to know basis. She probably thinks you were GOING to cheat, instead of just honestly saying you found another woman attractive.
Explain it to her the way I did and you may be a... (read in full...)
Is he seeing his ex?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my partner for almost 4 years now. When we first met he would always go on about his ex girlfriend. He would tell me he didnt love me but he did love her straight away he just chipped away at my self confidence but ...
A. 2 November 2010: Honey....he's always wanted her. He's been using you as a placeholder. You've been keeping her spot warm.
What concerns me is that he straight up says he's still in love with her and you still pursue. It sounds to me he was just bidding his time... (read in full...)
I need to move on from my childhood sweetheart who now has another girlfriend
Q. I had a childhood sweetheart whom I grew up with. We've known each other since I was two and he was three. I've loved him the entire time we've known each other. Sadly, I'm twenty and he's twenty one. We grew up together and are going to the same...
A. 2 November 2010: You have to realize that you guys aren't the same people you used to be. People grow, change, and mature. We're not meant to just remain static and grow stagnant (boring right?)
Remind yourself that you now have an opportunity to see what els... (read in full...)
How I should consider her childish vindictive behavior?
Q. Hi I met this girl on myspace 11 months ago and we hit it off instantly then yesterday we had an argument and not even one hour after the argument she typed a spiteful derogatory comment about me in her status update and even typed my real name. ...
A. 2 November 2010: It is a red flag. If this is the way she acts in a disagreement imagine if you were to not call her one day, hang out with friends, etc. I understand she was upset but that is mad childish and clearly very much so an issue. Also consider t... (read in full...)
Puppy love...
Q. hi im 14 and have fallen in love with a teacher at my school. i havnt told any 1 about this because i feel shy. i really need help. he doesnt pay any attention to me and that really bothers me. i love him madly and i cant to forget him. he i...
A. 2 November 2010: I assure you, you're not in love. You dig your teacher and that's ok but you must realize that this is best reserved for fantasy. You guys are at two different stations in life and realistically it would never happen.
Even if it did, that be ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her even although I'm a virgin?
Q. I'm a virgin, and this really attractive, and fairly experienced girl wants to have sex with me.. I really would rather save myself the embarrassment of telling her I'm a virgin, but then she'll probably think I'm just shit in bed, i don't know what ...
A. 2 November 2010: If she actually likes you, it wont matter. Unzip your pants and take a chance!... (read in full...)
I think my girl is paranoid... help!
Q. i absolutely love my gf but lately she's been acting odd, she gets annoyed when i kiss her once and is always on edge thinking that the teachers and security guards at our school are waiting and watching us thinking that once we kiss or hug we'll go ...
A. 2 November 2010: Whoa sit down for this one. She may be cheating on you. For girls, it doesn't matter where we kiss you. Ive kissed in front of my parents and I knew a couple that got demerits for PDA (went to catholic school) What concerns me is her pullin... (read in full...)
Every time he is out with his friends I turn into a HORRIBLE control freak when he doesn't answer my text right away. How can I stop being this way?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we have been living together for about three months. My issue is I have been treating him horribly lately. I get angry at the smallest of things and lash out on him. Every time he is out ...
A. 2 November 2010: Easy, honey. It sounds like you need reassurance in the relationship. You have to realize that just because he goes out with his friends doesn't mean that he's out cheating. You guys are living together. Not too many guys would share their living ... (read in full...)
Why am I hurting so bad when I was the one that ended it?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months last thursday. he called me a bitch for the first(and last)time because i didnt call him wenesday. he had a key to my apt and spent 2 nights a week with me and weekends. we never faught much but when he ...
A. 28 October 2010: We all get over people in our own time, but you were in the right to let him go. I think maybe part of the reason why you can't let go is because you know you hurt his feelings.
Take assessment of how the relationship was. I once had a hard tim... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents understand that I am in love?
Q. (I'm 17 and my girlfriendf is now 18, we're each other's 1st love) I'm EXTREMELY annoyed with my parents! Why? Simple they keep on saying that S is my "friend" and that I don't love her I only like her -.-, if I liked her why would I give her a HE...
A. 28 October 2010: Hey it's ok.
People are under the belief that young people really don't understand love, because it's partly true. They think you're very infatuated with your current steady, but nothing more.
Time will only make them see you're serious a... (read in full...)
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