We've been talking for 8 months and still no sex!
Q. I need help..Ive been talking to this girl for about almost 8 months and we havent had sex yet. She telling me to wait and I'll ask for it when i want too. Im really into this girl, always bring her out, pay, buy surprise gifts and love talking to ...
A. 8 July 2015: I agree with Tisha-1. It sounds to me like you have been pressuring her, even if you don't mean to. I would be put off if a guy kept asking me to have sex with them when I'd told them I wanted to wait. In fact, it would make me feel less comfortable ... (read in full...)
My parents will not respect my privacy and I don't know how to respond to their intrusiveness. What can I say?
Q. I am an adult woman who is still currently living with my parents while I'm still in college. My issue is my parents are very nosey and are always wanting to be in my business and I don't really understand why. This has start to become very stre...
A. 7 July 2015: Yes I can see how very frustrating that must be but I can also understand their desire to want to know everything going on with their daughter, even if their methods of finding out aren't the most moral. I moved out when I was 18 because I hated ... (read in full...)
How do I inform my family I'm moving in with my Bf?
Q. As of lately things between my mother and i have grown increasingly more strained. It has gotten to a point where we had a very big agrument and she refused to see what i was telling her. I was telling her that her opiate abuse had taken a heavy ...
A. 7 July 2015: Perhaps your boyfriend could be there with you when you tell them to support you? I think maybe telling them individually might also help you as then you don't have to deal with them both at the same time. However, if you think the one you tell ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I am the invisible girlfriend. What's the best action I could take to fix this?
Q. OK this is a bit of a difficult one, About 2 months ago my boyfriends friends bullied me badly on a night out, they were drunk whilst I was sober, and ended up shutting me outside the flat of my boyfriend and his best friend, as a cruel joke. M...
A. 7 July 2015: Oh sweetie, this must be so so awful for you! Your boyfriend needs to fix this though, not you. The way his friends are treating you shows they don't have a lot of respect for him either, never mind yourself. They should treat you nicely as their ... (read in full...)
His flirting with girls is driving me to distraction. What can I say to him?
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend is a very flirty/charming and talkative person, thus is how we got together two years ago. However he still does it, he still flirts with girls, winking at them in person and via message. He somehow feels li...
A. 6 July 2015: Explain to him that you don't have a problem with him being friends with girls but the language he is using is disloyal and disrespectful to you. Ask him how he would like it if you went around telling guys they were hot and winking at them? It ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these negative emotions (lack of trust) while engaging in a possible relationship with this new guy?
Q. I have severe trust issues due to an absolutely HORRIBLE 5 year real-life relationship that I got out of 4 months ago. 2 months ago I met this man on xbox while playing a game and we hit off instantly. The connection we share is unlike anything I've ...
A. 2 July 2015: Please don't let your past relationship spoil your new one. It's caused you enough hurt without letting it continue to ruin things for you. I do think it's good that at least you acknowledge you are being unreasonable and that your new guy isn't ... (read in full...)
I've looked forward all year to going into the ocean but because of recent shark attacks my mother is forbidding it!
Q. This isn't exactly about a romantic relationship,but I'm really hurting and hope you will please help me. It's hurting me a lot. I've got a dilemna. I'm from the coast, and the ocean was always a big part of our lifestyle, and I never had any ...
A. 2 July 2015: Im having a similar issue with my own mother. I'm in my early twenties and have spent the last year living in Alexandria, Egypt. I came back to the UK last week, 3 days before the attacks in Tunisia. I was only planning on coming back for 2 weeks ... (read in full...)
Why my ex remodel the house exactly as I'd always wanted, but he never did it until after I left him?
Q. I got divorce last year, it was my idea. My ex didn't take it well and basically dragged me trough hell with himself. I see him regularly because we have a 7 years old daughter. He is still hurt and he and his family did their best to destroy me a...
A. 2 July 2015: I think there could be a few possible reasons for him doing this now. Perhaps he thought it might persuade you to come back to him if you saw that he is capable of doing the things you asked. In which case, I think it's too little too late- you ... (read in full...)
