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How I should consider her childish vindictive behavior?

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Question - (2 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi I met this girl on myspace 11 months ago and we hit it off instantly then yesterday we had an argument and not even one hour after the argument she typed a spiteful derogatory comment about me in her status update and even typed my real name. That turned me off so bad because I was so glad that I had finally found a classy girl. She knows I like her a lot and she says she likes me likes me a lot also and we've even talked about being a couple but today all I've been thinking about is if she is trouble and really not the kind of girl I want to be in a relationship with. Can someone give me some insight about how I should consider her childish vindictive behavior and if is a red flag about the type of girl she is?????????????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

What a pathetic thing to do! making comments about you on myspace is just low, dump her! you dont need this kind of treatment, and if she does it once she will do it again if you let her get away with it.

i have been in a relationship like this years ago with this guy who would send me really hurtful and offensive text messages, i kept forgiving him, the texts kept getting worse, in the end i just completely lost respect for him.

It is such a childish and pathetic thing to do to post nasty comments either on myspace , facebook or just on text message, these people would not say it to your face, they would not have the guts to! yet they still think by doing it they have somehow got one over on you! she is not worth your time.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHow old is this chick? Have you met her in person yet? If she's the same range as you, then she should most definitely be past the pettiness of posting comebacks in her status directed to you. I can't believe she used your name, that's really childish. Honestly, I peg her as being the childish, petty, immature "I got to get the last word in" drama queen. Yeah everyone fights, but there's no need to broadcast it on Myspace.

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A female reader, LaDiabla13 United States +, writes (2 November 2010):

It is a red flag.

If this is the way she acts in a disagreement imagine if you were to not call her one day, hang out with friends, etc. I understand she was upset but that is mad childish and clearly very much so an issue.

Also consider this: you guys haven't dated that long and she's already acting like this

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