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He acts like my boyfriend...but doesn't want a relationship....

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Question - (18 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *aDiabla13 writes:

I just don't know what to do...

I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to talk to me about cars lol This guy would brag about me to his friends and told them I was "his equal".

It wasnt immediately sexual. The first time we tried, he stopped me, citing that it would be better to wait. I agreed and said, "I don't want to have sex with you anyway...I wanna make love to you...."

I went away to college and we remained in contact for a good bit. No sex until months later after talking to me throughout my last semester classes.

I didn't feel used. I felt like I was making love...

This guy acts like my boyfriend. All the times I'm with him, he caters to me. He tells me about all of his comings and goings, his plans, he even told me of a tattoo that he wants to get.

This guy even brought me coffee in bed and we made breakfast together. Mind you, we didn't have sex the previous night.

But he told me he doesn't want a relationship....

Why?

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A female reader, LaDiabla13 United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

LaDiabla13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

EXACTLY!! I told him that I cared about him a lot and that I'd never do anything to hurt him. I told him I needed some time and then said something of the lines that he was afraid of me hurting him. Um. I just told you I cared.

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A female reader, LaDiabla13 United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

LaDiabla13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

EXACTLY!! I told him that I cared about him a lot and that I'd never do anything to hurt him. I told him I needed some time and then said something of the lines that he was afraid of me hurting him. Um. I just told you I cared.

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A male reader, helpOut.GuY United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2011):

helpOut.GuY agony auntwhat dos he mean. your in one!

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