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writes:I am in a long distance relationship. She has her ex sleeping over at her house. It's been about a month since she broke up with him. A lot of my friends think she's just using me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): The answers I get when I hint around I don't like it is. Hey were friends thats what friends do. also to not worry about it. She is kinda odd in someways and maybe she really doesn't see it as a problem. It bothers me and I feel like when I bring it up she makes me feel like I'm being completely unreasonable about it.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 March 2011):
Let's put this clear. Unless there is a VERY GOOD reason for her letting him sleep over, like "his house collapsed and he doesn't have any other place to go", she's using you.
I guess you asked her why he was staying there. What did she say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Hi
It does sound a little odd and you don't really have much say in the situation because of the distance...maybe you need to speak to the x for yourself.
Hope all works out well :)
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reader, LaDiabla13 +, writes (18 March 2011):
Honey take it from a woman
There's no reason for a woman to ever be around her ex unless she still wants him
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 I hate to say it but even if she isn't doing anything with him the situation does not look good for her at all and she should know that. I wouldn't stay with her based on that thing alone because of how bad it looks.
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