Cheating online boyfriend
Q. I met a guy on a dating site in another state in July 2012 who lived on the other side of the country. Well After September and talking everyday on the phone we said we'd be exclusive and 'date'. We chatted and talked everyday on the phone, sent ...
A. 1 July 2015: Don't waste another second of your life on this guy. Telling you he did it because he doubted whether you would ever come meet him is NOT a good excuse! he should have had faith in you or he should have made an effort to come to you. And if he ... (read in full...)
Ladies: How much pain do you feel during first time sex?
Q. Hi everyone Hope you all are fine. I am gonna marry next month.I had never sex in my life. I just watched some porn videos. I wamted to know especially from female how much pain you feel during wedding night sex!!! my gf told me that she scared ...
A. 29 June 2015: First of all, congratulations on your wedding! Is it very important to you that you have full, vaginal sex on your wedding night? Or would you be open to taking things a little slower and waiting until you are both entirely ready? I'm just ... (read in full...)
20 never had a boyfriend..am I that ugly? invisible?
Q. What's so bad about me? Am I that ugly? Am I that invisible. It's so frustrating that I'm almost 21 and have never had a boyfriend and never had the opportunity to experience love. I feel like guys don't even see me or they just don't care. I ...
A. 28 June 2015: You're 20 years old honey! Stop worrying! You're not behind. But what I do think is important is to learn to be happy on your own and love yourself before you get in a relationship anyway. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else ... (read in full...)
Should I still go on seeing this man?
Q. I am recently widowed and have bumped into a man I met about 30 years ago who is also single and an OAP like me. The problem is I do not trust him, we have been going out together for about 18 month now and we have become intimate. He likes ball...
A. 26 June 2015: Yes, you are right. Don't waste anymore time with him. He doesn't deserve you and will just end up hurting you. He doesn't seem to respect or appreciate you. Leave now with your dignity and pride still intact. Good luck! ... (read in full...)
Can't arouse boyfriend fully
Q. We have been dating a year now and have always had sexual problems. First he always kind of laid there and did nothing, he said it was because he didn't want me to feel uncomfortable. Second, he never touched me or initiated anything with me, he ...
A. 26 June 2015: I don't think it's you honey. I think he would have this problem with whoever he was with. It may be to do with blood circulation or a psychological barrier because he feels pressure to get hard. A LOT of guys, when they first start having sex ... (read in full...)
He's amicably seperated but procrastinates about divorce
Q. I am in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend has been seperated and not living with his wife for five years, they have no kids. We have been dating for 3 and a half years. My boyfriend and his ex are friends and as a child of divorced parents ...
A. 26 June 2015: I don't understand his excuses for not divorcing her. if they have been separated for 5 years and presumably she knows about you then I rather doubt she would find the news that he wants to finalize their divorce so surprising or upsetting. Surely ... (read in full...)
Why would he discuss plans and say he loves me, yet soon after he blocked me?
Q. Why did he want something serious and then disappear and block me? I met this guy online. We hit it off and had an instant connection. After talking for a month, we met in person. He met my friends and hung out with us a few times. We connected an...
A. 24 June 2015: Yes that is a very strange way to behave. Have you tried getting in touch with him? Does he ignore your calls and texts? Even if he has changed his mind about you being together you deserve to be told and given an explanation. My feeling is he is ... (read in full...)
Is this bullying? Jealousy?
Q. I work with an older woman and she is quite an honest person. But there is honesty , and then there is going too far. I don't understand what her issue can be with me. She's always criticising my hair. ( I have a few split ends, a lot of people d...
A. 18 June 2015: Yes, I think it definitely sounds like jealousy. Have any of the other people in the office commented on the way she speaks to you? I would just tell her that whilst you appreciate her honesty, you would prefer her to keep her opinions to herself ... (read in full...)
My friends are moving on and I am jealous!
Q. So last September, my friends all went off to college while I stayed at my school to do my A-levels there. But since then, literally none have them have talked to me. At all. I understand that they've made new friends that they'll see pret...
A. 15 June 2015: Oh Sweetie! There are so many things I want to say to you but I will try and keep this short. First of all I do understand it must feel horrible for you to feel left behind but I don't think you are being entirely fair on your friends. Have yo... (read in full...)
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